SlimyJ:
understood
bless up

Are you doing something,like working or bizs

Y'all should save your strength, don't bother trying to save her.

She's his to do with as he pleases. No matter the abuse he doles out on her, she can't help but keep running back to him. If only she could fix him, she's special you see..

Circles.

Simply remain on your walking away zone in peace!

Eleyi gidi gan o! Wait was the lady you met him fvking the same as the one you caught him with on phone? If they're different then your bf is a chronic slut and I don't see him stopping soon.
All those stuff of him shouting he would kill himself if you don't come back re emotional blackmail, and d fact he beat and disgrace you over the olosho is only evident of his low regard for you.

Well its seems you still have some feeling for him so its complicated. For now don't agree yet, let him just keep begging. Let him keep begging don't even listen to his sister!!

Ahhh! don't even make the mistake of going back to him, if you do he would still cheat on you again and humiliate you, as for the suicide part he's not serious about it, he just wants to use it and get you back, just move on with your life and forget him

Mykel51:


You can forgive him but don't go back to him...he would abuse you even in marriage. For the fact that he had the guts to slap you...even in the front of a prostitute and even strip you naked. It's a NO - NO.

About the suicide, he can't commit suicide, he is just using that to force you to change your mind. And if he does commit suicide, his blood is not on your hands.

Cheers

cheerssssssss

foleskay:
Eleyi gidi gan o! Wait was the lady you met him fvking the same as the one you caught him with on phone? If they're different then your bf is a chronic slut and I don't see him stopping soon.
All those stuff of him shouting he would kill himself if you don't come back re emotional blackmail, and d fact he beat and disgrace you over the olosho is only evident of his low regard for you.

Well its seems you still have some feeling for him so its complicated. For now don't agree yet, let him just keep begging. Let him keep begging don't even listen to his sister!!

yes she is the same girl

Jaubdu:
Are you doing something,like working or bizs

yes
I'm a business woman
I deal with hairs and hair products

Some things are forgivable, if its clearly unintentional and ambiguous in nature (such as a white lie), but to even accept him back, after he has declared with her cheat-mate that you're a witch, only goes to show the little self-respect you have for yourself, and which probably determines his respect for you. No one will value you more than how you value yourself.

Furthermore, you could have controlled your emotions and just leave when you caught him in the sexual act during your visit, which if you did, the embarrassment would not have occurred. Cheating is not an happenstance, no one falls randomly into the act of sex, cheating is a premeditated, orchestrated action. You could have just left, get yourself together, and facilitate necessary measures to evacuate the relationship, it's just the right thing to do no matter how hard and attached you are.

As for your last paragraph, You may forgive him, but should never have accepted him back. Its cowardice to be nice and understanding to someone that has consistently proven that he doesn't respect you, and count on your gullibility to always forgive, since clearly, it appears that you're the one that needs the relationship the most, not him. The fact that the fuckee your caught him with didn't even protest his loyalty to her but was watching a movie during the fiasco only goes to show he is a chronic philanderer prostituting with sluts, and will expose you to STDs.

He betrayed your trust and faithfulness intentionally (the operating word being "intentional"), pleading should be treated as nothing more than an exercise in futility. Accepting him back means only one thing, that you are probably of a low value, that you do not respect yourself, and that you need the relationship more than him. These are qualities that in the long term, turn people off, as it makes them feel like their partner is not the catch. To him, you're clearly not a catch. Never. Accept. Him. Back.

You may also need to work on your self esteem, because in all honesty, I can't understand how you can tolerate all these abuses, and still contemplating if you should accept him. A classical case of Stockholm syndrome.

Don't go back!
He has physically and emotionally abused you, put u at risk for STD's and humiliated you. Move on, or he'll do you worse and worse, mark my words.

A woman beater will always remain a woman beater till Kingdom come. If u know u know

SlimyJ:

yes
I'm a business woman
I deal with hairs and hair products

. Do you have some college degree?

pansophist:
Some things are forgivable, if its clearly unintentional and ambiguous in nature (such as a white lie), but to even accept him back, after he has declared with her cheat-mate that you're a witch, only goes to show the little self-respect you have for yourself, and which probably determines his respect for you. No one will value you more than how you value yourself.

Furthermore, you could have controlled your emotions and just leave when you caught him in the sexual act during your visit, which if you did, the embarrassment would not have occurred. Cheating is not an happenstance, no one falls randomly into the act of sex, cheating is a premeditated, orchestrated action. You could have just left, get yourself together, and facilitate necessary measures to evacuate the relationship, it's just the right thing to do no matter how hard and attached you are.

As for your last paragraph, You may forgive him, but should never have accepted him back. Its cowardice to be nice and understanding to someone that has consistently proven that he doesn't respect you, and count on your gullibility to always forgive, since clearly, it appears that you're the one that needs the relationship the most, not him. The fact that the fuckee your caught him with didn't even protest his loyalty to her but was watching a movie during the fiasco only goes to show he is a chronic philanderer prostituting with sluts, and will expose you to STDs.

He betrayed your trust and faithfulness intentionally (the operating word being "intentional", pleading should be treated as nothing more than an exercise in futility. Accepting him back means only one thing, that you are probably of a low value, that you do not respect yourself, and that you need the relationship more than him. These are qualities that in the long term, turn people off, as it makes them feel like their partner is not the catch. To him, you're clearly not a catch. Never. Accept. Him. Back.

