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Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by drnoel: 1:50pm On Jan 27, 2020
Banty6:


He’s not even 18 yet I’m responsible for him so thank you
U are doing the right thing. Also make sure to let the so called Mia and see for urself who that is.
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by drnoel: 1:51pm On Jan 27, 2020
yenereal:
undecided

I did this when I was his age. How can I advise?

Well Mia doesn't look older from their chats; Mia may be 15 or same age with him.
No matter how over-protective you are, he may still find other options.
He has entered the bloom of youth, so beating him may not make any difference. You may seize his phone.
But most importantly, you need to advise him. Tell him he's not up to the age of being in a relationship yet, the consequences he'll face and the shame he'll bring to the family should he get the girl pregnant. This should be the time you need to become more friendly with him.
He needs advice.

That's why he has to meet the other kid.

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Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Timileyin1234(m): 1:52pm On Jan 27, 2020
Mymynd4u:


Tank God ur son is a boy wit a dick. Let his fvck jare..... No be pussy na, na rod him get... Leave the young boy alone.... Na iPhone e dey use sef, abeg let the fvcking go on and dont disrupt them


Ur son is fvcking a bigger pussy... He is starboy ol

Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by MickzyDonald: 2:18pm On Jan 27, 2020
See mumu child
I still remember, those day's back in secondary School
I'm short I'm a legend

Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Allsingles: 2:20pm On Jan 27, 2020
I think you should be monitoring him regarding the type of friends he keeps, the type of people he associate while in school and in the street.
If you are a Christian make him understand why he should forget about anything Relationship now and focus on his Relationship with God and his studies too.
There should be a boundary to the things you discuss in his presence, I mean adult discussions.
Teens brain are very sharp and smart like computer, in fact it's gabage in gabage out.
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by vincentjk(m): 2:34pm On Jan 27, 2020
Just advice your son that's all. Nothing new again
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by jidxin(m): 2:36pm On Jan 27, 2020
Shelloween:
Stop invading your Son's privacy Nwokem.
ahhhh is diz wan marrddd niiii
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by geezynoni: 3:01pm On Jan 27, 2020
Banty6:


He’s not even 18 yet I’m responsible for him so thank you
Let him chop life before Life chop him.
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by falcon01: 3:07pm On Jan 27, 2020
Banty6:
My Son recently turned 16, he’s actually preparing for Utme and while he does, he works with me partime at my Firm. I do alot of traveling and he knows the business. He fills in for me.. last night, we were eating dinner and his phone won’t stop ringing and everytime it rings, he tries to silence it. I was watching him..then phone rings again and he tries to excuse himself from the table but i asked him to not move an inch until everyone has left the table.. then out of the blues i asked him to hand me his phone.. he knows the rules (never bring your phone to the dining) so he hands me his phone then i set it aside.. it wasn’t even up to one minute this number calls again and the caller name was Mia.. .. i got curious i asked him and he said she was his friend.. fast forward i asked him for his unlock code, he gave it and I didn’t use it right away.. i held on to his phone and later after dinner i checked around and the same Mia and himself they’ve been exchanging text messages and calls.. what do i make of this? My guess is they been having sex too and i guess aunty Mia is older.. how can i stop this?
you shouldn't have checked his phone, you shoulda give him the chance to correct his wrong if he's smart enough warn him and monitor him.
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Papanwamaikpe: 3:34pm On Jan 27, 2020
Walkingkilo:
That was really smooth! Your son is an upcoming Don Juan
Lmao nobi fall. The guy na smooth criminal grin

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Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Papanwamaikpe: 3:35pm On Jan 27, 2020
drnoel:


Are u for real? He is just 16. Pls no vex but I will invade all the invadable privacies till he is 18. Any mistake one makes now with him na a lifetime of regret. Pls OP get to the bottom of the shit and make sure u met that person sending him all these messages.
And do what? Beat or arrest the girl? Was the your son not the one that asked her out? angry
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by thundafire: 3:39pm On Jan 27, 2020
SangoOlukosoOba:
Better use for money or fortification rituals before he disappoints you finally
absolutely I concur with dey other guy dat told u shut up b4 I slap u
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by SangoOlukosoOba(m): 3:42pm On Jan 27, 2020
thundafire:
absolutely I concur with dey other guy dat told u shut up b4 I slap u

Okay
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by drnoel: 3:42pm On Jan 27, 2020
Papanwamaikpe:
And do what? Beat or arrest the girl? Was the your son not the one that asked her out? angry

Beat and Arrest Ur imagination is playing overtime. No not that.
Get to know the kind of person the son is associating with. She could be a great influence over the boy in question so the parents need to get to know her and if she is cool then embrace her too. This would help the boy understand they mean well.
Besides correct me if am wrong but nowhere in the topic was it shown that the boy asked her out. Like I said Ur imagination is playing overtime
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Nobody: 3:45pm On Jan 27, 2020
kurupt1:
Your the cause of ur problems! What is a sixteen year old doing with a smart phone??See a lot of you parents are spoiling these kids
Are u ok?
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by ATTemi: 3:51pm On Jan 27, 2020
Your son is growing. Let him be.
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Nicklaus619(m): 3:52pm On Jan 27, 2020
Born2Breed:
The "my called me there is nothing at home...." ish

Sounds as if your son is not just a bedmate but a cashcow. The leech is milking your sons dick and pocket.

