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If you don't mind me asking,is there no sweet guy around you that made you run into the social media to find a man.

Anyway this is what you get when you're in a distant relationship. Maybe he's even married sef

You are overreacting my dear.
And you should not get too emotionally involved with a guy you met online.

Meet him first, go on a date with him, talk to him first offline before you think of getting emotionlly involved.

For now, face your work and give him time for if he really cares, he will reconnect with you.

But for now, it's better you don't hope on him for anything relationship untill after you might have met him and know a little about him.

And for the fact that he lives outside Africa should not make you reject every other guy that's interested in you offline.

You are a woman, you know what to do.

By the order of the Peaky blinders.

Be patient

reverse psychology in play.

ojun50:
Be patient

What nonsense patient!
The guy is married.
The time he used to decline her calls would have been enough to say, "I'll call you back".
Is he the first guy to lose his dad? Who's even the dad

yes

Mimiey:
Hello everyone. So I met this great African guy on Facebook. Communication has been great and fantastic. We have talked on skype and had several video calls on Whatsapp. We have had all sort of conversations; serious, funny,political, goals and ambition, future talks, sex etc. He has made his intentions known and plans to come down to Nigeria sometimes in April. Through his last seen on whatsaap, I am the first person he texts and at night, I am the last, this rhymes with the time his messages delivers and his last seen.
However, he lost his dad about two weeks and his dog is sick, communication is bad. He asked for some time off and promise to come back. i understood and gave some time off but it's getting worse these few three days. I know nothing about what he is up to, he just comes, says good morning and doesn't come online for the next 24 or 48 hours.

I try my best to understand but I am starting to get paranoid now, these past days when I call, he has been declining. Yesterday, I asked when our communication will return to normal, he just responded with good morning my love and since yesterday till now, his last seen has been 6:48am. He hasn't been online.

I am at work now. And decided to just call around some minutes past 10. I called three times. He declined all neither did he briefly come online to say I can't take calls.

He is not active on his social media handles. I understand our loss about his dad but I am worried if he is leaving: The declined calls, the absence. I called last night, he declined. He didnt come online. I have called again this morning, he declined all three calls. His data is always on because my messages delivers but he doesn't come online.

Am I over reacting or these are signs that the relationship is ending, please help!!!

You are a bug. All you care about is yourself.

Give him a break. Rather than bug him with useless calls that offer nothing why not develop empathy and drop a daily motivational quote on his WhatsApp to encourage and support him?

For now forget about 'the relationship' and care for the 'human' if you truly love him. Drop motivational messages without asking for more or bugging his destiny with spam calls. Don't even expect a response. Just be glad that he reads them and knows someone cares. Have self control. Support him through this phase in that manner for about a month and he will eventually heal / come around.

He is broken and all the unproductive / unhelpful sex and love talks you engage, your 'beautiful' face or 'sexy' body are the 'leastest' of the least thing on his mind.

Grow up.

Ur juju just expired meet baby for recharge

It's called ghosting. Some people use it to pull away from you when they can't handle the relationship anymore and can't tell you to let them be.
Nobody is ever too busy for those they care about.

Be patient with him.

It is a different thing when a loved one dies.
If your guy is igbo, then you will have to be patient with another one month or there about.

It is not easy with the burial rites preparations and all that.

Davash222:

What nonsense patient!
The guy is married.
The time he used to decline her calls would have been enough to say, "I'll call you back".
Is he the first guy to lose his dad? Who's even the dad

See has you carry another person matter for head.doh

He is married,his wife is around now