I was here almost a week ago,and i bought a topic about two guys marrying from the same family....is it a taooo? Fast forward to yesterday she told me she wanna tell me something sensible and important after i don carry her commot for val's day,late last night she said in WhatsApp "I want us to stop this love of a thing and be friends," as in good friends...i was shocked..someone we have been planning the future together my mum and dad knew were close and they know its every possibility we are dating.... She said we can't marry me ,so why should we start what we can't finish,i guess another guy is disturbing her, she even told me it what she knows and believe that she knows it can't work..right know am not just my self...am in my late 20's and she is in her mid 20's 24 years in a couple of weeks....i just need advice i think her love for me is beginning to fade away.

I think the major issue you need to work on is your ENGLISH seriously!

kia88:
I think the major issue you need to work on is your ENGLISH seriously!

I only asked for advice not to be corrected based on English....

I understand where you are coming from, trust me i'm currently in your shoes.. From my POV, what if you two break up, there is a stigma with having relationship with cousins, distant relative, in-laws, and any sort of family you can think of.. She said if people get to know bout us and at the end, it still doesn't work.. It would be hard for me getting another person,but it won't take long for you get another girl.. But still it's hard because i'm cheating with her on my girl.. I don't how long i can keep it from blowing to our faces..
Ask her what she is scared about?
No, guy is disturbing her, she is trying to get over you.
Bro just face it head on.
Love is a crazy thing, isn't it ?

It is pretty difficult but please, walk away my brother