You may also need to work on your self esteem, because in all honesty, I can't understand how you can tolerate all these abuses, and still contemplating if you should be accept him. A classical case of Stockholm syndrome.

perfectly said
God bless your brain..

awwwwwwww sorry for that

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pansophist:
Some things are forgivable, if its clearly unintentional and ambiguous in nature (such as a white lie), but to even accept him back, after he has declared with her cheat-mate that you're a witch, only goes to show the little self-respect you have for yourself, and which probably determines his respect for you. No one will value you more than how you value yourself.

Furthermore, you could have controlled your emotions and just leave when you caught him in the sexual act during your visit, which if you did, the embarrassment would not have occurred. Cheating is not an happenstance, no one falls randomly into the act of sex, cheating is a premeditated, orchestrated action. You could have just left, get yourself together, and facilitate necessary measures to evacuate the relationship, it's just the right thing to do no matter how hard and attached you are.

As for your last paragraph, You may forgive him, but should never have accepted him back. Its cowardice to be nice and understanding to someone that has consistently proven that he doesn't respect you, and count on your gullibility to always forgive, since clearly, it appears that you're the one that needs the relationship the most, not him. The fact that the fuckee your caught him with didn't even protest his loyalty to her but was watching a movie during the fiasco only goes to show he is a chronic philanderer prostituting with sluts, and will expose you to STDs.

He betrayed your trust and faithfulness intentionally (the operating word being "intentional", pleading should be treated as nothing more than an exercise in futility. Accepting him back means only one thing, that you are probably of a low value, that you do not respect yourself, and that you need the relationship more than him. These are qualities that in the long term, turn people off, as it makes them feel like their partner is not the catch. To him, you're clearly not a catch. Never. Accept. Him. Back.

You may also need to work on your self esteem, because in all honesty, I can't understand how you can tolerate all these abuses, and still contemplating if you should be accept him. A classical case of Stockholm syndrome.

Pansophist. May too much sense not kill you.


Allow me be the advocate of other fellas you have anfontrary view on your submitted comment.... But husband no plenty outside na Go back to him, endure. He's now a changed man.... How can you advice the Op that leaving this guy is to her own good,you've spoken tentatively on one side of the issue, i like you to balance it by responding to the perspective I raised above.

If u said no sex till marriage i wont blame the guy its not an easy road. My girlfriend is a virgin with a strong willpower and wont have sex till we get married but she has no problems with me and my side chicks. The other day she saw me pick one up from her street i never knew she saw me she sent me a text on whatsapp "baby you really like them big" well i didn't laugh i dont know why.

Pls if u sleep with him dont go back. Hiv is real. Move on

healthserve:
Wow.

I can't stay anything let's wait for the elders

Oya o. Daddytime Pansophist FranchasNG

My brother....

I tire no be laziness....

Dont go back to him. You don see the signs now o, no be when una don marry now you go dey run up and down dey write "dear joro"

SlimyJ:

sigh!!

The fact that you are even contemplating going back to him after the evil things he has done to you makes my heart bleed... i want to weep because of u.

Is it by force that u must be with him?

Has "love" mumu blinded u like this?

Is it when he has killed u with beating that you will get sense?

Is his dikk make of gold?

Auntie wey mumu.
Na your corpse them go carry commot for him house.
Dey there they whine yourself.

Escodeb:
Young lady, move on with your life. He is a serial cheater and a woman beater, can you cope with that for the rest of your life?


Ignore his suicide threat, he is trying to manipulate you.

fact

MZrapper:
Auntie wey mumu. Na your corpse them go carry commot for him house. Dey there they whine yourself.

hummm

SlimyJ:

hummm

Me I have a question to ask. But I want to avoid influencing your decision . The question I have is

1. Can you get another guy if this guy gets another?

2. Is this guy the best you can get?


However you answer me please consider it your answer o


Viicfuntop Beta person. What's up may chick

He threw u out because u slapped him back after u have called him a bastard

Una too get anger issue

Dey your dey
Una too no go work

healthserve:



Me I have a question to ask. But I want to avoid influencing your decision . The question I have is

1. Can you get another guy if this guy gets another?

2. Is this guy the best you can get?


However you answer me please consider it your answer o


Viicfuntop Beta person. What's up may chick

sure ,I can get another guy,I'm beautiful and hard-working.

Once a cheat always a cheat.
Once a beater always a beater.
Once a man raises his hand up to beat you, he started already, you'll continue to be his punching bag.
You however needs to work on yourself and control your anger too. Who knows some venoms you must have spilt out when you woke him up and didn't stop till day break.
Move on with your life you're still young, you'll find your own.

SlimyJ:

sure ,I can get another guy,I'm beautiful and hard-working.

My dear get the best you can get cause you're the only one who knows what it needs to be in your shoes girl . Whatever you settle to do I didn't influence it o

Homeboiy:
He threw u out because u slapped him back after u have called him a bastard


Una too get anger issue


Dey your dey

Una too no go work

I only retaliated.

SlimyJ:
I only retaliated.

U shouldn't have

.

Homeboiy:


U shouldn't have

I later regretted the action cause i could have saved myself from the drama

Ajosh431:
Dont go back to him. You don see the signs now o, no be when una don marry now you go dey run up and down dey write "dear joro"

Thank you so much