Talentempire:
Hello showitnaija
Please I need you to help me on this
Am a lady of 28 dating a guy of 33 Thou I met him through a friend who told me he is looking for a wife
Then I was also looking for a serious relationship
That was how we met and started dating.
The first year he was talking marriage then stopped as the journey started, I never wanted to sound desperate so I don't talk marriage to him but one thing I know is I have been faithful to him.
When we start the journey was good at first
For 3 years now he has been given me attitude
At first he started that I should stop calling him
If he wants to talk to me he will call me
I accepted then I observed he stopped calling completely,
And I started calling sometimes he doesn't pick my calls or return it but I kept calling.
I asked what the problem was but he kept saying nothing.
Shortly after he told me to stop coming to his house
And all this while we have been dating he does not know my house I have always been the one visiting,
When he said I should stop coming I refused cos I felted cheated in the whole thing, I have assisted this guy financially I gave 80% of the capital he used to start his business, cos when I met him he was struggling, I took his younger brothers responsibility on me and other members of his family cos I own a restaurant in lekki
Money has never been a problem by God's grace.
Right now am confused cos I went to his house and met a medical report which he took another lady to the hospital to go and do. The report has to do with genotype and other testes intending couple do
I confronted him he said is non of my business
Then I went to his neighbor and she told me my boyfriend is planning his wedding and the lady is currently pregnant for him.
Right now I need an advice on what to do
I have no other boyfriend aside him.
Please I need your advice on what to do.

Talentempire:
Hello showitnaija
Please I need you to help me on this
Am a lady of 28 dating a guy of 33 Thou I met him through a friend who told me he is looking for a wife
Then I was also looking for a serious relationship
That was how we met and started dating.
The first year he was talking marriage then stopped as the journey started, I never wanted to sound desperate so I don't talk marriage to him but one thing I know is I have been faithful to him.
When we start the journey was good at first
For 3 years now he has been given me attitude
At first he started that I should stop calling him
If he wants to talk to me he will call me
I accepted then I observed he stopped calling completely,
And I started calling sometimes he doesn't pick my calls or return it but I kept calling.
I asked what the problem was but he kept saying nothing.
Shortly after he told me to stop coming to his house
And all this while we have been dating he does not know my house I have always been the one visiting,
When he said I should stop coming I refused cos I felted cheated in the whole thing, I have assisted this guy financially I gave 80% of the capital he used to start his business, cos when I met him he was struggling, I took his younger brothers responsibility on me and other members of his family cos I own a restaurant in lekki
Money has never been a problem by God's grace.
Right now am confused cos I went to his house and met a medical report which he took another lady to the hospital to go and do. The report has to do with genotype and other testes intending couple do
I confronted him he said is non of my business
Then I went to his neighbor and she told me my boyfriend is planning his wedding and the lady is currently pregnant for him.
Right now I need an advice on what to do
I have no other boyfriend aside him.
Please I need your advice on what to do.

funmisticqueen2:
hey dear, you are one of the many youths to get their hearts broken this valentine. Take heart dear. Buy icecream and cry for a few hours then go clubbing, okay!

There's really nothing you can do but to count your losses and move on. The moment a man stops indicating interest in the relationship, stop making an effort and move on.

Count it as a loss, and next time, don't give anybody more than 1½ years to get serious and propose to you. If by a year he you don't know where your relationship is going, then start reducing contact with him and keep your options open by accepting dates from other men.


Also, forget the money, and never give your boyfriend, any money you cannot afford to dash someone. Always date men above or on your level. You can give moderate gifts, but not that kinda of money that will give you heart pain if he dumps you, Never borrow money for him especially.

The best revenge you can get from this is to seriously not give a fvck about him any longer and find your happiness. So block him on all social media, immediately.


WARNING: Don't go psycho and plan to bash his wedding or do any sh¡T like that, that's a dumb move and you end up being the fool. Sis, you dodged a bullet, buy a bottle of wine to celebrate.


Michellekabod2, thanks for mentioning me, pls let me inform all ladies that I now run a vacuum cleaner/Hoover service for the Valentine period. I vacuum the million pieces of the unsuspecting ladies that these dickhead men shatter.

Talentempire:
Hello showitnaija
Please I need you to help me on this
Am a lady of 28 dating a guy of 33 Thou I met him through a friend who told me he is looking for a wife
Then I was also looking for a serious relationship
That was how we met and started dating.

Talentempire:
Hello showitnaija
Please I need you to help me on this
Am a lady of 28 dating a guy of 33 Thou I met him through a friend who told me he is looking for a wife
Then I was also looking for a serious relationship
That was how we met and started dating.
The first year he was talking marriage then stopped as the journey started, I never wanted to sound desperate so I don't talk marriage to him but one thing I know is I have been faithful to him.
When we start the journey was good at first
For 3 years now he has been given me attitude
At first he started that I should stop calling him
If he wants to talk to me he will call me
I accepted then I observed he stopped calling completely,
And I started calling sometimes he doesn't pick my calls or return it but I kept calling.
I asked what the problem was but he kept saying nothing.
Shortly after he told me to stop coming to his house
And all this while we have been dating he does not know my house I have always been the one visiting,
When he said I should stop coming I refused cos I felted cheated in the whole thing, I have assisted this guy financially I gave 80% of the capital he used to start his business, cos when I met him he was struggling, I took his younger brothers responsibility on me and other members of his family cos I own a restaurant in lekki
Money has never been a problem by God's grace.
Right now am confused cos I went to his house and met a medical report which he took another lady to the hospital to go and do. The report has to do with genotype and other testes intending couple do
I confronted him he said is non of my business
Then I went to his neighbor and she told me my boyfriend is planning his wedding and the lady is currently pregnant for him.
Right now I need an advice on what to do
I have no other boyfriend aside him.
Please I need your advice on what to do.

OK LETS DO THIS:
Why don't sleep wit me only twice so it will make him get jelos... this way, he will want u bacccccck!!