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Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by samwash(m): 10:30am On Apr 02, 2020 |
A working class guy dating a girl & can't even spend on her. This is not a test to kwn if the girl actually loves him & can stay with him when suitation occurs. What is love in a relationship without giving. Some pple thinks dating or relationship is all abt sex, it comes with responsibilities. What is that lady is in a financial mess , the boy friend can't even bail her out,not to talk abt one of her family member needs financial help, what will the BF now do in such suitation. Lady, the signs are clear, the hand writing is bold enough, make ur choice , you destiny is in your hands . 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by bigpicture001: 10:30am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: You played the POS stunt deliberately nd losing u forgot to carry your ATM along 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:30am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Humility017:You think all those guys that are doing Father Christmas now, will be responsible in Marriage?? Life is not simple Arithmetic!! 14 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Poorboy: 10:30am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Op which kind of work that you're very sure of that he does? I have a friend that deceives ladies he is working but he is not. A man can't give what he doesn't have Being broke is the worst thing that can happen to anyone If he has a good job and is stingy the way you put it here, from this minute don't pick his call again What is coming is bigger than what you're seeing now, you can't face it. 4 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Ytea(f): 10:31am On Apr 02, 2020 |
I'm on this thread. ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Taiwojon(m): 10:31am On Apr 02, 2020 |
jayson87:as in ehn must every guys buy gift of bread or any gift when visiting a girl. what happened to prudent spending and money wise mentality. like professor Wenger of arsenal 5 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Joefat: 10:31am On Apr 02, 2020 |
I've you ever ask him for anything? With your story you sound kind you're okay on your own without depending on any other guy or person. Or (have I ever see Tiwa Savage ask Widkid for anything b4.. Unless is about to get down with her)... NA JOKE I DEY OO... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by 989900: 10:31am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Vega100: 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Dabaize009: 10:31am On Apr 02, 2020 |
That's a real guy,he won't be spending money outside his marriage....when you finally marry him,you av bcom part him so he will take care of you like is taking care of himself now....he is not stingy is just being too careful.fear those who spend lavishly..they are not real.that guy is real..you will enjoy him.good luck. 11 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Humility017(m): 10:31am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: ![]() You can never buy true love but when you find love you need care for it otherwise you'll loose it spending on your woman within your means does not mean you wanna buy her love oga it is because you love her....You can't claim to love someone and not give. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by lilyheaven: 10:32am On Apr 02, 2020 |
If you want to marry him, okay But you will be the one to take care of yourself and children. Including his extended family members, hope you can cope ? 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Fedrams: 10:32am On Apr 02, 2020 |
I wonder why ladies will be saying a guy is stingy. Haven't you heard that what man can do woman can do better. Why cant you be spending on him. All these girls that taught guys are ATM. Give them a yard they will want to go a mile. That was how I took on to eatery, she eat rice and chicken. Buy ice cream and later asking me to buy take away for her friend at home, when I declined she said am stingy. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Orlaoluwayimika(m): 10:32am On Apr 02, 2020 |
olaniyilukman: OP pls don't listen to this advise ooo. For how long would he be watching. This is a pure case of a stingy guy. I am a prudent spender but there are certain things that are absurd. A reasonable guy would not be travelling that far without small hand pack and would still expect ur fiancee to feed u all through ur stay. O gidi gan fun. I would only understand if he is not working even if u earn more than him, he shld show some form of responsibility but in this case, he is stingy as f*ck. I think to him he's doing u a favor by being ur spouse OP my advise is u open to him about what u think about him and hear is response and watch his attitude if he changes but I doubt he would and if he doesn't then the ball is in ur court. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by pocohantas(f): 10:32am On Apr 02, 2020 |
eni4real: There is nothing fatherly about caring for your own! If the girl is unproductive and parasitic, I will personally tell him to dump her. If she is doing her best to please you, then you should please her too! These husband/wife roles na wetin dey make relationship sweet. It is what makes relationships memorable. Let me tell you something, the worst thing that can happen to anyone is to have a partner who can survive without you. The minute they attain that, you become useless. Lots of Nigerian partners are useless!! eni4real: You think ladies that are cooking and cleaning your houses will be responsible in marriage? Since you know life is not arithmetic, why don’t you go to a brothel and pick one lady there. Stop disturbing our ears with wife material talk. 5 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by nairalanduseles: 10:33am On Apr 02, 2020 |
