Sequel to his for females:
https://www.nairaland.com/5716040/should-woman-hide-lock-phone#87122118
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A man in my very neighbourhood is always complaining about any slightest inquiry from his wife of names of (female) contacts in his dail logs, and he took a lock-screen lock-phone preventive measure.
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So far this is a regular palaver in marriage. I was wondering, is it right for a man to hide or lock his phone from his wife for any reasons? Give your opinions and reasons, please.

If your wife is intrusive, curious and eager to know everything, hide it.

If she's a free spirited type, don't hide it.

For wider audience, r231, Freiburger, do the needful.

Some females may see this act as dishonesty. Dominque and Lalasticlala, what do you think?

You have the right to your spouse's phone.
Its up to you to exercise that right or not.
Again, in today's world, there is no way you will go through someone's phone, email or chats without finding a skeleton in a closet. If you lucky, you will find amorous messages with someone else, probably someone of the same sex . If you not, you will discover proof of shady dealings, something he or she will not be so quick to open up to you.

My opinion? What you don't know will not kill you. Leave your partner's phone alone. What you don't know will not kill you. From the moment your curiosity gets the better of you and you go through the phone and find something incriminating, say proof of an affair with someone else, the curiosity eats into you and turns you into a detective or an investigator. From this moment, it becomes a railroad that always ends two ways, the relationship crashes or either of the partner gets stabbed( just ask Bilyaminu bello).

Never will I check my man's phone... Can't give myself unnecessary heart attack....

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Lamanii22:
Never will I check my man's phone... Can't give myself unnecessary heart attack....

Lol.

FatherBona:
You have the right to your spouse's phone.
Its up to you to exercise that right or not.
Again, in today's world, there is no way you will go through someone's phone, email or chats without finding a skeleton in a closet. If you lucky, you will find amorous messages with someone else, probably someone of the same sex . If you not, you will discover proof of shady dealings, something he or she will not be so quick to open up to you.

My opinion? What you don't know will not kill you. Leave your partner's phone alone. What you don't know will not kill you. From the moment your curiosity gets the better of you and you go through the phone and find something incriminating, say proof of an affair with someone else, the curiosity eats into you and turns you into a detective or an investigator. From this moment, it becomes a railroad that always ends two ways, the relationship crashes or either of the partner gets stabbed( just ask Bilyaminu bello).

Who's Bello?

chatinent:

Who's Bello?

For how much?

NextD18:
If you wife is intrusive, curious and eager to know everything, hide it.

If she's a free spirited type, don't hide it.

...Wish I can give you more likes for this honest comment.

Yes naw as a man you need to have secrets from your wife. Especially your phone and bank account balance.

In fact I’m so secretive that I always remember to switch off the lights when we f*ck. She dare not see the shape or color of my dick lest she recognizes it somewhere else (like in a leaked sex video, xvideos etc)

One can’t be too careful with a human you can divorce the next minute. Also depending on where/how you were wedded she might take ‘HALF’ of your total worth when you kick her out of your house.

Conner44:
Yes naw as a man you need to have secrets from your wife. Especially your phone and bank account balance.

In fact I’m so secretive that I always remember to switch off the lights when we f*ck. She dare not see the shape or color of my dick lest she recognizes it somewhere else (like in a leaked sex video, xvideos etc)

One can’t be too careful with a human you can divorce the next minute. Also depending on where/how you were wedded she might take ‘HALF’ of your total worth when you kick her out of your house.

Hmm, quite strange.

Conner44:
Yes naw as a man you need to have secrets from your wife. Especially your phone and bank account balance.

In fact I’m so secretive that I always remember to switch off the lights when we f*ck. She dare not see the shape or color of my dick lest she recognizes it somewhere else (like in a leaked sex video, xvideos etc)

One can’t be too careful with a human you can divorce the next minute. Also depending on where/how you were wedded she might take ‘HALF’ of your total worth when you kick her out of your house.

...I know you are joking but continue. It's very funny thou

JONNYSPUTE:
...I know you are joking but continue. It's very funny thou

No jokes man. The day you divulge your full secrets to your wife is the day you use your hand to slice your life expectancy in half.

Ask around, REAL men will confirm

I don't get why anyone should lock/hide their phones from their partners, I have never understood it.

I'm really old-school.

Even if I'm going to cheat, why on earth would I need to be having chats with the person or saving pictures of her?

Just a call here and there to agree on a time for a meet-up, and that's all.
Don't text me EVER and don't call me when I'm home, I have a wife.

Conner44:


No jokes man. The day you divulge your full secrets to your wife is the day you use your hand to slice your life expectancy in half.

