Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Nobody: 9:50pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
If i'm chatting with a girl and she replies me with "k" or "yeah" we're done. I normally starts ignoring them from then on. I have countless numbers of white girls as friends and they never chat like that. Not just white girls, even girls from other African countries are much more lively than Nigerian girls.
That was my chat with a white friend. Look at the way she flows. Not some dumb kind of chat with most Nigeria girls. 4 Likes
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Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by YusufTheGreat: 9:52pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Ardar: Most Nigerian men I chat with always ask me the same boring dumb questions like, " did you eat today" "What did you eat this afternoon" "How was your night" "I hope you dreamt good dreams"
The annoying thing is not the questions itself but the number of times am been asked the same thing by one person.
Now, you don't see women opening threads and whining about Nigerian Men because of this.
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If you don't want boring answers, stop asking dumb questions.
what is dumb is asking about the food You ate? What is dumb in asking if you slept well? What is dumb in asking if you dreamt a good dream? You think its easy to toast a Nigerian girl or keep a conversation going with a Nigeria girls? Believe me if you ask girls from other countries the respones will be sweet And she ll be grateful that he cares. 4 Likes |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Funkyswagzz(m): 9:53pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Ardar: Most Nigerian men I chat with always ask me the same boring dumb questions like, " did you eat today" "What did you eat this afternoon" "How was your night" "I hope you dreamt good dreams"
The annoying thing is not the questions itself but the number of times am been asked the same thing by one person.
Now, you don't see women opening threads and whining about Nigerian Men because of this.
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If you don't want boring answers, stop asking dumb questions.
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Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Funkyswagzz(m): 9:54pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Ardar: Most Nigerian men I chat with always ask me the same boring dumb questions like, " did you eat today" "What did you eat this afternoon" "How was your night" "I hope you dreamt good dreams"
The annoying thing is not the questions itself but the number of times am been asked the same thing by one person.
Now, you don't see women opening threads and whining about Nigerian Men because of this.
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If you don't want boring answers, stop asking dumb questions.
If I ask u to initiate an interesting conversation without being boring.. can u do that? How many times have u picked up a good conversation with a guy u like on social media even tho the guy is not interested in chatting with u? U guys are always on the recieving end which makes it more boring. |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Toria26: 9:58pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
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Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by yetunsbay(m): 10:00pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Ardar: Most Nigerian men I chat with always ask me the same boring dumb questions like, " did you eat today" "What did you eat this afternoon" "How was your night" "I hope you dreamt good dreams"
The annoying thing is not the questions itself but the number of times am been asked the same thing by one person.
Now, you don't see women opening threads and whining about Nigerian Men because of this.
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If you don't want boring answers, stop asking dumb questions.
why must it be male that will initiate the convo. Why can't you start it & maintain 2 Likes |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by ashawopikin(m): 10:00pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Ardar: Most Nigerian men I chat with always ask me the same boring dumb questions like, " did you eat today" "What did you eat this afternoon" "How was your night" "I hope you dreamt good dreams"
The annoying thing is not the questions itself but the number of times am been asked the same thing by one person.
Now, you don't see women opening threads and whining about Nigerian Men because of this.
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If you don't want boring answers, stop asking dumb questions.
see dis one
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Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by ashawopikin(m): 10:01pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Ardar: Most Nigerian men I chat with always ask me the same boring dumb questions like, " did you eat today" "What did you eat this afternoon" "How was your night" "I hope you dreamt good dreams"
The annoying thing is not the questions itself but the number of times am been asked the same thing by one person.
Now, you don't see women opening threads and whining about Nigerian Men because of this.
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If you don't want boring answers, stop asking dumb questions.
see dis one
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Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by ashawopikin(m): 10:04pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
AfroKnight: Bro, once a girl starts to chat with you like she’s doing you a favour, just pull the damn plug. You should not be involved with entitled dumbass girls like this one.
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They go about with an air of self importance, and that attracts you cos they appear confident and men find that attractive, but they are really just shiny baubles. When you scratch the surface, you’d discover the unimpressive core.
What’s worse, they defend this shît, thinking the classy women they hope to emulate are unintelligent bores too. They couldn’t be any further from the truth. They want us to accept them with their bullshît, saying it’s reality. Thats just simplistic nonsense.
It’s a let down, but some guys need to wade through tons of garbage to get to gold.
Don’t settle for less man. Cheers. I support this comment with these drinks 2 Likes
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Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by imam07: 10:05pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Ardar: Most Nigerian men I chat with always ask me the same boring dumb questions like, " did you eat today" "What did you eat this afternoon" "How was your night" "I hope you dreamt good dreams"
The annoying thing is not the questions itself but the number of times am been asked the same thing by one person.
Now, you don't see women opening threads and whining about Nigerian Men because of this.
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If you don't want boring answers, stop asking dumb questions.
But if he keeps requesting for ur bank account and be sending money to u always, he will not be boring to u abi. U girls only chat with guys who will give u something. |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Nobody: 10:05pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Now this right here is a very dumb girl. It's only a dumb somebody that would fault basic questions. Ardar: Most Nigerian men I chat with always ask me the same boring dumb questions like, " did you eat today" "What did you eat this afternoon" "How was your night" "I hope you dreamt good dreams"
The annoying thing is not the questions itself but the number of times am been asked the same thing by one person.
