IS POINTING OUT FAULTS IN OTHERS A GOOD OR BAD THING?
WHO CARES HERE IS WHAT COUNTS FOR "YOU"
:Your eyes need to look a little further away, the short comings need to be addressed if they are overlooked then such people who are left with such shortcomings will become stagnated in their development.
It is thus compassionate for a person who knows to point out such short comings.
The old way of polishing everyones egos and denying such shortcomings has not made any persons become realised, a short coming of the ego is just that and it thus should not be overlooked.
What you should understand is what you yourself can get from it, does it really matter if the motivation of the person who is pointing out the short comings comes from compassion or comes from a vengeful ego?
The fact is such a revelation no matter who where or why it comes up is an opportunity for the reciprient to work on himself....
If such a reciprient takes it as being personal, then even that short coming should be pointed out.
Everything is an opportunity to use for growth and those who point out our shortcomings are the ones who help us the most.
In the past it never worked where people felt the need to tip toe around sensitive egos, often those who do tiptoe arpund sensitive egos do so because they themselves have sensitive egos and thus do not wish to look at how they really are.
As I see it in a spiritual work all these things are beneficial let the egoists who want to stay that way protect their precious egos while those of us who want a better life and a better safer planet to live on use these things as material for our own benefit and by that for the worlds benefit.
LET IT BECOME THE WATER THAT FALLS FROM A DUCKS BACK INSTEAD OF STICKY SHIT THAT STICKS TO A WALL./