About 10 years ago, I dated this girl. She so loved me, but was below my class (have to be honest) she had completed high school but I held my masters.

She got pregnant and she advised we abort it, which we did. We kept seeing until I met another woman. My relationship with this girl came to a natural end. She wasn't calling and I wasn't.

A few weeks ago, I got her number, I have called her over 100 times but she doesn't answer. I have messaged her over 50 times, she reads and and doesn't reply. I am not interesting in her, but just want to patch up and maybe help her but she is not ready to talk to me.

Why do you think she is acting this way?
What should I do?
Thanks

vybzkartel:
About 10 years ago, I dated this girl. She so loved me, but was below my class (have to be honest) she had completed high school but I held my masters.

She got pregnant and she advised we abort it, which we did. We kept seeing until I met another woman. My relationship with this girl came to a natural end. She wasn't calling and I wasn't.

A few weeks ago, I got her number, I have called her over 100 times but she doesn't answer. I have messaged her over 50 times, she reads and and doesn't reply. I am not interesting in her, but just want to patch up and maybe help her but she is not ready to talk to me.

Why do you think she is acting this way?
What should I do?
Thanks

The reason is highlighted. You strung her along. She obviously wants nothing to do with your used up ass. That's her way of giving you the the finger. Go away. Why do you feel you're in a position to "help" her with anything anyway?

The reason is highlighted. You strung her along. She obviously wants nothing to do with your used up ass. That's her way of giving you the the finger. Go away. Why do you feel you're in a position to "help" her with anything anyway? [/quote]





I dont know why they all think they can help.

vybzkartel:
About 10 years ago, I dated this girl. She so loved me, but was below my class (have to be honest) she had completed high school but I held my masters.

She got pregnant and she advised we abort it, which we did. We kept seeing until I met another woman. My relationship with this girl came to a natural end. She wasn't calling and I wasn't.

A few weeks ago, I got her number, I have called her over 100 times but she doesn't answer. I have messaged her over 50 times, she reads and and doesn't reply. I am not interesting in her, but just want to patch up and maybe help her but she is not ready to talk to me.

Why do you think she is acting this way?
What should I do?
Thanks

she's moved on, i suggest you do the same...instead of thinking that she "automatically" needs your help in some funny way.

u got ur self a master degree....whilst,she's got a master in the society...she no be ur class again.

you been calling and texting her with no reply from her end obviously,she has moved on with her life and not ready to open old wounds.best thing for u to do is also move on kapish

You've both moved on already. Why going back again to torment her? Mehnn... I know you're looking to enter her again and now you're disappointed she's not responding yeah?
Just respect your family and move on. Forget about her.