There’s been a lot of debate as to what exactly is the domineering factor that attracts a girl to a guy. Nine out of ten guys would probably say it’s money. But they are grossly wrong.

While there's no doubt that money is very important, and it would naturally attract ladies to you, money isn’t predominantly what would make a girl fall madly for you and be willing to do anything for you.

Besides, the fact remains that there are a lot of ladies out there who couldn’t care less about your money. There are career ladies who earn decent pay and are doing very well on their own.

You can’t dabble your money in front of such ladies and expect them to lose their minds. For all they care, your money matters very little to them.

Also, we’ve seen and heard of situations of a woman dating a very well to do guy, yet she’ll still go behind his back to sleep with a total loser.

Money can never keep a woman faithful to you. You must realise this. If you still feel money is the only thing that drives girls crazy, you need to banish that idea immediately.

So what makes a girl go crazy for a guy, What makes her go completely crazy about him? What is the most attractive feature in a guy that girls just can’t resist?

You might say it’s love and affection. The typical prince charming kind of guy–the fellow who plans the most romantic dates, buys her flowers and saturate her ears with sweet words.

The truth is, you can be the most romantic guy in the world and treat your girl as a goddess. The fact remains, if a girl doesn’t like you, all your efforts are as good as useless.

It’s not uncommon for a guy to treat a girl with all the care in the world and shower her with pretty gifts, yet she’ll drool and seek after the attention of a guy who doesn’t care if she exists.

It’s weird, you might think. You shower a lady with so much affection and she’s more drawn to a guy who isn’t concerned about her existence.

Women don’t do this deliberately to hurt you, nice guys, out there. It’s just the way they’ve been psychologically fashioned. Humans desire things they can’t have.

The most unattractive feature that drives a lady away from a guy.


As a man, there’s nothing more that reduces your value than trying to please a woman. The approach is counterproductive and dead on arrival.

A lot of you might read this and conclude that I might be high on some expired Oshogbo weed. That’s because most of you have had your minds colonised by the erroneous fairy tales displayed by Hollywood and Filipino movies.

They produce movies depicting that the nice, caring and patient guy always gets the hot girl. They make you believe this lie because it appeals to your senses. But the reality is grossly a wide contrast from what you see in the movies.

And the harsh reality is, the nice guys don’t get the hot girl. He never will. Because he lacks something every girl desires in a man.

The most attractive feature every girl desires in a man.
The most attractive feature you can display as a man to get ladies frolicking after you is to simply be a man!

Yes, read that again. Simply be a man. A real man.

There’s nothing that irritates a woman more than having a man who is always eager to do her bidding. Who goes the extra mile to please her and often places her demands above his.

Guys, doing this is not going to get her to love you. Instead, she’ll quickly lose respect for you as you’ll be considered a walkover.

A woman worships a man who has a backbone. Who does his thinking and can’t be manipulated by a lady.

A girl will never completely love and respect a guy who agrees to everything she says– who nods in agreement to all her desires and takes her as a priority.

Dear men, a woman should never be your utmost priority. Your goals should.

What I’m writing may come as a hard pill for some of you to swallow. And some of you might say my assertions are inaccurate. But if you could exercise some bits of logical scrutiny, you’ll agree that what I’ve said paints valid truth.

Still in doubt? Think for a moment: why do girls always fall for bad boys? They know this guy is no good, and often doesn’t treat them well. Yet they still cling to him.

The “bad boys” so to say, have one thing that has always worked for them... They just don’t care.

I’m not saying you should become a jerk and start treating women rudely. That’s not what I’m implying.

What I’m saying is, if you want women to run after you, do not chase them.

The number one thing no girl can resist in a guy.


If there’s one thing that’ll always get a woman’s attention focused on you, it is confidence.

No woman can resist a confident man – a man who has a firm identity of who he is and isn’t tossed to and fro.

Men, it’s time you stop watching these Zee World movies that are trying to turn you into a sissy. Embrace your role as a man– a leader.

Set goals for your self and work towards improving your career.

A woman wants a man she can rely on. A man who she can trust to protect her. If you keep agreeing to everything she says because you don’t want to offend her, how can she trust you to defend her when someone tries to confront her?

In summary, a woman can’t resist a confident man who doesn’t do ridiculous things to impress her.