Meet up with the girl,access her and put a stop to the relationship. Also, I think the girl is working in your firm too.

Your boy is too young for such.


Op listing and. Follow this advice
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Lonelypacifist6: 4:02pm On Jan 27, 2020
Clearly this guy has better luck than I do when it comes to Romance and love.
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Lonelypacifist6: 4:05pm On Jan 27, 2020
yenereal:
undecided

I did this when I was his age. How can I advise?

Well Mia doesn't look older from their chats; Mia may be 15 or same age with him.
No matter how over-protective you are, he may still find other options.
He has entered the bloom of youth, so beating him may not make any difference. You may seize his phone.
But most importantly, you need to advise him. Tell him he's not up to the age of being in a relationship yet, the consequences he'll face and the shame he'll bring to the family should he get the girl pregnant. This should be the time you need to become more friendly with him.
He needs advice.
In this century there's no relationship age oo those kids are up to Big things.
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by superfitsez(m): 4:08pm On Jan 27, 2020
yenereal:

You are silly young man. Get off my mention
slowpoke... you don't Worth shitt
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Lonelypacifist6: 4:17pm On Jan 27, 2020
superfitsez:

so getting a girl pregnant at 16 is shame to the family ,,fuckarahere... I'm 26 my daughter is 11
Somehow I envy you
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Arobagger: 4:30pm On Jan 27, 2020
kurupt1:
Your the cause of ur problems! What is a sixteen year old doing with a smart phone??See a lot of you parents are spoiling these kids
that is how my brother bought an ipad for his son of 8yrs to be playing dream league(football game) with it while me de use cello tape techno y2 chai! When the boy go begin enter site watch blue film, he go begin ask baba God why me.

Note: don't start what u might regret tomoro
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Nobody: 4:53pm On Jan 27, 2020
I did more when I was 16...nevee git caught tho grin....i am now 22...already finished service and going for my masters... While still handling the family business.... So did I turn out bad... Well yes.
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Stephenmoka4(m): 4:53pm On Jan 27, 2020
Banty6:


He’s not even 18 yet I’m responsible for him so thank you
All this are child's play, it will eventually die off
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Banty6: 4:55pm On Jan 27, 2020
Arobagger:
that is how my brother bought an ipad for his son of 8yrs to be playing dream league(football game) with it while me de use cello tape techno y2 chai! When the boy go begin enter site watch blue film, he go begin ask baba God why me.

Note: don't start what u might regret tomoro

That boy is not responsible for your cellotape techno y2..
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Abuventure: 5:01pm On Jan 27, 2020
man, you dey cook story like say tomorrow no dey.
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by ashawopikin(m): 5:11pm On Jan 27, 2020
Banty6:
My Son recently turned 16, he’s actually preparing for Utme and while he does, he works with me partime at my Firm. I do alot of traveling and he knows the business. He fills in for me.. last night, we were eating dinner and his phone won’t stop ringing and everytime it rings, he tries to silence it. I was watching him..then phone rings again and he tries to excuse himself from the table but i asked him to not move an inch until everyone has left the table.. then out of the blues i asked him to hand me his phone.. he knows the rules (never bring your phone to the dining) so he hands me his phone then i set it aside.. it wasn’t even up to one minute this number calls again and the caller name was Mia.. .. i got curious i asked him and he said she was his friend.. fast forward i asked him for his unlock code, he gave it and I didn’t use it right away.. i held on to his phone and later after dinner i checked around and the same Mia and himself they’ve been exchanging text messages and calls.. what do i make of this? My guess is they been having sex too and i guess aunty Mia is older.. how can i stop this?
d best u can do is talk to ya son, like u said, u are not always around, or better still do d way oyibo people use to do, get to know Mia by inviting her to dinner, your son my be a "minor" according to d law, but to him, he's old enough to have a girlfriend.boys will always be boys
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Elimon(m): 5:12pm On Jan 27, 2020
Shelloween:
Stop invading your Son's privacy Nwokem.
If something happens to the child now u would start cursing the father for not checking him....na wa ooo....mass populi
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by ashawopikin(m): 5:30pm On Jan 27, 2020
proclinician:
Truly the world has changed. I remeber when i was this boy's age before i wrote wassce i had my first girl friend from love letter exchanges.

One day during the holidays she came into my compound to see me we gisted and as she was about leaving my mom blow horn for gate and the gate was open she saw this girl and ran out of her car and came in and held her by the hand and asked her series of questions she couldn't talk. She asked my babe to go and show her where they live and my mom just left her car by the entrance and went two blocks away to the girl's residence and met her mom, a secondary school teacher.

This incidence still plays in my mind today the drama was too much and as a resident doctor i am today in a home i am very much respected i find it difficult to bring my girlfriend to the house or answer her call before my mom.

Oga u are indeed a new age parent.
at your age?

Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by seanjy4konji: 5:32pm On Jan 27, 2020
dont mind this fools ooo...

age 16 is not a small boy in Nigeria..he is out of secondary school..by the time he enters university this year?would yoi be able to do anything about such...

Just call him and talk to him man to man...thats all...

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