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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by TheMubaraqS: 3:26pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Leverage on her intelligence if she has any, let her take you places with her wifey role and visit Dr Laser when the money comes... |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by TruthSpeaker: 3:27pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
HELLO DUDE, I UNDERSTAND YOUR PAIN & MAYBE FRUSTRATION. MANY PEOPLE WILL BE LIKE PHYSICAL BEAUTY IS THE LEAST IMPORTANT THING ONE SHOULD GO FOR IN A WOMAN FOR A WIFE, THAT CARACTER IS PARAMOUNT. TO AN EXTENT IT IS CORRECT BECAUSE LIVING WITH THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WITH A BAD CARACTER WILL FRUSTRATE THE HELL OUT OF YOUR LIFE. YOUR FEAR OF HER NOT BEING FAITHFUL MIGHT GIVE YOU HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE. THE ISSUE OF HAVING THE URGE TO CHEAT ON HER IN THE FUTURE WITH A MORE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IS VERY NATURAL. IT IS NOT EVERY TIME THAT PEOPLE THAT CHEAT GO FOR A MORE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, MANY TIMES THEY SETTLE FOR SOMEONE WORSE. FOR THAT UNA NAIJA THERE ARE VERY MANY UGLY WOMEN, SO IF YOU THINK UGLY WOMEN DON’T DESERVE A HUSBAND THEN YOU ARE EXTREMELY CRUEL. LET’S FACE REALITY, SOMETIMES NOT BEING BEAUTIFY MOTIVATES WOMEN TO BUILD A GOOD CARACTER TO COMPENSATE FOR THE SHORT FALL. WHILE VERY BEAUTIFUL NIGERIA WOMEN WILL FEEL ON TOP OF THE WORLD AND ALWAYS BELIEVE THEY DESERVE THE RICHEST MAN ON EARTH. WELL, I’M MARRIED TO A VERY BEAUTIFUL WOMAN WITH WONDERFUL CARACTER AND WE ALREADY HAVE TEEN KIDS. I NOR DEY NAIJA SHA AND THE LADY ISN’T NIGERIAN EITHER. GOING AHEAD TO MARRY THIS GOOD CARACTER LOVE OF YOURS SEEMS TO MAKE MORE SENSE. MISS UNIVERSE WITH GOOD CARACTER AND WIFE MATERIAL IS VERY DIFFICULT TO COME BY. HAVE YOU EVER TAKEN A CLOSE LOOK AT THE MIRROR TO ASK YOURSELF HOW GREAT YOU LOOK? IF YOU NOR PASS THE MIRROR TEST, ARE YOU WEALTH ENOUGH TO COMPENSATE FOR THE SHORT FALL? DO YOUR MIND SHA, DON’T LET PEOPLE INTIMIDATE YOU INTO DOING WHAT YOU MAY EVENTUALLY REGRET. 2 Likes |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Afrikween(f): 3:27pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Mstick:walai asin this 2020 dem swear for them with rubbish complaints. |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by bizhop01: 3:28pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Beautiful woman always useless in bed |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by BeeBeeOoh(m): 3:31pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
At a time in a man's life he'll chose a woman who gives him peace of mind, who respects, love, care and cherish him over the one with a pretty face, so, I DON'T THINK YOU, Omoakin120 HAS ATTAINED THAT LEVEL. You go understand one day. My father(may his soul rest in peace) once told me not to marry out of pity, beauty or riches because that marriage won't last but it didn't sink in well then, but now, i've understood what he meant then. Omoakin120, if you love your life, i mean YOUR PRECIOUS LIFE, don't make mistake that you'll live to regret for the rest of your life. A word is a enough for the wise 1 Like |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by hopexter(m): 3:31pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
I just sorry for the woman who's to marry this indecisive man 2 Likes |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Mac2016(m): 3:33pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
This guy lied he doesn't love her he just pity her good deeds. Don't marry based on pity 2 Likes |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Aarenasbaba(m): 3:33pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
You mean beauty? What if your beautiful beauty had accident and lose party of her beautiful beauty? Beautiful can fade..... |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by edunaragold(f): 3:34pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
This guy never learn lessons, if u have learn the kind I learn bro when u see a good woman u will learn to hold her and appreciate her,well I was in your shoes last two yrs ago,when the beautiful lady I will give my kidney for was a pretender and a bench warner to my life,I spent a lot even moved from one room to flats just to motivate her that I can take good care of her,but immediate she ender poly she quickly change ,thank God I went to yje village and they connected me to a good woman ,but I have learn to take this good woman as my flesh and bone ,I meet her so perfect and bro a good woman that I marry now is taken me to my promised land. Beauty fade and u spend more ,good woman u don't impressime them they impress u and u be in control. 3 Likes |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by DarkJeddi(m): 3:34pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
OrestesDante:I bet you if you marry a beautiful Tiger,you will NOT see that her beauty.. |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
tiana29: Do u think he is eating free pussy, don't u think he might be spending heavily on the girl Abi.. Don't just judge things like dt.. If it was a lady dt dumped a guy, u feminist will not comment, u rather read than say Anytin |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:37pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Afrikween:.. For your mind now you think or believe the said girl is as good as how op portrayed her? An ugly lady with a bad character is just like a devil,so she is showing all these good behaviours simply because of her looks. Stop saying men are complaining. 1 Like |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by eodavids(m): 3:39pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Omoakin120: I take it you are being honest in this, so take the candid from me. BEAUTY IS OF TWO KINDS AND YOU ARE TO PRIORITIZE ONE OVER THE OTHER. A wise man once said: WHAT IS THE HUMAN BEING IS NOT THE TALL OR SHORT, THE RUBUST OR THING, THE FAIR OF BLACK, THE FINE FACE NOR THE NON-FINE FACE OF WOMAN OR MAN AROUND, AS WE OBSERVE WITH THE EYES; WHAT REALLY IS THE HUMAN IN PEOPLE IS THE INNER BEING WHICH COMES OUT IN CHATACTERS, HABITS AND BEHAVIOURS. SO, IF YOUR FRIEND'S UNFAKED/UNFEIGNED BEHAVIOURS AND GENERAL CHARACTER IS BEAUTIFUL, THEN SHE IS INFACT VERY BEAUTIFUL. FORGET THE PHYSICAL LOOKS. OF COURSE YOU'RE AWARE PHYSICAL ENDOWMENTS AND LOOKS ARE NOT AS IMPORTANT AS INNER QUALITIES. OK, take it rough: women with physical beauty are more likely to frustrate a man and render him unhappy in life than woman with inner beauty. Look around, you will discover that most men with BEAUTIFUL WIVES are unhappy, compared to the men whom you may see their wives average (let me use this term). Chose what benefits you on the long run. Don't make a foolish decision and die of frustration from a pretty who will arrogantly tell you she should have chosen any of the other numerous men coming for her... Or you come back here in this forum to tell us how you get maltreated from a slay queen. Goodluck to you! 1 Like |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:39pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