timmybabyface: No am not broke I have been living in Canada for over 10 years now When I visit my partner in another suburb she appreciates the fact I can come spend time with her She is not after gifts You have not met real girls Real girls appreciate your presence 20 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Yomit71(m): 10:33am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Yomit71:the behavior is absolutely stingy, very bad & should not be welcome. I am a man too. but sometimes you might assume people are mature to know their responsibility when in the real sense they don't. you can educate him by either buying a trusted novel that you think he will get the message you're passing on or gives instances of how stinginess can ruin a relationship. Do it with wisdom, if he yield (fine), otherwise dump him. beautiful girl like ought to be with a man that cherish & make you happy at all times. Although have been once uneducated about giving to a lady in a relationship that's why I said educate him first. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:33am On Apr 02, 2020 |
tabithababy: You were doing fine until you mentioned free sex. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Sharonstone7719: 10:34am On Apr 02, 2020 |
So you are not married to him yet and you are asking for sugestion? You better throw him behind you and run for your life. I have a friend like you she is married to the man but the man will never buy any foodstuff in the house. She is suffering it now am still begging her to be patient. The painful part is that if he discover that she have any money, he will not release his money again untill she finish her money. You better run oo cause i dont want you to weep. Broken relationship is better than broken marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by jaxxy(m): 10:34am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Auntyesther: Hahaha. This is hilarious ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Pope22(m): 10:34am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:Listen my dear, marriage doesn't fix dysfunctions, it reveals all of it. Whatever you tolerate in dating will multiply times 10 in marriage. If your partner beats you while dating, you will have a special bed in a hospital if you marry him or her. If your partners doesn't respect you while dating, you will have an arrogant and stubborn partner in marriage. If your partner doesn't spend on you while dating, you will have a stingy husband or wife if marry the person. If your partner cheats on you while dating, you will an unfaithful man or woman in marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Stillthebest: 10:34am On Apr 02, 2020 |
![]() If you don't enjoy each other during courtship, the high probability is glaring that you cant enjoy each other during marriage. A man shouldn't be saving to the extent of not be able to give gifts to his partner and vice versa. Gifts keep friendship warm! He might not be a good man for you. Do you buy him gifts too? Well, as for the 5k yu actually asked to loan it to you, not bad if he had collected it back But he should have done well to drop something before leaving since he came from a far distance and he works then you both consumed what you used the money for. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Humility017(m): 10:35am On Apr 02, 2020 |
eni4real: being responsible comes in variant forms... there is what we call financial responsibility a man who is mean even to his woman with money likely will not take financial responsibility in marriage being faithful and others stems from discipline and not being mean and stingy with money. should your younger sister narrate this story to you like the op will you advise her to go ahead marry him? 4 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by olaniyilukman(m): 10:35am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Orlaoluwayimika:I spend free as well but if we advice the girl to leave her guy now, do you have another one you will provide for her... Stop this bro, they can thrash this issue out themselves... |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by nairalanduseles: 10:35am On Apr 02, 2020 |
pocohantas: You need to stop this This sense of entitlement has to stop U 're in a relationship not for gifts Rather for companion 8 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by annex1: 10:35am On Apr 02, 2020 |
frozen70: ☝️Go Girl! 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by IHate9jerianss(m): 10:35am On Apr 02, 2020 |
nairalanduseles:Nigerian women generally DO NOT deserve good men 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by bigpicture001: 10:35am On Apr 02, 2020 |
samwash: In as much as i dont approve of the guyz approach can u confidently swear the lady will bail him out in his financial mess...? 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by tonididdy(m): 10:36am On Apr 02, 2020 |
EfonAlaaye2023: ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by 0taPiaPia(m): 10:36am On Apr 02, 2020 |
nairalanduseles: Bros easy Abeg.. the guy sha no try oh.. he should have said " babe transfer 3 or 2k and keep the balance".. or babe "let's shop for only 3k or so since bar no dey hand. FLEXIBILITY ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Adakintroy2: 10:36am On Apr 02, 2020 |
You dating him am sure aside money he has other good attributes. You women always want a perfect man with all imaginary qualities. Me i hardly give if you don't ask me directly. Am not conscious like that. Some think it's stingy but if I need something I will ask you directly. I dont assume you know my need. If you have not ask him directly you don't know for sure if he is stingy. Giving is an experssion of love not love itself. So worry if he loves you.some give all the gift in the world just to access pussyy. onces they hit they run. 5 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nn3muka(f): 10:36am On Apr 02, 2020 |
ambient:I wonder what makes her think she can settle with such a being. She feeds him, calls him, etc yet he has never given her kobo. odiegwu Stop dating alfa men they wont hear ![]() Date alpha HANDSOME men. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:36am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Read five pages of mostly trashy comments from my fellow guys and yours take the cake. People like you are the reason women see relationships as a poverty alleviation programme. What is the boyfriend concern if one of her family members need financial assistance, is he the grand patron of her family? samwash: 13 Likes |
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