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Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by ShyOne(f): 2:45am On Dec 14, 2010 |
ok The me that I am won't date a man unless "I am into him" "When I am into him" I have to have his money and he has to have my money Because it isn't a "me thing" It is an "Us thing" So there has never been a time that my "high maintenance lifestyle" is solely provided by my mate Why would I ruin a good thing and run him off by stressing him out? I want HIM for himself not for his MONEY |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by karjard(m): 8:47am On Dec 14, 2010 |
kay-money: you said it all |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by obowunmi(m): 10:29am On Dec 14, 2010 |
Kay-money is correct. Who wants to be with a man that's a liability ? |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by kaymoney2(m): 10:41am On Dec 14, 2010 |
obowunmi: @ Obo- Cool because am talking from experience***I have experienced it with ladies in both ways**when I was nobody I knew how the whole thing went but now that am somebody its a different story entirely *** Before you say jack robinson Hmm |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by dbigrod(m): 11:20am On Dec 14, 2010 |
Shy-One:is solely provided by my mate Why would I ruin a good thing and run him off by stressing him out? I want HIM for himself not for his MONEY high maintenance lifestyle my azssss.hope u are making money urself.to people like u,money is love.if people like u cross my path,i`ll change d pathetic way u think [/b] |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by kaymoney2(m): 11:24am On Dec 14, 2010 |
d bigrod: @ D bigrod wetin dey vex you naww** Na the babe opinion be dat naww |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by dbigrod(m): 12:28pm On Dec 14, 2010 |
kay-money: yeah,its her opinion.i just gave my opinion too. |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by kaymoney2(m): 12:36pm On Dec 14, 2010 |
d bigrod: Ok naww just no that words of mouth no go fit keep that queen of yours oo |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by dbigrod(m): 12:47pm On Dec 14, 2010 |
kay-money: so u no know say na hungry girls dey understand love to be money.i buy stuffs for my girl but not give her money as if am her atm machine. |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by Omolola1(f): 12:50pm On Dec 14, 2010 |
u try |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by yusuf2(m): 1:27pm On Dec 14, 2010 |
True love without cash? i laff in hebrew. NOT WITH NAIJA BABES. even the ones that work and earn more than you would still want to suck u dry in the name of love. |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by Ojigho: 3:04pm On Dec 14, 2010 |
It's really irritating when relationships are measured according to what the man or woman can get or give to you,or what monetary value one tends to gain from a relationship.As for me,if a woman doesn't love me for me,and leaves me cos i ain't achieved her defination of success,i'd cry,get depressed,take it in my stride,and work really hard to achieve my set goals and objectives.Cos i know the best revenge is called success,and that there's always a payday.On a second thought,her leaving me may even be blessing in disguise,cos it would make me leave my comfort zone,and push myself to greater heights. |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by HTownEve(f): 11:16pm On Dec 14, 2010 |
Aawwwww, it is sad that love now wears binoculars and stethoscopes. Love dey shine eyes well well. LOL It is not a good thing when love is based on cash; that is not love. It is usually of great pleasure to make your partner smile; that includes spoiling him or her with things you can afford. It does not have to be money. You could do little things for him or her just to see that smile. Little things like helping her clean, cook or washing her car. Telling him to relax the whole day while you pamper him. Nobody knows tomorrow; hence you want someone that will be there for you at your lowest. Both parties should be deligent and strive towards financial comfort though to avoid dwelling in poverty. |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by LoveKing(m): 1:08am On Dec 15, 2010 |
Love is behavorial, so is the attitude to money. So lack of money, i.e poverty affects Love, even true love |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by InkedNerd(f): 1:13am On Dec 15, 2010 |
@OP: Yes, you can experience love without cash. For me its the little things in a relationship that makes me "love" a person more--like small gestures of appreciation. It doesn't have to be gifts or money. |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by beeman80: 8:56am On Dec 15, 2010 |
yusuf_@:Very interesting my brother. |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by beeman80: 9:03am On Dec 15, 2010 |
Inked_Nerd:Is this sustainable? |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by Ojigho: 10:15am On Dec 15, 2010 |
@beeman.It is sustainable and attainable.When money becomes the centre of attraction in a relationship,that relationship is doomed.The truth is that there's always someone for everyone,and as such if he or she thinks and feels since you as an individual isn't a money bag enough,u have to let go.Even though it definately would hurt,it's a lot better meeting someone new who'd appreciate u for u than hanging around trying to impress someone. |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by Nobody: 11:00am On Dec 15, 2010 |