DarkJeddi:.. All are tigers. So instead of you to marry an ugly tiger,why not marry a beautiful tiger? You can console yourself with her beauty. |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Bintuenyo: 3:40pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Hmmmmmmmm, she na fine Dem dey chop for marriage now? |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by lexy2014: 3:41pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Omoakin120: I think nairaland should open a fictional section for u guys |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by lexy2014: 3:42pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: Inner beauty or external beauty? |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 3:42pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Well... I don't see any problems in you expressing your disapproval of her looks cos men are wired to go by what they see. Naturally attracted to looks. So it is not out of place to complain about her looks. Since you're not 100% satisfied with her, I'll advise you let her be. As a lady, I do ask guys, are you sure you like what you see? And if they say yes, I'll then relax and know that I'm wanted and and accepted. I don't know if others do it but i do to avoid all this kind of ops story. Also if a man is not fine to my taste, I no do. Period! You can't force people to do what their mind is not really down with. OP, look for your spec and be happy. Don't listen to those saying fine does not determined successful marriage. Every marriages has its ups and downs, both ugly and beautiful couples. So go for your taste to save yourself future regrets. |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Skillsnigeria: 3:43pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
The lord will deliver you |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Dpundict: 3:44pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Omoakin120:you can't have it all, some have a beautiful face but rotten inside. Some have a nice body but ugly or not so beautiful face etc but for you to say she is beautiful but not to the degree you want and may consequently cheat on her means you are the problem not her. You are looking for a trophy and not a wife sir. If you know she is good as you say spend on her and see it she will not be better than she is now. Some diet change can go a long way to beautify same as some extra skin or flesh does for some people. But if you are a cheat by nature even if you marry miss world you may still cheat on her. Beauty is only skin deep but the man on the inside is what you must look out for. Events can alter that beauty before you know it though no one prays for bad things to happen to anyone. My simple advice na im be dat 1 Like |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
How sure are u that by marrying a beautiful lady she won't cheat on u |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by sageer1706(m): 3:44pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
When it comes to wife/husband material u can never get what u want 100%, the beautiful one u are looking/admiring might not be caring or loving. My point is that they must be a compromise or u move on and later be |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:45pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
lexy2014:.. There's nothing like inner beauty for a human being. |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Niom(m): 3:45pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
gunners160: Read what you wrote again sir.... |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Niom(m): 3:47pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Brother please help your fellow brother..... Let me have her number pls..... |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Sleevia: 3:47pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Omoakin120:See if you allow that beauty thing to land you in problem eh, ur eyes go clear. There is no thing wrong about marrying a very pretty lady but the problem is that in Nigeria, 90% of them are idiots. I used to be like you until I borrowed myself sense and ditch that fantasy. My current girl is facially beautiful the way I want it but in terms of body, she is not up to it. And she is very hardworking. 1 Like |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by opportunities12: 3:47pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
PLEASE can you share her contact with me? I have a cousin who will be more than willing to live happily ever after with her. I pity you! May be you don't know that beauty fades, a beautiful woman without character is uglier than the toad. Anyway, please don't forget to share her contact! BIKO! Omoakin120: |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by francis71: 3:49pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
na mumu de warry you. first ...Are you handsome? What if she is beautiful and loose the beauty to fire accident in the long run... will you fling her away? MY ADVICE... IF SHE WILL GIVE YOU JOY IN THE LONG JOURNEY OF LIFE ,PLS GRAB HER CLOSE TO YOUR HEART |
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Btruth: 3:50pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
As far as she is God's image, I think she is beautiful. Moreso, her giving you her whole heart is what matter. A lot of ladies with beautiful faces out usually Bleep up. Good luck. |
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