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Do I Give Up? by MrColdsweat: 9:49pm On Feb 05, 2020
For the past 10years, I've been in 3 long term relationships.

The first lasted for 3 years, she got pregnant for another guy.

The second lasted for 4 years, she was cheating with some stranger who promised her marriage. I had to walk away.

The third one. This is the 4th year in relationship. At the beginning, I knew she was promiscuous. I saw the signs. I tried to change her. At some point, I was convinced that she's changed. I didn't know she got smarter. She cheated a few times but I forgave her.

This night, I discovered that she's been lying to me. In the face of the truth, she was not only lying, she was being manipulative.
I had to end the relationship.

Though I messed up once, but I instantly called her to confess that I cheated and I told her to give me a punishment for cheating.

I don't know how to womanize. It's never been my nature. But I don't think I can continue this cycle of dating and heartbreak. This is 11years of committing to serious relationships.

I'm tired.
Re: Do I Give Up? by Petyprincess(f): 9:54pm On Feb 05, 2020
Give yourself a break nd start afresh!!

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Re: Do I Give Up? by Ladylite: 9:59pm On Feb 05, 2020
MrColdsweat:
For the past 10years, I've been in 3 long term relationships.

The first lasted for 3 years, she got pregnant for another guy.

The second lasted for 4 years, she was cheating with some stranger who promised her marriage. I had to walk away.

The third one. This is the 4th year in relationship. At the beginning, I knew she was promiscuous. I saw the signs. I tried to change her. At some point, I was convinced that she's changed. I didn't know she got smarter. She cheated a few times but I forgave her.

This night, I discovered that she's been lying to me. In the face of the truth, she was not only lying, she was being manipulative.
I had to end the relationship.

Though I messed up once, but I instantly called her to confess that I cheated and I told her to give me a punishment for cheating.

I don't know how to womanize. It's never been my nature. But I don't think I can continue this cycle of dating and heartbreak. This is 11years of committing to serious relationships.

I'm tired.

Very funny because all I can see is that you have never had a relationship with yourself in 10years.

No breaks at all.... Mehn are you so lonely?

Why not take 2020 as a break and clear your head and heart. Because all the girls you seem to be bonking with just happen to be the same type of people with the same loose morals, and that kind of poor choice shows that even you have a personal problem you need to deal with.


The ladies are not the problem, you are!!!

You need to shine your eyes and see that you have been dating ONE lady in different bodies for 11years... That is boring and just wrong.

If you want a better lady then be a better man. Change you, stop trying to change ladies. Upgrade yourself and your taste will change.

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Re: Do I Give Up? by MrColdsweat: 10:04pm On Feb 05, 2020
Ladylite:


Very funny because all I can see is that you have never had a relationship with yourself in 10years.

No breaks at all.... Mehn are you so lonely?

Why not take 2020 as a break and clear your head and heart. Because all the girls you seem to be bonking with just happen to be the same type of people with the same loose morals, and that kind of poor choice shows that even you have a personal problem you need to deal with.


The ladies are not the problem, you are!!!

You need to shine your eyes and see that you have been dating ONE lady in different bodies for 11years... That is boring and just wrong.

If you want a better lady then be a better man. Change you, stop trying to change ladies. Upgrade yourself and your taste will change.
You had to spin everything and blame me even when I never said anything about myself.

Well, your opinion is noted.

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Re: Do I Give Up? by Tallesty1(m): 10:14pm On Feb 05, 2020
You really need to take a break from relationship and ask yourself questions.


What do I want in a woman. Get the answer.

How do I get it? Answer that too.

Do I deserve her? Fix yourself

Where can I find her? Then start the search.




But if you're not getting married anytime soon then forget all these relationship nonsense and find some to just blend when you need sex.

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Re: Do I Give Up? by biddostandard: 10:18pm On Feb 05, 2020
bro forget love and focus on your bank acc

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Re: Do I Give Up? by Lamanii22(f): 11:10pm On Feb 05, 2020
You must be 40 years old lol... I didn't finish reading your story though... But never try to change another person, just give yourself some time away from relationships... Breathe.. Enjoy your life ...

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Re: Do I Give Up? by Nobody: 11:36pm On Feb 05, 2020
Abeg, make dem shift sniper commot from him side o. I no wan hesr stories that touch. angry

You will be fine.
Re: Do I Give Up? by CAPSLOCKED: 11:59pm On Feb 05, 2020
MrColdsweat:
You had to spin everything and blame me even when I never said anything about myself.

LOL.. WHAT WERE YOU EXPECTING? SHE PULLED THE "TYPICAL WOMAN" MOVE ON YOU.

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Re: Do I Give Up? by MrColdsweat: 12:40am On Feb 06, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


LOL.. WHAT WERE YOU EXPECTING? SHE PULLED THE "TYPICAL WOMAN" MOVE ON YOU.
my brother, No be small typical woman.

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Re: Do I Give Up? by Omar09(m): 3:50am On Feb 06, 2020
MrColdsweat:
You had to spin everything and blame me even when I never said anything about myself.

Well, your opinion is noted.

That's the manipulation for you. You spotted it. All you need to change is that notion of "Romantic love" and its existence. It doesn't exist.

Check ubunja and his miseducation. https://www.nairaland.com/ubunja/topics
And then check his website: http://www.miseducations.com/

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Re: Do I Give Up? by Nobody: 9:49am On Feb 06, 2020
Come and date me grin grin grin
Re: Do I Give Up? by MrColdsweat: 4:22pm On Feb 06, 2020
Omar09:


That's the manipulation for you. You spotted it. All you need to change is that notion of "Romantic love" and its existence. It doesn't exist.