i used to think its possible,because my ex was such a nice gal that she never ask me for a dime one day,THOUGH i did spent for her when i can afford it.most girls of nowadays depend on men to pay for services such as: making of hair,cloths,bb recharge,recharge cards for calling,buy new phones,more cloths,and so many more. my current gf is a student and i can tell you, i have never felt so choked like i am feeling now,i used to let her know how much i was making and all that, but since i dicovered she is so diffrent from my ex( she will never bother you for anything even if she needs your help), i stoped telling her all i am making. when i got this job four months ago, she has made more demands than the girl i spent five years with. but i love her sha ooooojavascript:void(0); |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by Creamish(f): 11:09am On Dec 15, 2010 |
Yes its definitely possible. Personally, moneyz not a criterion for me. If the man has a good personality and hardworking, il def b with him. . . rich or not. I believe in building a home . . not packing into one. |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by Meldrick(m): 12:05pm On Dec 15, 2010 |
in a developing country like nigeria, you cannot experience true love without cash. true love cannnot trive in an unfriendly environment like nigeria. cash is like a stimulant. it is like fuel in a car. it keeps the relationship going. without it, you'll feel intimidated. you can't eat promises. promises won't make you look good. you'll surely experience the love temporarily but without sustaining factor (cash), the love will die and be buried. |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by beeman80: 12:29pm On Dec 15, 2010 |
Meldrick:Very Scarey. |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by beeman80: 12:31pm On Dec 15, 2010 |
Creamish:Mhhh I guess u re a rare one then cos its very difficult to have a lady think this way. |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by InkedNerd(f): 2:49pm On Dec 15, 2010 |
beeman80: Yes. I once met a guy who didn't make a lot of money and it didn't matter to me. What matter were the sweet gestures he'd think of to show me he cared. Him showering me with gifts or money didn't matter at all. |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by kaymoney2(m): 2:53pm On Dec 15, 2010 |
Inked_Nerd: Hehehe Just hearing this for the first time~~ Why cant you spread that mentality around for other ladies to follow suit |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by Nobody: 3:12pm On Dec 15, 2010 |
very interesting topic, i like what shy-one is trying to bring out. the working class lady with high taste dat uses her head instead of her heart, truth is this, as girls get older they make more hasty decision, positive or negative. love without money is possible but difficult, possible because poverty has levels, and difficult because nigerian babes believe alot on it. asking for financial assistance is not wrong in love but it should not be the basis of everything when it is there fine, when it is not, look for a way out spending time together should not be about how much he can spend but how happy you are when u are together. as for me i am no woman's money bag, i take care of my business first and only sacrifice when it is important to her life and future give only what u can afford not what u will regret, if a girl says she is high maintenance ask her if she is a car i love the girl who can live on the simple things of life, and manage the excesses, thats the way to build wealth personally i am a huge spender because i love living life to the fullest, but my girl on the other hand is a manager, she compliments my Bad side and together we can build a beautiful life some ladies will collect from you even if you have to borrow to satisfy their useless cravings. true love is possible cos i found it, but its not easy to find, cos it took me four years of sincere searching and praying thats my opinion or whatever you call it, |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by InkedNerd(f): 3:15pm On Dec 15, 2010 |
kay-money: I'll share a little secret with you--I find it hard to accept gifts from men. Its just seems somehow to me. Even if a guy was my boyfriend, it would take me some time before I could even accept a gift from him . |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by JoeCork: 3:19pm On Dec 15, 2010 |
Nigerian woman? LOve without cash? in this planeet? HELL NOOOOO!!! (no oofeinse) |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by kaymoney2(m): 3:24pm On Dec 15, 2010 |
Inked_Nerd: Ok hit me with your secret am waiting** It seems I have seen a lady from another planent am confused here |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by iice(f): 3:27pm On Dec 15, 2010 |
Is the OP not talking about cash of any kind, small, big or anything? BTW, you're yet to answer my question |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by InkedNerd(f): 3:30pm On Dec 15, 2010 |
kay-money: I just told you my secret. It was that I find it hard to accept gifts from men. Its just seems somehow to me. Even if a guy was my boyfriend, it would take me some time before I could even accept a gift from him. |
Re: Can U Experience True Love Without The Cash? by DrCork1: 3:36pm On Dec 15, 2010 |
Can somebody pls beg iice icce baby (MOD) to pls give me a break. The chick's been on my case for the past 2 yrs. iice. Can u pls give moi a break? Pls. I will buy u a beer, 4real. truce? |
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