When I see people earning even 40k married with 2 children I always feel as if something is wrong with me.

pocohantas:
Then continue your bachelor's life. It is not compulsory to get married.



Nothing is wrong with you, but if you think something is wrong with you - you should probably open up on that.

layzie:
Well, the earlier u get married the better for u. It's always better to start raising children when u re younger.
Unless u have decided not to marry at all, which is still fine.

ufotty2001:
only problem I have now is that people are now asking me this regular questions " wouldn't you get married"

pocohantas:


Give them irregular answers like, "Jesus never married- call me the Messiah"

2kaybiel:
You're not alone, part of the reason you see some guys at 40 just getting married. See, you are the master of your own ship. Don't feel like something is wrong with you.

And if you finally decide to have a girlfriend, make you select the one that will give you peace of mind. Girl that has understanding should be your watchword.

UyaiIncomparabl:

Myzzyfrazzy:
lets leave marriage first what do you do with your urges as a 35 year old unmarried girlfriendless man . not that i support fornication but how do you do it (stay without thinking of s3x)

2kaybiel:
You're not alone, part of the reason you see some guys at 40 just getting married. See, you are the master of your own ship. Don't feel like something is wrong with you.

And if you finally decide to have a girlfriend, make you select the one that will give you peace of mind. Girl that has understanding should be your watchword.

ufotty2001:

Am a graduate, also I got qualified as a Chartered Accountant last year, currently am earning 120k per month, Am staying in one room apartment rent of N85k.. have Managed to save up to a N1m as savings.
When I see people earning even 40k married with 2 children I always feel as if something is wrong with me.

truthsayer009:


God help this country. Why is a Chartered Accountant earning 120k. God why?

Are you sure you are a real Chartered Accountant

2kaybiel:
You're not alone, part of the reason you see some guys at 40 just getting married. See, you are the master of your own ship. Don't feel like something is wrong with you.

And if you finally decide to have a girlfriend, make you select the one that will give you peace of mind. Girl that has understanding should be your watchword.

ufotty2001:
Hello Nairalanders!
Please, I really need your advice most especially from matured men and women. Am a kind of person that don't like associating with ladies because I see them has distractions right from my University time now this has become part of my lifestyle am absolutely addicted to it.
This year will make me 35yrs old I don't have a girlfriend also I don't still have interest of becoming a married man yet reason because am still chasing my career and money.
Am a graduate, also I got qualified as a Chartered Accountant last year, currently am earning 120k per month, Am staying in one room apartment rent of N85k.. have Managed to save up to a N1m as savings.
When I see people earning even 40k married with 2 children I always feel as if something is wrong with me.