James289:
Technically, the man decides the sex of the baby... not the woman. You can only contribute an X since you are XX and the man's sperm contributed either an X or a Y - thus deciding the sex.
So, he wasn't able to give himself what he wanted, lol - no reason for you to feel guilty.

This is so old and so wrong and an attempt to simplify a rather complex process.

The blame is on both couple, because each ejaculation of a guy contain countless X n Y, so the guy does not control if it is X or Y that got there first just like the lady does determine which of her two X is chosen for the released embryo.

The hard part is, enhancing the Y’s chances of getting there first....and for that to happen they both have equal roles to play in education, process, preparation, timing, etc....sometimes, it could even be that, the lady’s pelvic is too hash for the survival for the Y, giving the X the edge, timing is also very important...there is a whole body of science around this, they should educate each other and work together to archive the common objective.

amaham:
Pls madam, you can save up with your husband and go for invitro fertilisation with sex selection. Instead of doing this trial and error technique. Look for a good fertility clinic to discuss with.

After 5 children ,and you still want her to do in vitro fertilization? You are worst than the husband. You're the real devil here

That ur husband is a ungrateful girls are children too. Don’t be ungrateful like him love ur children .God will help u find a way around this . African mentality is messed up

Children are a gift from God. Whether boys or girls.

And u still want another three boys to make them 8 children?

La I se eku eda! U na go create burden for the first child and the uncles wey get their own issues all cus u want Male children . Because I heard u saying something about financial problem...

I suppose Florence Ita Giwa, Patricia Ette, Foly Alakija are all men right?

From a scientific point of view, your husband is actually the one who determines the sex of a child through the release of either X or Y chromosomes. You're XX and he's XY. If he dishes out X and that combines with yours, that simply means y'all gonna have a baby girl and if he dishes out Y, y'all gonna have a baby boy. I'm sorry but i think your husband is not knowledgeable enough to know that it's his thingy to determine the sex of his own child. As for me sha, I'll love to have two girls sef, what's so special about having a male child? Tell him to grow the F up, we're in the 21st century gadamnit

Stupid couple.
Children nah children either boys or girls.
Margaret thatcher was a woman, angela merkel is a woman and there are uncountable great women in all fields in the world.

You people should thank God and celebrate your girls.
Obama has only two girls, clinton has only one girl etc.

Diiiamoond:
its really upsetting that there are people out there who are so ungrateful for what God has given them, there are some people out there who are desperately trying to have children and then you have this man complaining that hes got girls.
So people dont realise how blessed there are,
Your husband needs more education on the blessings of having girls children. Let this not worry you in the least as it is God who gives, and HE has reasons for giving you daughters.
I was born in a family of 10- 9 girls and a boy (me number . Today my mum is happy she has lots of successful girls and the boy is useless.

Psalme91:
you guys are right i should not worry about something which is not in my control.Thank you very very much for your support and kind words

Today world you have some control over the sex of your kids if you can pay the doctors for it.

If your husband really want to have a boy, he should contact the medical specialist they would pick boys from the sperm and he would get a baby boy.

Your own sibling IS USELESS? Very harsh word.
Anyway, who knows if you're even the BOY

Diiiamoond:
its really upsetting that there are people out there who are so ungrateful for what God has given them, there are some people out there who are desperately trying to have children and then you have this man complaining that hes got girls.
So people dont realise how blessed there are,
Your husband needs more education on the blessings of having girls children. Let this not worry you in the least as it is God who gives, and HE has reasons for giving you daughters.
I was born in a family of 10- 9 girls and a boy (me number . Today my mum is happy she has lots of successful girls and the boy is useless.

My dear is not ur fault, all ur focus is good delivery and stop thinking if ur husband is happy abt the sex of the baby, I ve a friend that her mother gave birth to eleven girls and one boy, but today, they are all grown ups and the parents are eating the fruit of their labor, I remember all the insults gave to the woman, but today everybody wants to be like her. Some people are asking God to bless them even if it is just one girl. Stop crying.

Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

Let me first congratulate you on your bouncing baby girl on the way... I'll advise that you try to be fine and healthy for you and the baby on the way, i'm sorry to say your hubby is just selfish, I don't understand what calibre of man in thus generation still desperately wants a mix of boys and girls, I have three girls, and I'm done with that. I believe it's how God planned it, so i am not ready to risk trying again and thereby bringing another female, it's best i have what i can cater for financially, than trying to find a boy child and end bringing more girls in the home...

Love conquers everything in marriage.... afterall you're not the one that formed the baby girl in your womb... so cheer up, hopefully he'll come to realize this. congrats once again...

Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

I think you should read this..

LIVINGICON:


What is ridiculous about it?? You are an African for crying out loud. So tradition and cultural values are still held in high esteem. Fine, a baby, be it a boyor girl is important. But at the same time u can't rule out the fact that a baby boy is very important to continue his father's lineage.

Do you think families with all their children as females are really happy? Do you think they never wished to have a baby boy??

Enough of all the hypocritical thinking.

exactly I just tire see the way all of them suddenly painting the male child as Bad.

rain21:
My dear, you should have used Billings method to determine the sex of your baby.some used it and it worked for them.
Don't want to sound too religious,but there's a prayer book for conception and sex selection, can't remember the name tho but I think it has soft copy too.talk to God let him grant you your heart desires.from your mouth to God's ears

For the meantime please no more kids.train the ones you have already.honestly speaking,you should have stopped at 4 or 3 even. If he desperately needs a son,then he should have gathered money and look into going for IVF (sex selection method)

Thank you for this. Maybe it's because we're too religious in these parts so we try to relegate science. Well on the number of kids they want to have, it's their business actually.

It's only sensible for people who want male children to have sex during ovulation like someone earlier advised or go for IVF.

olabrinks:
People saying that she should be grateful because they’re people out there looking for the fruit of the womb. Well I’m sorry, just because you are blessed in a certain area, that doesn’t totally disregard your feelings or emotions. You are very entitled to feel sad about a situation, no matter how many people want to be in your shoes. Everybody has their own individual problems. The rich do cry, yet millions of people want to be in their position. Does this mean they are not entitled to feel sad?

As for those saying female children are better than males and blah blah blah. A child is a child and the behaviour and actions simply rely on the upbringing and training of the child. They’re many wayward females as well as males, if you train your child up well, they will never depart from it. It’s just that simple. No need to start spreading lies to make the OP feel better. The problems with Africans is that they don’t train their male children well, they spoil them hence why many believe female children do better in life. It’s all bullocks.

To the op, I think your main concern should be getting your tubes tied. You have too many children and clearly you all are struggling financially to take care of them. You are not destined to have a boy, and that is fine. Train your female children well and they will be a source of joy for you and your hubby in old age. Good luck.

The only sensible Talk so far. Male or female it all depends on the way they are trained.

To that wonderful couple that I know who are still cheerfully looking up to God for their first child while being grateful for the gift of life & love, I say God's will be done & true joy & happiness will never depart from your home! Amen.

Psalme91:


thank you very much for the words of encouragement, I also have 4 daughters and pregnant with the fifth. this baby supposed to be our last ,cause of financial problems, that's why my husband is not happy

Your husband is the one distributing baby girl. He likes to 4ku all the time. I had girl first and subsequent are boys. The Male sperm dies quickly while the female sperm dey stay longer. Educate yourself.

Femsyn:
Sometimes, I wish i could blame God for giving some people children.

While some people have stayed years even without a miscarriage, someone is here crying for having 5 children.

Couples are out there hoping for at least a positive pregnancy test. Even if the baby doesn't term, all they want to know is their ability to conceive children.

No advice for you. I'm not happy with ingrates.

You people make girl children feel unwanted, whereas, in practical terms, the girl child has proven more useful than 10 sons. Check your families.

see, too much of everything is bad. You should understand that.

I know of a woman who had 8 girls, today she has been blessed beyond those that has boys.so relax and train your girls.you will enjoy them tomorrow, just be strong, there is nothing God cannot do. Thank God you have something doing, please be strong, stop crying, for the sake of children.

Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

You sound like a really ungrateful soul,telling us to beg God if you offended him because you have female children? is having girls a sin?;that you think you offended God?no wonder your husband isn't home yet at 4am because you have a very warped up mentality.
You saying God should give you triplets,male children plus the five 5 girls you are already having making eight 8 children just because you want male children is even ridiculous 8 Children in Nigeria of today you have the wherewithal to take care of them??I hope your husband doesn't run away from you totally.
Always be grateful to God ,some people are looking for children.Only one sef not minding the sex,they will be eternally grateful.Change your mentality,else

You and your husband no get sense. So God is foolish to give una kids abi?? See people wey God bless dy mumu their life

Cheer up sister. The most important thing is raising the children well to be productive and responsible in the society.
Be grateful too and relax. God is able.

Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

Your husband is he on a night shift? If not, for he to crawl the night till 4am, Is either he is a gambler, a thief whether armed or not. Or an adulterer. Found what truly kept him away.

juman:
Stupid couple.
Children nah children either boys or girls.
Margaret thatcher was a woman, angela merkel is a woman and there are uncountable great women in all fields in the world.

You people should thank God and celebrate your girls.
Obama has only two girls, clinton has only one girl etc.

Hillary Clinton lost the Presidency because she was a woman and that's a fact.

Ever heard of Dr Billings method of family planning...lt has 98.9% successrate in avoiding pregnancy,conception and sex selection....worry no more get your hand on the material

Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

Madam sorry to hear. But did that your hubby pass WAEC biology at all? If anybody can be forgiven the foolishness of disappointment over gender of a baby, it's you madam.

Does he know the surprise packages of blessings God has sent his way with these girls?
My relative has 6 girls and another has 3. All the girls are doing fantastically. From lawyer to accountant. All born and bred abroad.

Sure, every dude wants a junior but you cannot force it.

you've just absolved him of something that you two should be blamed for and you've taken the blame upon yourself. Instead of being angry with him too for not giving u a baby boy and abandoning u in this difficult time or don't u want a baby boy too? Typical 19th century mother tchew

James289:
Technically, the man decides the sex of the baby... not the woman. You can only contribute an X since you are XX and the man's sperm contributed either an X or a Y - thus deciding the sex.
So, he wasn't able to give himself what he wanted, lol - no reason for you to feel guilty.

Lol! the should blame himself or nature, his Y CHROMOSOME IS WEAK.

James289:
Technically, the man decides the sex of the baby... not the woman. You can only contribute an X since you are XX and the man's sperm contributed either an X or a Y - thus deciding the sex.
So, he wasn't able to give himself what he wanted, lol - no reason for you to feel guilty.

Lol! the man should blame himself or nature, his Y CHROMOSOME IS WEAK.

Try the new PubMed
Successful sex pre-selection using natural family planning.
McSweeney L. Afr J Reprod Health. 2011.
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Abstract
The objective of the study was to test the hypothesis that gender can be preselected by timing coitus in relation to ovulation, the marker of ovulation being the Peak symptom according to the Billings Method. A blind prospective study of 99 couples wishing to preselect the sex of their child was conducted in Nigeria, using the Post-Peak approach of Billings Method for males and Pre-Peak for females. Research co-ordinators examined the 'post-conception' form within four months of conception. This form recorded the timing of coitus prior to conception, and from this, the sex of child was predicted. 94 of the couples had a child of pre-selected sex showing a method success of 94.9%. 78 of 81 predicting a male were successful (96.3%) and 16 of the 18 predicting a female (88.9%). There was one user-failure, a couple who wanted a girl, timed coitus as for a boy, which they had. The study indicates that where comprehensive instruction is provided, the sex of a child can be preselected with a high degree of confidence by timing coitus, using the Post-Peak approach of Billings Method for males and Pre-Peak for females.

PMID 21987941 [Indexed for MEDLINE]



Please read more and do more research goodluck.

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He has 5 girls with twins