We have all heard the phrase, “All men want is sex?”. There’s something that is more important than sex, but it’s something that men have difficulty admitting and women have difficulty giving.
We men are somehow competitive and we all want to be seen as successful, but we also have learned to be honest with each other. We don't only talk about our sexual successes, but also our failures, fears, and confusions.
Back in secondary school days I remember over hearing girls complaining to themselves that the guys they like isn't chasing after them like other guys do.” Then one girl replies them saying, “the guys not being very manly.” The message was clear, “real men” want sex and if you don’t “come on” to a girl, you’re not a real man.

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