Now, you don't see women opening threads and whining about Nigerian Men because of this.
Modified
If you don't want boring answers, stop asking dumb questions.
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Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Nobody: 10:09pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
realokopi: Now this right here is a very dumb girl. It's only a dumb somebody that would fault basic questions. The average male nairalander always resorts to insults cuz he can't offer anything else, if this comment of yours is not a typical example of dumb, then I know don't what is. 1 Like |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Funkyswagzz(m): 10:10pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
realokopi: If am chatting with a girl and she replies me with "k" or "yeah" we're done. I normally starts ignoring them from then on. I have countless numbers of white girls as friends and they never chat like that. Not just white girls, even girls from other African countries are much more lively than Nigerian girls.
That was my chat with a white friend. Look at the way she flows. Not some dumb kind of chat with most Nigeria girls. Bro it's really annoying I swear.. i tut it's only me that feels that way |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Nobody: 10:13pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
If you interpreted what I said as an insult then I even underestimated your dumbness Ardar:
The average male nairalander always resorts to insults cuz he can't offer anything else, if this comment of yours is not a typical example of dumb, then I know don't what is. 2 Likes |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Nobody: 10:15pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
imam07: But if he keeps requesting for ur bank account and be sending money to u always, he will not be boring to u abi. U girls only chat with guys who will give u something. Come who are these girls that you guys keep chatting with? Which one is requesting for bank account? Uncle if a girl request for money tell her there and then that YOU DON'T HAVE OR THAT YOU'RE NOT GIVING abi is it that difficult? I taught you men were intelligent while women were dumb bi.tches with fish brain, so what's the issue here? After dashing ladies free money, you all will come here to rant about how Nigerian women are materialistic, always asking for money. SMH |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by kecee99(m): 10:20pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
MrCork:
U don't like women & I really really really really hope u ain't gay sir!![/color] ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) If you truly claim to like women, You should not see them as sex objects whom you can easily maneuver for your own satisfaction and pleasure. That aren't like but an avid lust. ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Nobody: 10:22pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
realokopi: If you interpreted what I said as an insult then I even underestimated your dumbness Really? realokopi post=86054788: Now this right here is a very dumb girl. It's only a dumb somebody that would fault basic questions. I guess calling me a dumb girl is not an insult in that shallow brain of yours. |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by ruggedtimi(m): 10:22pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
kollinzgee: Am not here to bash women as it is always done here but I want to address an issue which is becoming a problem amongst our women. In the past I used to believe when you are chatting with a girl and she replies you with monosyllables like k,lol,hmm, and the rest it means she isn't into you just let her be but now i am even more confused than ever because even all my girlfriends who i am sure loves me even do the same and the I was forced to ask them why but I never got a straight logical answer..i keep hearing things like I am the boring one I adhered to this advice I improved my chatting skills yet I still got the same result I laughed..when a girl replies with the k or lol I just burst into laughter.
If you are a Nigerian lady reading this writeup and your communicating this way then you are literally shooting yourself in the leg..if you are in a relationship and you do this your are sitting on a time bomb even if your boyfriend is not complaining just wait and see.if you think it's a mind Game you are playing it will not benefit you because there are many women available this days . I have broken up with many girls in the past I never told them it was because of this because to me when the communication is poor I loose interest gradually. A man is first attracted to a woman's looks but this attraction will fade away with time.It is now her personality traits that will keep the relationship going.if good communication skills are not including in those traits the men will subconsciously assume you have nothing to offer and move on. ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) change or prepare for the worst.
jst indulge in yahoo and see how clients chat especially chinese ladies, u go leave nigeria girls |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Nobody: 10:30pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Point of correction, I didn't just say you were dumb. Your comment reflected your dumbness. And since dumb people don't actually know they are dumb I decided to echo it out for you to know the state of your intellect. But of course you wouldn't still understand because you actually have an empty head sitting on your neck. So sorry I didn't evaluate you from the onset. Ardar:
Really?
I guess calling me a dumb girl is not an insult in that shallow brain of yours.
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Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Bigseven(m): 10:31pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Inside this life, This dude said he has broke up with MANY gals in the past... does it mean he's a male olosho? I cant fit understand.. Because ''i dnt like this one, i dont like that one'' Na so olosholism take dey start o.. ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) 1 Like |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by AfroKnight: 10:34pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
ashawopikin: I support this comment with these drinks Cheers. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 1 Like
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Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
realokopi: Point of correction, I didn't just say you were dumb. Your comment reflected your dumbness. And since dumb people don't actually know they are dumb I decided to echo it out for you to know the state of your intellect. But of course you wouldn't still understand because you actually have an empty head sitting on your neck. So sorry I didn't evaluate you from the onset. If you had read that comment without bitterness and frustration before quoting and insulting me, you'd have clearly seen where I wrote that the questions itself was not bad but always asking the same thing that is completely unnecessary makes the chat boring. |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Why would I read your comment with bitterness and frustration? Aren't you being sensitive right now? ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) You should be happy I categorized you as being dumb cos they're other worst names that clearly describes you that I should have called you instead but I didn't cos I know you are more bitter and frustrated than I so I wouldn't want to add more to your predicament. Ardar:
If you had read that comment without bitterness and frustration before quoting and insulting me, you'd have clearly seen where I wrote that the questions itself was not bad but always asking the same thing that is completely unnecessary makes the chat boring. 2 Likes |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by AfroKnight: 10:46pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
realokopi: If i'm chatting with a girl and she replies me with "k" or "yeah" we're done. I normally starts ignoring them from then on. I have countless numbers of white girls as friends and they never chat like that. Not just white girls, even girls from other African countries are much more lively than Nigerian girls.
