XhosaNostra:


I'm good You?

Sharp. Miss your blunt piercing truthful and forceful words

Hummmm... who said the first guy wouldn't see a good work after his service? I think you are after the second guy's money, he will dump you the way he dumped his first wife.... Kindly come back to your senses and use your brain wisely please

healthserve:


Sharp. Miss your blunt piercing truthful and forceful words

I'm here to serve

I appreciate everyone's input. I've been dying to get comments from ladies and luckily, I got some....

I'll work on your comments. That I believe ll guide me further.

Exciting:
As the subject reads..

I am in love with two guys.
The 1st: A 23yrs old finalist in a university. We've dated for 2years.. He is wonderful I must say. But I feel he may not be ready for marriage in the nearest future though he said he wants to settle down with me at the right time.

The 2nd: A 37yr old. Working, ready for marriage..Met him few months ago and I'm beginning to like him. He has an 11yrs old boy. His wife cheated and they broke up (according to him)

And me: A 23yrs old. COE graduate. Has side hustles...

I don't know if I should wait for my bf or get serious with someone that is ready for marriage before I grow old waiting...


I need help please... #modified

I don't know if I should wait for my bf or get serious with someone that is ready for marriage before I grow old waiting... U are confused that's what I see,u can't possible be in love with two people at the same time,or do u have two heart from your prescription I feel u like the first dude but because he is not yet financially stable you ain't ready to go with him,on the contrary you feel going for the once married man having a good would be a better option since at least you have food on the table
The question you should be asking yourself is?
1.the 11year old boy will always be loyal to his mom except she maltreated him
2.the mother might still be coming to the house to see her son or she would be sharing the presence of her son with you
3.you don't know what lead to the divorce maybe the man has an attitude problem,try to find out genuine reason for the divorce before you too will do the same
4.if you marry the man you might have committed adultery because from the scripture except a woman be found of cheating her husband any other man that marries the woman is guilty of adultery
5.what is your motivation for the second guy ,the man ,the money or financial status

Exciting:
I appreciate everyone's input. I've been dying to get comments from ladies and luckily, I got some....

I'll work on your comments. That I believe ll guide me further.

Good luck

Are you ready to be the mother of another woman's child?
At 23, why are u so in a hurry to marry a man?

Exciting:
As the subject reads..

I am in love with two guys.
The 1st: A 23yrs old finalist in a university. We've dated for 2years.. He is wonderful I must say. But I feel he may not be ready for marriage in the nearest future though he said he wants to settle down with me at the right time.

The 2nd: A 37yr old. Working, ready for marriage..Met him few months ago and I'm beginning to like him. He has an 11yrs old boy. His wife cheated and they broke up (according to him)

And me: A 23yrs old. COE graduate. Has side hustles...

I don't know if I should wait for my bf or get serious with someone that is ready for marriage before I grow old waiting...


I need help please... #modified

I don't understand why you worked up over nothing.
In this age, marriage isn't a necessity.

Do not continue with the 37years old guy. Since you can't wait for your bf, then don't worry you will find someone else who is ready just in time.

Exciting:
As the subject reads..

I am in love with two guys.
The 1st: A 23yrs old finalist in a university. We've dated for 2years.. He is wonderful I must say. But I feel he may not be ready for marriage in the nearest future though he said he wants to settle down with me at the right time.

The 2nd: A 37yr old. Working, ready for marriage..Met him few months ago and I'm beginning to like him. He has an 11yrs old boy. His wife cheated and they broke up (according to him)

And me: A 23yrs old. COE graduate. Has side hustles...

I don't know if I should wait for my bf or get serious with someone that is ready for marriage before I grow old waiting...


I need help please... #modified

I didn't notice you modified the comment. Don't go for the 37 year old guy ( due to the 11 years old kid ) which might be too much for you to cope with. Keep your mind open, you're going to meet more persons if you maintain an open mind

Thank you

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I didn't notice you modified the comment. Don't go for the 37 year old guy ( due to the 11 years old kid ) which might be too much for you to cope with. Keep your mind open, you're going to meet more persons if you maintain an open mind

Aiit.