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Poll: If you support LIMITATIONS..what should be limited in your relationship?SEX: 9% (15 votes)MONEY: 6% (11 votes) FAMILY INTERFERENCES: 52% (87 votes) FRIENDS/SOCIALIZATION/GOING OUT: 8% (14 votes) AFFECTIONS: 0% (1 vote) PHONE CALLS/CARDS/GIFTS: 3% (5 votes) CHILDREN/FAMILY PLANNING: 4% (8 votes) MATERIAL THINGS: 15% (25 votes) This poll has ended |
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| Limits And Relationships by MrsEve2(f): 5:07pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
Hello Peeps! This may come off wrong and misunderstood but I have noticed that SOME people complained when their spouses or mates call them too much during work or when they are out and about. A friend of mine was complaining that her husband never send her love texts or love notes when she hear other women shared that she always let us know that her husband doesn't do it for her. A male friend of mine was complaining that his girlfriend want sex all the time and she want to be cuddle afterward. Another male friend of mine complained the opposite that he doesn't get enough sex from his girlfriend and thinks she cheating on him. So basically, what is the limits in your relationship? Do you appreciate your husband or wife calling you excessively at work or when you out about? Do you think there should be a limit on how often have intimacy during the week, month, day, or year? If your mate or spouse were to flourish you with the things that they used to do would you be concern and wonder why they stopped? What is THE LIMITS in your relationship, or you don't have a limit? |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by iice(f): 5:18pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
The calling thing is me  Please don't bombard me with calls. Most people just talk for talking sake. . .i don't want to hear, i don't care. Limit it to the salient points and keep it brief. If i want to know more, i will ask you. |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by kokoye(m): 5:21pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
I got no limits. You can call and I dont have to pick up. . .but please understand that I aint cheating on you or ignoring you. I'm just busy with work and cannot afford to be interrupted at that time. It is OK to ask for intimacy whenever - you are the chosen one. But it is also ok to let you understand (with love) that this body is tired and needs some rest. |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by jaybee3(m): 5:26pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
Phone calls for me. I just feel i'm being monitored for nothing cos i'm always home |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by degubi(m): 5:27pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
No i do not have a limit. But if my better half has limitations i try to adjust. |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by MrsEve2(f): 5:29pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
jay bee: Awww! A home body! Well, my husband is like that Jaybee, he go out when he needs to but he rather be in bed under me watching a movie or two (well eventually the movies end up watching us)  |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by Dsense(m): 5:30pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
op. I don't really have limit in my relationship . . .Though i don't like my half calling or disturbing me with telephone calls all the time . .I get pissed off quickly and might respond roughly! As for intercouse . . .No limit . . . .No limit!!! |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by Phate07(m): 5:31pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
Children should be limited. Two max!  1 Like |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by OFlo: 5:33pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
There shouldn't be any limits, ur partner has a life too, so if they keep calling, its because they're bored and are the interesting thing thing they could think of. Ask yourself this: How would I react if I found out that she was 'pestering' some other guy? Besides, that pestering might actually be what makes your whole day. Let it go and you MIGHT miss it. |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by MrsEve2(f): 5:33pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
D-sense: Why aren't I surprised! Hey suga!  Yes, I don't mind my husband calling me and things but when my husband calls me he don't just call and leave a message he will call and call until I answer the phone because he think something is wrong with me! When I do call back he always say I was on my way over to the job because I was worry! Did I mention my husband is a worrier? He is so protective well most African men are anyways. |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by MrsEve2(f): 5:35pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
iice: Yes! I agree! I hate it when my friends call me rambling I am like chile tell me what you want me to know that is IMPORTANT, that girl I was at the store and I saw so and so he was this and that, I DON'T CARE BITCH!  Don't you hate that? |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by MrsEve2(f): 5:36pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
Phate07: If you don't get them sperm thingie in order you won't just have TWO KIDS MAX!  |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by iice(f): 5:37pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
O-Flo: If you are Jesus, not everyone else is. Nor do everyone else wish to be. He can pester someone else if he wishes to. |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by Carolece(f): 5:38pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
Friends/socializing/outgoing. Material things. Those are the two that would get my vote. When you are settled, the most time spent should be with your partner. For me, ALL outgoing should be stopped unless its US. Not controlling, but thats the way it would be on my end, so I would expect it to be the same way on your end. This boils down to me (as I've said over and over) I will NEVER have a man/husband for too many reasons. |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by iice(f): 5:39pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
Mrs, Eve: For real. Like 20mins of rambling. . .very irritating. |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by slymm(f): 5:42pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
i can not for the life of me stand clingy me, i need space, you see, sometimes i switch off my phone because i want to throw the damn thing against the wall, sometimes i want to sit alone with a bottle of beer watching greys anatomy, please try to find something to do with yourself during my alone time, i do not mind calls, but do not interrogate and nag me if i do not pick up your call, no clinging, noo dictating who my friends are, no going through my stuff, heckshut the damn door when you are taking a dump. As for sex, you can havve me anytime, anyplace, anywhere, |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by Dyt(f): 5:45pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
Hmmmm hmmmmm limits? Sighs well i dont think i do v any so long d love is still burnin in my chest i can accept anyth n everyth @ dat tym |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by iice(f): 5:47pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
slymm:^^Erhhh i'm a bit like that  I don't like being crowded too |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by maninmood(m): 6:54pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
Family interferences |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by PupetMasta(m): 6:55pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
All of the above. I barely stand above average not to talk of excessive. |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by buzugee(m): 6:58pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
sex with one person for the rest of your life can be very trying so it is in the best interest of the couple to ration it so you dont get tired of it faster. ration it to like say once a week as per calling anyhow ? thats just crazy, juvenile, stalkerish and irresponsible. stop stifling your partner. you will see them when they get home. stop calling unless you are involved in some kinda fracas and you lost a kidney in the fracas |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by Nobody: 7:04pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
^^^ bobo yi o sure pe o normal sha ? |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by buzugee(m): 7:06pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
naijababe:i fink so luv |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by Nobody: 7:09pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
Possessive men do ma head in arrghhh!!! Where were you? Who did you talk to? Who's on the phone? I absolutely can't stand it |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by kokoye(m): 7:13pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
^^^ You have no business hanging with such a man in the first place. It never gets better |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by buzugee(m): 7:14pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
naijababe:possessive men are more passionate in the bedroom. their passionate ravishing of their partner in the bedroom knows no bounds. it is that passion that spills over into their everyday lives that makes them possessive. better get you a possessive man gurl |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by tunde121oke: 7:17pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
yes i was right |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by Nobody: 7:19pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
Make dem keep their passion jor!!! Make one man no police me jare |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by buzugee(m): 7:20pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
lol |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by Tolulop001(f): 7:24pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
i totally dislike u getting all in ma biz, tryna run ma life. . . men are truly from mars, they just wanna fix everything but im complaining to u cuz i want u to say sorry hon, it will be fine, not take over the running of ma freaking life |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by buzugee(m): 7:31pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
Tolulop001:mayne, yall are a bunch of wacked out lunatics. why complain to me if you dont want me to fix the issue ? what do i look like ? a punching bag ? just unleash on me while i sit down and take it all in without doing nothing ? mayne, yall is some crazy mahfukaz. i have a better solution for you. buy a cat and then tell your cat all your woes. the cat will simply stare at you and after your rant, he is off to look for mice to snack on. |
| Re: Limits And Relationships by Nobody: 7:34pm On Dec 07, 2010 |
kokoye:Me I was born with good sense I never had time nor tolerated losers |
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