Someone should please tell me how to post a topic on nairaland

CharlesCLloyd:
Some Nigerian women always want to tie a man down by any means, bcus they feel they are weak, but when they fail to they then call them scum and also not let them breathe. Ladies just leave us to dey our dey biko. We are getting wiser, only with the foolish ones who misbehaves bcus of a lady. Guys code: never in your life’s misbehave bcus of woman. They can bring you down. NB: there are few ladies(60/100) who are a blessing too. Fear women, I repeat, handle women as a a wise man.

Unfortunately what we have In abundance these days are Simps. Look at what we MEN(Government) are doing to ourselves and we can't fight back. These people at the corridors of power spends most of their ill gotten wealth on WOMEN. You can Imagine a senator purchasing an SUV worth millions of Naira for a lady when his constituency are plying bad roads. SIMPS of a Men. Personally I know about three guys who wouldn't help out their friends In need. But once It's a woman, The assistance will be automated. Things have really gotten out of hands. You need to see the length and extent of what some men go through to Impress or satisfy women.

100 percent correct, some kids think is about feminism. Gradually women are handling tasks made for men and would still take over.

Coolcalmcollect:

the very fact you wanna slip into depression cos of a girl shows you're a weak man.
men of this generation are the weakest in Nigeria. now you see a man doing the bidding of a girl, buys whatever she wants cos she says so not cos he wants on his own. you see men been controlled with the promises of sex and usually without getting it, you see men spending heavily on girls and getting used and dumped, you see men begging girls to love dem, you see men crying cos a girl cheated on them and den dey come online to ask what to do, you see men giving girls monthly allawee for dating dem, weak men everywhere.

Bro, you are speaking like this because you never jam craze woman, you go know say devil dey learn for where daughters of eve dey my g, e get why. I no fit lie you.

Absolutely correct. High rate of divorce is the consequence of this phenomenon. I as a girl hate it when I meet all these weak men around me proposing marriage because I see it they can't fill any vacuum in my life because of their weakness. Marry them and you are as good as single. I never see. Not only that they are weak, they are also so lazy and entitled

Vyolet:
Weaker men, do you mean the type of men that are not ready to provide for their families? Do you mean the ones that are cool with their wives being the sole provider financially as well as being homekeepers? Do you mean the ones that are not ready to remain like our forefathers but still want the women to remain like the women of old?
I mean the type of men that abandon their wives with kids with the mind that the kids will come looking for them someday after the woman has taken care of them?

If you are referring to these men, YES, they are weak and not fit to live among humans.

they r worst than weak. Bible tag such men as worst than infidels

Femsyn:
OP needs to define what he means by "weaker" and "stronger".

Could've responded, but its vague.

Look no further. This summarizes OPs assertion

Weaker men, do you mean the type of men that are not ready to provide for their families? Do you mean the ones that are cool with their wives being the sole provider financially as well as being homekeepers? Do you mean the ones that are not ready to remain like our forefathers but still want the women to remain like the women of old?
I mean the type of men that abandon their wives with kids with the mind that the kids will come looking for them someday after the woman has taken care of them?

If you are referring to these men, YES, they are weak and not fit to live among humans.

ideabuilder:
100 percent correct, some kids think is about feminism. Gradually women are handling tasks made for men and would still take over.

Gradually we're getting there....

Topic of idiots, by idiots, for idiots.

Akukaliaa:



In the East and here in Ifitedunu where I reside, we have very powerful men with submissive women.

But in Lagos and in all those cosmopolitan cities where women have been enlightened and westernized by the doctrines of gender equality; men, their own type of men have become effeminate and weak.

Believe me I won't raise a boy I call "son" in Lagos.

Deep

LilMissFavvy:
I guess you are referring to the cheats who are dying on top of prostitutes daily, you aren't being sincere with your comment. Where are the worthy and responsible men? Is it the cheats? rapists? the stealing leaders? the yahoo-boys? etc. Men deserve whatever is happening to them currently, worthy/responsible men are very very few.

You want responsible men even with all the deceit modern women throw around these days? I still don't understand how make up is not classified as illegal. I've gone home with women that I was truly terrified at what they looked like without make up on - this is deceit. You ask someone out (because men are visual beings) but what you ordered is so far off from what was delivered. As long as this dishonesty -- amongst many other things -- continues , there will be no end in sight to the chaos we're witnessing in Nigeria today.

Vyolet:
Weaker men, do you mean the type of men that are not ready to provide for their families? Do you mean the ones that are cool with their wives being the sole provider financially as well as being homekeepers? Do you mean the ones that are not ready to remain like our forefathers but still want the women to remain like the women of old?
I mean the type of men that abandon their wives with kids with the mind that the kids will come looking for them someday after the woman has taken care of them?

If you are referring to these men, YES, they are weak and not fit to live among humans.

You are 100% CORRECT

Most men today are only strong in bed , but other aspects no way, even the so called " bed", most of them prefer the woman on top position, which was a taboo before for a woman to climb on top of a man.

Alimat40:
There is no question about that for now. I am a teacher I noticed this in mathematics class the boys are not doing well, but the girls taking seriously their studies. Whoever is arguing on this is just wasting time.

. check well that school have no mathematics teacher like me. if i teach in that school even olodo go sabi MATh. When i teach you MATh you will leave every other course in pursuance of MATh.

Lazy men who want the women to take care of them. It's so sad.

