My fiance is out of the country for 3 years now and he said he will be coming back next year christmas and once he comes back we get married.A lot of guys has been disturbing me 4 either marriage or friendship but when i tell them am engaged they will look at my finger and say is not true cos am not with any ring,meanwhile i dont want to put any ring on my finger by myself & i told my guy abt it he said i should'nt worry dt he will send a ring 4 me so that when he comes back and see the ring he will know that is his but since then he has'nt sent the ring 4 me and more guys are still coming.Should i leave him and go on with my life or should i be patient with him?

Ow old r u?

What is he out of the country for ? School ? Work ? Do you really believe he is coming back ?

U need a chill pill for a while,that's if u rly trust him.

Remind him about the ring and hear what he'll say i guess you'll know what next from there.

10ks freecocoa

you have to remind him of it and know what he would say,but if he is not forth coming with any useful response my advise is to search yourself if you are willing to go through the waiting game. cheers

Am grateful Karjard

better still, go buy a fancy ring and start wearing it on the engagement finger.

Dont force a man to buy you a ring. But take off the ring before he arrives though - so his cheap sef wont roll with the flow

Consult Yahoo.com . . . . .They have the sweetest answer

@poster
if you seriously need a ring to be able to tell all these guys "what time it is" then i am safe to say that you probably aint ready. the fact that you even bother worrying about what these guys think is .
here is something for you to consider:
ring or not, you should KNOW that this man is who you want to marry and no one else therefore: A) an insignificant ring shouldnt make any difference unless you are not strong enough to simply turn men down (a woman truly in love would have NO problem doing that) B) you shouldnt waste valuable time in your life giving explanation to silly "strangers" asking why you dont have a ring C) the fact that a simple ring issue (to keep other men away) is such a concern to you, that you would want to drop this relationship, shows us all that you are definitely NOT READY to marry this man.

forget the guy, love across thousands of miles doesnt work for unromantic 9ja men.
ur so-called fiance is probably fucking a white chic where ever he is  

@mr cork

@Mrbrownjay Your IQ is overflowing

if u luv him keep waiting 4 him,
GOD'S time is de best.
Ask 4 de ring, get a ring 4 ur self.