That was my chat with a white friend. Look at the way she flows. Not some dumb kind of chat with most Nigeria girls. I tire. Brotherly, if to say we never relate with women of other nationalities, we go dey think say na so all woman be. Many Naija girls need to learn to have actual conversations. They would just leave everything to the guy. Maybe they are afraid to sound dumb sha (I doubt that). But for me, once she switches to monosyllabic/dead replies, bye bye. Abeg. I don’t have strength to polish a turd. |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Mrmezico(m): 10:48pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Stop being d 1st 2 iniate d chat evrytime, learn 2 form busy, even wen d chart wana become boring, neva mind, just be watching pics only nd dnt coment nor like dia pics, dnt be quick 2 reply dia mesages if any comes...do this 4 only 2 weeks nd c wonder. dnt 4get 2 thank me later |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
I tell you brother ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) AfroKnight:
I tire.
Brotherly, if to say we never relate with women of other nationalities, we go dey think say na so all woman be.
Many Naija girls need to learn to have actual conversations. They would just leave everything to the guy. Maybe they are afraid to sound dumb sha (I doubt that). But for me, once she switches to monosyllabic/dead replies, bye bye.
Abeg. I don’t have strength to polish a turd. 2 Likes |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Nobody: 10:54pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
realokopi: Why would I read your comment with bitterness and frustration? Aren't you being sensitive right now? ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) You should be happy I categorized you as being dumb cos they're other worst names that clearly describes you that I should have called you instead but I didn't cos I know you are more bitter and frustrated than I so I wouldn't want to add more to your predicament. You read my comment with bitterness and frustration and your reply is also laced with the same amount if not a higher dose of bitterness and frustration. We have a boy here who can't comment or share his views without being a mannerless kid. We have a boy here who see it as okay to attack people with insults cuz that was how he was brought up. We have a boy here with a very bad and disgraceful character. If sense was sold in the market I would have advised you to get one but sadly it's not. Even if it is, you won't be able to afford it. 1 Like |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by SmithRussell(m): 10:56pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Jewessgratitude: Reality neva strike you. So because of this flimsy thing, you dump a girl? What has that got to do with anything? I mean... I dont get it. Like how does it affect you? Mere letters missing in a word is what is making you to lose a lifetime opportunity?
To each his own sha.
That should be the least of your worries in a relationship of all the issues therein if you ask me though.
How woman take be lifetime opportunity?? 2 Likes
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Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Nobody: 11:12pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Oh now this swine is taking it personal ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) ;DI thought you would come up with something intelligent but your nativity and stupidity is beclouding your sense of reasoning obviously. Now I'm hungry percent convinced that you're one frustrated, shrinked and undilutedly confused bonobo who hates herself. Should I say more Ardar:
You read my comment with bitterness and frustration and your reply is also laced with the same amount if not a higher dose of bitterness and frustration.
We have a boy here who can't comment or share his views without being a mannerless kid.
We have a boy here who see it as okay to attack people with insults cuz that was how he was brought up.
We have a boy here with a very bad and disgraceful character. If sense was sold in the market I would have advised you to get one but sadly it's not. Even if it is, you won't be able to afford it. |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by bukatyne(f): 11:17pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Ardar: Most Nigerian men I chat with always ask me the same boring dumb questions like, " did you eat today" "What did you eat this afternoon" "How was your night" "I hope you dreamt good dreams"
The annoying thing is not the questions itself but the number of times am been asked the same thing by one person.
Now, you don't see women opening threads and whining about Nigerian Men because of this.
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If you don't want boring answers, stop asking dumb questions.
What happened to you bringing interesting topics? If you keep starting interesting topics, the guy would naturally up his ante and be mentally prepared when chatting with you. 7 Likes |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
bukatyne:
What happened to you bringing interesting topics?
If you keep starting interesting topics, the guy would naturally up his ante and be mentally prepared when chatting with you. Are you a female or a male? I've noticed that in every male vs female thread you keep on licking the azzez of men why? 3 Likes |
Re: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
realokopi: Oh now this swine is taking it personal ;DI thought you would come up with something intelligent but your nativity and stupidity is beclouding your sense of reasoning obviously. Now I'm hungry percent convinced that you're one frustrated, shrinked and undilutedly confused bonobo who hates herself. Should I say more
You are so predictable ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) run along kid |