Must u people always bring up topics that will eventually lead to a gender war on this forum, abeg bring up more interesting n educative posts.

The moment a man makes sex his priority, he will become a toy in the hands on ladies.
If a man also loves a lady too much and you make it known to her, you've finished be that because you'll be afraid of loosing her and that will be making the man to be begging the lady to remain that relationship

Hmm this is funny

Women bashing men, Men bashing women thread.

I have always said it. Lone wolf is the best way to survive. live your life with no attachment and no limit.

But trust funny men, always looking for codependency with women who are always looking for a provider ( not financially alone, security, loneliness, societal norms etc).

Hmm let me keep quiet and be observing all the gender wars. The future will be depressive for most people when they realise it late. That they should have lived the life of a lone wolf who is always prepared and ready for what life throws at it.

Fiyinfoluwa20:


Yes bro, it’s a thing of fear to be a man these days , a Lady can decimate your person by laying false allegations online and boom ! Nobody wants to hear your own part of the story.

I used to be a male feminists until my ex showed me, almost slipped into depression bro, I am no longer a frea*king feminists whilst noting that I strongly support equality - I am just against the black women’s version of feminism targeted at destroying men!!!

Guys fear girls, always keep receipts and evidence of whatever happen between you both.

a man can never be a feminist. The day you decide to be a feminist is the day you surrender your title as a man. All feminists are the same.

Op80:
Absolutely correct. High rate of divorce is the consequence of this phenomenon. I as a girl hate it when I meet all these weak men around me proposing marriage because I see it they can't fill any vacuum in my life because of their weakness. Marry them and you are as good as single. I never see. Not only that they are weak, they are also so lazy and entitled

You sound so bittered.....I Implore you to eliminate the hatred you've harboured in your heart.

Vyolet:
Weaker men, do you mean the type of men that are not ready to provide for their families? Do you mean the ones that are cool with their wives being the sole provider financially as well as being homekeepers? Do you mean the ones that are not ready to remain like our forefathers but still want the women to remain like the women of old?
I mean the type of men that abandon their wives with kids with the mind that the kids will come looking for them someday after the woman has taken care of them?

If you are referring to these men, YES, they are weak and not fit to live among humans.

I can see you are trying to project your personal frustration as a result of your failed relationship on men.
We have heard your own side of the story, how are we going to hear d other side of d story?
keep it up!

Toseenlove:


Absolutely True!!!
You are very observant
Men are now the Weaker Vessels, Courtesy of the society and the system the government Is running currently. Many able bodied men have been crippled financially, Men hatred and wickedness to each other, Being underpaid, No Job, Loss of job et all. The little they make, Most of them use It to chase what Is under the Women's skirt. Women are really leveraging on this, They understand the game better and have perfected It. Women nowadays can never and will never go BROKE!!! But for Nigerian Men, I'm not sorry for them.

This exactly what the op is talking about.. and even emotionally..men are becoming weak this days .... don't know what's up..but I blame the economy sha

fidelitystrs:
Is this true presently in the society??

Kind of noticing this now in men.

Hmmm

Physically? Not true.
Academically? Not true.
Logically? Not true.
Financiall? Never true.
Metally? Nil.
Emotionally? Very true.

FOR EXAMPLE NO MALE TEACHERS IN THE PRIMARY SCHOOL. MY ONLY JUSTIFYING MOMENTS, IS THAT WOMEN ARE MADE FROM MEN RIB. IF NOT WE WOULD HAVE ABANDONED WOMEN LONG TIME HER GO.

Skepticus:


Women aren't stronger in anyway. They are still the same entitled and manipulative piece of shît everywhere around the globe.

The big problem is the men lowering their standards, which women exploit.

From birth, the dominant masculine frame of males is being attacked and consistently derailed by popular culture (TV, Movies, books, Music), food (Soy and other testosterone degrading foods), and the Government (leftist political correctness).

U get sense!

Women are taking over gradually. It is sign of advanced civilization to come.

The misconception here is we have categorized males to alpha and betas

Now a days we've got people associating with the idea that real men should be blunt with people and speak his mind at all times, he shouldn't take lightly to any slightly real or imagined, he has to be always in action and always game for quick thrills (alpha male)

Where as the other category where men show more empathy and are not quick to make decisions are better listners and quite passive never really taking expressions and actions quite personal and can go the distance in whatsoever without bragging are viewed as the beta males

So it's actually up to personal standards and experiences when choosing what is weak and what is strong

Am I communicating?

Op80:
Absolutely correct. High rate of divorce is the consequence of this phenomenon. I as a girl hate it when I meet all these weak men around me proposing marriage because I see it they can't fill any vacuum in my life because of their weakness. Marry them and you are as good as single. I never see. Not only that they are weak, they are also so lazy and entitled

What can you bring to the table?

nkemdi89:
Most men today are only strong in bed , but other aspects no way, even the so called " bed", most of them prefer the woman on top position, which was a taboo before for a woman to climb on top of a man.

In as much as funny this sounds but It's the damn truth lol...

If a woman slaps you and you didnt reciprocate does that make you a weak man can you answer this question

Toseenlove:


You sound so bittered.....I Implore you to eliminate the hatred you've harboured in your heart.

We are only discussing fact here not bitterness. Put up your own solid argument and don't try to shut me up with your bitterness anthem. We've gone pass that stage my dear