Check ubunja and his miseducation. https://www.nairaland.com/ubunja/topics
And then check his website: http://www.miseducations.com/
Hello. i have read a few threads and i find some truths in what that guy ubunja said. But i need help with direction.

Is there any sequence to reading the threads? which thread do i start with?

cc ubunja
Re: Do I Give Up? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Feb 06, 2020
MrColdsweat:
For the past 10years, I've been in 3 long term relationships.

The first lasted for 3 years, she got pregnant for another guy.

The second lasted for 4 years, she was cheating with some stranger who promised her marriage. I had to walk away.

The third one. This is the 4th year in relationship. At the beginning, I knew she was promiscuous. I saw the signs. I tried to change her. At some point, I was convinced that she's changed. I didn't know she got smarter. She cheated a few times but I forgave her.

This night, I discovered that she's been lying to me. In the face of the truth, she was not only lying, she was being manipulative.
I had to end the relationship.

Though I messed up once, but I instantly called her to confess that I cheated and I told her to give me a punishment for cheating.

I don't know how to womanize. It's never been my nature. But I don't think I can continue this cycle of dating and heartbreak. This is 11years of committing to serious relationships.

I'm tired.
Sorry Mr, relationships are hard work.

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Re: Do I Give Up? by dosumutumininu: 4:44pm On Feb 06, 2020
take a break to sort yourself, you"ll get a gud fit in due time.

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Re: Do I Give Up? by ultimate77(m): 4:48pm On Feb 06, 2020
MrColdsweat:
For the past 10years, I've been in 3 long term relationships.

The first lasted for 3 years, she got pregnant for another guy.

The second lasted for 4 years, she was cheating with some stranger who promised her marriage. I had to walk away.

The third one. This is the 4th year in relationship. At the beginning, I knew she was promiscuous. I saw the signs. I tried to change her. At some point, I was convinced that she's changed. I didn't know she got smarter. She cheated a few times but I forgave her.

This night, I discovered that she's been lying to me. In the face of the truth, she was not only lying, she was being manipulative.
I had to end the relationship.

Though I messed up once, but I instantly called her to confess that I cheated and I told her to give me a punishment for cheating.

I don't know how to womanize. It's never been my nature. But I don't think I can continue this cycle of dating and heartbreak. This is 11years of committing to serious relationships.

I'm tired.

Now answer these few questions.

1.When you say "serious relationship " what do you mean?

2. Are you financially and emotionally ready for marriage?

3. How old are you that you have invested 11 years in 3 relationships and did not get smarter?

4.why are you actually dating?

Respond and I'll tell you what you probably know but forgot.
Re: Do I Give Up? by ubunja(m): 5:18pm On Feb 06, 2020
MrColdsweat:
Hello. i have read a few threads and i find some truths in what that guy ubunja said. But i need help with direction.

Is there any sequence to reading the threads? which thread do i start with?

cc ubunja
start with the oldest coming to the newest. Some new threads are Sequels to old threads.

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Re: Do I Give Up? by Omar09(m): 5:50pm On Feb 06, 2020
MrColdsweat:
Hello. i have read a few threads and i find some truths in what that guy ubunja said. But i need help with direction.

Is there any sequence to reading the threads? which thread do i start with?

cc ubunja

Anyone, but I will suggest you start with city girl. But in case you finding it hard to choose, drop your digits I will chat you up.

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Re: Do I Give Up? by Philipmighty(m): 8:43pm On Feb 06, 2020
wasted 10 good years.. bro if you have used those year's to hustle believe me u suppose don blow, Is real no be bobo juice?

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Re: Do I Give Up? by efewizey(m): 8:48pm On Feb 06, 2020
MrColdsweat:
For the past 10years, I've been in 3 long term relationships.

The first lasted for 3 years, she got pregnant for another guy.

The second lasted for 4 years, she was cheating with some stranger who promised her marriage. I had to walk away.

The third one. This is the 4th year in relationship. At the beginning, I knew she was promiscuous. I saw the signs. I tried to change her. At some point, I was convinced that she's changed. I didn't know she got smarter. She cheated a few times but I forgave her.

This night, I discovered that she's been lying to me. In the face of the truth, she was not only lying, she was being manipulative.
I had to end the relationship.

Though I messed up once, but I instantly called her to confess that I cheated and I told her to give me a punishment for cheating.

I don't know how to womanize. It's never been my nature. But I don't think I can continue this cycle of dating and heartbreak. This is 11years of committing to serious relationships.

I'm tired.

Bro forget women and focus on your self for now. Build your self the thing you spend experiencing all this is enough for you to make something great out of your life not to talk of financial aspects. Just get a female friend stop searching for love. Only then you will find it. 80% of naija babes don't need love just boyfriend to cover a particular need in a particular time in their life. Mafo them don too chop you

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Re: Do I Give Up? by MrColdsweat: 10:34pm On Feb 06, 2020
ubunja:
start with the oldest coming to the newest. Some new threads are Sequels to old threads.
Thank you. smiley



Cc ubunja. How about the thread whose articles were deleted?
Re: Do I Give Up? by ubunja(m): 11:36pm On Feb 06, 2020
MrColdsweat:
Thank you. smiley



Cc ubunja. How about the thread whose articles were deleted?
Forget about the deleted threads. Read what is available to read.

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