UyaiIncomparabl:
There's no particular amount of money that ever makes one ready. If you're in with the right person with just 300, 000 naira, marriage will be bliss. You people should stop attaching happiness to money. Money is only a means to an end.

medolab90:


I wonder how guys like You think. I guess been insultive prove how macho you are.

Stop being insultive!!

Blu03:
the kids on this forum...
So moronic.

UyaiIncomparabl:
There's no particular amount of money that ever makes one ready. If you're in with the right person with just 300, 000 naira, marriage will be bliss. You people should stop attaching happiness to money. Money is only a means to an end.

maynation:

In my account.

maynation:


I didn't say I have it. I said that's how much I will have before considering marriage.

UyaiIncomparabl:
There's no particular amount of money that ever makes one ready. If you're in with the right person with just 300, 000 naira, marriage will be bliss. You people should stop attaching happiness to money. Money is only a means to an end.

vickydevoka:

Hear in jos with zero naira n steady income de will happily accept u n give u de lady in credit. My Igbo friend come here confirm am

CosmicJames:

I give up.

xrayj:

It means u won't get married then for using such amount as benchmark? Do u know what it takes to raise such amount of money? U are not serious

maynation:


Poverty mentality.
What gave you the impression that I haven't made almost that amount??

xrayj:

Which amount?
Hahahaha
Pls don't kill me with laff

Kemibabi:
coming from a single mother
I'm shocked
Do you think you deserve a man with such networth?

Gwagone:
TF are you talking about?
We nor dey reason marriage o

wunmi590:


April, not March boss

emmaodet:


Bro, you are right.
We men shortchange ourselves by settling down with lazy, broke and unproductive ladies all in the name of fine face and regular sex but a year down the lane when reality hit us in the face, we realize that we have been shortchanged and too late to murmur.
Men should give women who are not productive a arms length. They can fvck them but Never a commitment because things have changed.
And i mean Productive and Not Busy or Hardworking because most ladies are Busy but not Productive.
When a man and woman set out in the morning for work, it is assumed both are Busy and Hardworking but at night when they come back home and Bills are meant to be cleared like food etc it is the person that clears the bill who is termed Productive.
The woman may decide to go to shop in the market and stay there all day long selling plastic buckets, tailoring materials, palm oil in bottle and at the end of the day, she was busy but not necessarily productive but if a man tries that, he is termed LAZY

franchasng:
Very apt.

Anyway, we can only rant here, it is every man's responsibility to choose what he wants from his woman, me I have made my own choice

Blu03:
I'm very insecure. If i'm to get married and have kids, i would want them to have the best life has to offer. To have a safe future...
I must have a steady, well paying job. He must too.
I must have a good amount of money in the bank. Savings to lean back on (just in case). He must too.
I must have properties and other assets. He must too.

But this is for me.

For others, at least 3million in the bank. Plus a house and car.
Transportation and house rent can take alot out of one's salary...

moneyest:


U don't mean it?
E be like say na dat format I go use ooo
I cannot come & kee ma sef because I wan marry.
Hope say una ladies dey fine? I no fit marry girl wey her head be like baseball bat

moneyest:


U don't mean it?
E be like say na dat format I go use ooo
I cannot come & kee ma sef because I wan marry.
Hope say una ladies dey fine? I no fit marry girl wey her head be like baseball bat

proclinician:


Good you are a potential. The man must have something agbalu aka na-azo ani, onye ji ji a na akonye.

How sweet is this cunt by the way? Does it give goose bumps and muscle pull?

makydebbie:


Money is happiness and happiness is money.
You can't enjoy marriage without money, love doesn't feed us or pay the bills.
So that makes money very necessary.

vickydevoka:

Jos don't have industry. De only job here is hospital work, teaching (very low salary 10- 30k) and bank job. How do u expect sum1 to save 2 million for marriage.

medolab90:


I wonder how guys like You think. I guess been insultive prove how macho you are.

Stop being insultive!!

Petyprincess:
For me is 5 million nd have your house and a car shikena I'm not that demanding

makydebbie:


Money is happiness and happiness is money.
You can't enjoy marriage without money, love doesn't feed us or pay the bills.
So that makes money very necessary.

CAPSLOCKED:


STOP PLAYING YOURSELF. SHOW ME ONE MARRIAGE IN THIS COUNTRY WHERE THE COUPLES DELIBERATELY DON'T HAVE KIDS.

LET'S EVEN PRETEND THAT NIGERIANS DON'T HAVE RELATIVES WHO START SPRINGING UP FROM ALL ANGLES ONCE A PERSON IS MARRIED.

Chill2:
We made a deliberate decision not to have kids for now and we doing fine and happy. Family respects our decision. Have kids only when you can.

ARE YOU SUPPOSED TO BE DOING BAD AND SAD?

Blu03:
let us be realistic tho, financial security is a very important factor. Money would influence the level of happiness in the relationship. Life is complex. That 300k wouldn't be enought to start up a family with at least three members.
The child's basic welfare, feeding, education, health care, etc. Apart from maturity, both physical and emotional, money is another solid foundation on which a decent marriage would built.