Ask around, REAL men will confirm

..The offfing light before sex is where I'm talking

Me that have my biometrics registered on his phone.... It's for cases of emergencies Sha not the other way round.
He's still got no ideas

pwettyme:
Me that have my biometrics registered on his phone.... It's for cases of emergencies Sha not the other way round.
He's still got no ideas

He isn't that observant. I'd have figured.

JONNYSPUTE:
..The offfing light before sex is where I'm talking

ahn-ahn... but why should offing light be confusing to you? What is it you want to be looking at clearly while you’re f*cking?

Her face? The pillow? Bedsheets? How to wear the condom properly?? I mean, it’s not like you’ve not seen them before and won’t see them after the deed.

Don’t you know that when you f*ck your ancestors are always in the room counting and clapping for you as they cheer you on? It’s the only way you give them descendants so they have to make sure you’re doing it right. You won’t see them but they are there.

I don’t like the way the light flashes against my dick while I thrust in and out of the wet hole ... well, that plus ... the pervy ancestors

We all have em

TeflonBlixx:

He isn't that observant. I'd have figured.

I doubt. Number of biometrics registered still displays 1. I have my ways.

Conner44:


ahn-ahn... but why should offing light be confusing to you? What is it you want to be looking at clearly while you’re f*cking?

Her face? The pillow? Bedsheets? How to wear the condom properly?? I mean, it’s not like you’ve not seen them before and won’t see them after the deed.

Don’t you know that when you f*ck your ancestors are always in the room counting and clapping for you as they cheer you on? It’s the only way you give them descendants so they have to make sure you’re doing it right. You won’t see them but they are there.

I don’t like the way the light flashes against my dick while I thrust in and out of the wet hole ... well, that plus ... the pervy ancestors

We all have em

...Lol. You are very funny

crackkhaus:
I don't get why anyone should lock/hide their phones from their partners, I have never understood it.

I'm really old-school.

Even if I'm going to cheat, why on earth would I need to be having chats with the person or saving pictures of her?

Just a call here and there to agree on a time for a meet-up, and that's all.
Don't text me EVER and don't call me when I'm home, I have a wife.

.. Exactly bro. I don't password or hide my phone from my spouse.

Conner44:
Yes naw as a man you need to have secrets from your wife. Especially your phone and bank account balance.

In fact I’m so secretive that I always remember to switch off the lights when we f*ck. She dare not see the shape or color of my dick lest she recognizes it somewhere else (like in a leaked sex video, xvideos etc)

One can’t be too careful with a human you can divorce the next minute. Also depending on where/how you were wedded she might take ‘HALF’ of your total worth when you kick her out of your house.

Na so

pwettyme:


I doubt. Number of biometrics registered still displays 1.
I have my ways.

Oh well, do teach me your ways

from my personal experience,
1. if u av to leave unlock, go through your phones regularly and delete stuff that might cause problem.

2. if u don't av such time and too heady and manly, lock your phones.

women don't listen to explanations once they are on that path.

Why will I be married to a man that hides something from me? The moment he passwords his phone, means he's cheating, what other reason would make him password his phone if not that

Passworded Phones have ended up saving more marriages than churches and pastors do but not many know this.

Fountainofyouth:
Why will I be married to a man that hides something from me? The moment he passwords his phone, means he's cheating, what other reason would make him password his phone if not that

All phones should be passworded in case they fall into the wrong hands. You may ask your partner for their password though.

You really remind me of someone.

FatherBona:
You have the right to your spouse's phone.
Its up to you to exercise that right or not.
Again, in today's world, there is no way you will go through someone's phone, email or chats without finding a skeleton in a closet. If you lucky, you will find amorous messages with someone else, probably someone of the same sex . If you not, you will discover proof of shady dealings, something he or she will not be so quick to open up to you.

My opinion? What you don't know will not kill you. Leave your partner's phone alone. What you don't know will not kill you. From the moment your curiosity gets the better of you and you go through the phone and find something incriminating, say proof of an affair with someone else, the curiosity eats into you and turns you into a detective or an investigator. From this moment, it becomes a railroad that always ends two ways, the relationship crashes or either of the partner gets stabbed( just ask Bilyaminu bello).

You do not have a right to your Spouse's phone,stop propagating a lie..

The ONLY person who has a right to his or her phone is the owner of said phone..

Any other person handling the phone without permission,becomes an INTRUSION..

Being married to someone doesn't confer any rights to their phone,unless they specifically permits it..

Fountainofyouth:
Why will I be married to a man that hides something from me? The moment he passwords his phone, means he's cheating, what other reason would make him password his phone if not that

There are a thousand and one reasons he may need to have his phone on a password,you are not the only human he interacts with..