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Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by Phate07(m): 1:32am On Dec 21, 2010

Is it good to have more than
one Girlfriend?

Only mature contributions wanted. Cheers! wink
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by Dsense(m): 1:39am On Dec 21, 2010
Yep . . It's always good,So that you can have different tastes of punnies. tongue
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:00am On Dec 21, 2010
@poster
as long as they all know who you truly are (open relationship) then there is nothing wrong with the act, to each their own!!

the advantages are endless, here are a few ones:
- no lack of sexual activity (if one has a headache, just go to another one)
- a great way to keep women on their toes (if they know that you are "seeing" someone else)
- never short of a great cook, babysitter, cleaner etc
- will give you great experience, quickly in "womenhood".
- if you see a fantastic girl, you can go for it, (discreetly) without feeling guilty about it.

the disadvantages are also endless, here are a few ones:
- "financially stressful"!!!!! you have to buy more presents on Valentines etc
- "sexually stressful"!!!! dont even think of being tired, you gotta perform at top level, ALL THE TIME!
- you never get attached to anyone as many will see you as just a "good time"
- your life becomes as stressful as one of a busy businessman(having a secretary might help)
- they also will have multiple partners thus not "safe".
- its exhausting to please ONE demanding woman, can you imagine if you had 5?!
- remembering everyone's name, activities and life is not for the faint hearted.
- you never get to have free time for anyone else but these gals.

now, if you are talking about CHEATING, like crawling, hiding and fearing to get caught like some kind of animal, then i would say: its not worth the stress!

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Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by Osama10(m): 3:40am On Dec 21, 2010
MRbrownJAY:

@poster
as long as they all know who you truly are (open relationship) then there is nothing wrong with the act, to each their own!!

the advantages are endless, here are a few ones:
- no lack of sexual activity (if one has a headache, just go to another one)
- a great way to keep women on their toes (if they know that you are "seeing" someone else)
- never short of a great cook, babysitter, cleaner etc
- will give you great experience, quickly in "womenhood".
- if you see a fantastic girl, you can go for it, (discreetly) without feeling guilty about it.

the disadvantages are also endless, here are a few ones:
- "financially stressful"!!!!! you have to buy more presents on Valentines etc
- "sexually stressful"!!!! dont even think of being tired, you gotta perform at top level, ALL THE TIME!
- you never get attached to anyone as many will see you as just a "good time"
- your life becomes as stressful as one of a busy businessman(having a secretary might help)
- they also will have multiple partners thus not "safe".
- its exhausting to please ONE demanding woman, can you imagine if you had 5?!
- remembering everyone's name, activities and life is not for the faint hearted.
- you never get to have free time for anyone else but these gals.

now, if you are talking about CHEATING, like crawling, hiding and fearing to get caught like some kind of animal, then i would say: its not worth the stress!

Lmao.
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by Specialist900(m): 7:05am On Dec 21, 2010
You won't continue to eat one soup all the time. You'll have to try others, today egusi, tomorrow vegetable, next bitter leaf and so on.

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Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by 190: 9:16am On Dec 21, 2010
Sadly No,

Its not good to have more than one gurl in your life

Why should you double date knowing fully well what ever you found in this new lady

could be found already on your current lady,

Its either you try and make your current lady your queen or you send her packing to the village!
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by md4real(m): 11:49am On Dec 21, 2010
MRbrownJAY:

@poster
as long as they all know who you truly are (open relationship) then there is nothing wrong with the act, to each their own!!

the advantages are endless, here are a few ones:
- no lack of sexual activity (if one has a headache, just go to another one)
- a great way to keep women on their toes (if they know that you are "seeing" someone else)
- never short of a great cook, babysitter, cleaner etc
- will give you great experience, quickly in "womenhood".
- if you see a fantastic girl, you can go for it, (discreetly) without feeling guilty about it.

the disadvantages are also endless, here are a few ones:
- "financially stressful"!!!!! you have to buy more presents on Valentines etc
- "sexually stressful"!!!! dont even think of being tired, you gotta perform at top level, ALL THE TIME!
- you never get attached to anyone as many will see you as just a "good time"
- your life becomes as stressful as one of a busy businessman(having a secretary might help)
- they also will have multiple partners thus not "safe".
- its exhausting to please ONE demanding woman, can you imagine if you had 5?!
- remembering everyone's name, activities and life is not for the faint hearted.
- you never get to have free time for anyone else but these gals.

now, if you are talking about CHEATING, like crawling, hiding and fearing to get caught like some kind of animal, then i would say: its not worth the stress!
THE TRUTH , THE WHOLE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH, man you are earning my respect for your contributions. keep em up.
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by MrCork3: 11:53am On Dec 21, 2010
Phate07:


Is it good to have more than
one Girlfriend?

Only mature contributions wanted. Cheers! wink



ermm hOld up, let me think: Yes! wink
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by Creamish(f): 12:28pm On Dec 21, 2010
I guess it all depends on the function they play in a man's life . .and how serious he intends to get wit his love life. When there is a mutual agreement, the only harm there will be thru possible infections . . . but if its a serious biz, its always beta to have 1 person . . u can help her be d kinda babe u'd b proud of . .
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:40pm On Dec 21, 2010
Phate07:


Is it good to have more than
one Girlfriend?

Only mature contributions wanted. Cheers! wink


it is the best thing to do,,like me i have up to 16 gf that i even forget abt some at tyms,,,,jst giv it a try n u will c
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by Orikinla(m): 1:24pm On Dec 21, 2010
no comment.
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by daduke2k(m): 1:31pm On Dec 21, 2010
itz gud bt pls dnt get shot outta jealousy by one of d gurlz.
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by Ladyjide(f): 7:24pm On Dec 21, 2010
Most men can not even handle one " girlfriend" not to talk of two!
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by Phate07(m): 9:12pm On Dec 21, 2010

Actually, i believe in one man one wife. undecided
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by Ladyjide(f): 10:12pm On Dec 21, 2010
^^^^^^But what of girlfriendDifferent thing be discussed!
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by SOPRANO(m): 5:26pm On Dec 22, 2010
[/b] @OP,

   there's nothing wrong in having back-up plans in case the 1st jury is deadlocked. Remember, women r dangerous and can outwit you at any time once they find another dude with bigger kpekus and lots of dineros; so a back-up game-plan will cushion the effect of a contract termination and the after-shock, 

look at it this way: most women have at least 2 men in there lives at any given point of which they update from time-to-time. So if you are unlucky to be involved with such lady, you cannot afford a margin of error greater than +5 or -5. if another studs shows up on the scene, you will be discarded like a tampon, that being said; just have a back-up just to be safe, grin grin [b]
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by Coolabbie: 9:42pm On Dec 22, 2010
Having more dan one gf can stretch you real thin.
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by slap1(m): 9:56pm On Dec 22, 2010
Always have a Plan B. But you'll be damned if you are the Plan Z of your Plan B!
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by Dsense(m): 10:02pm On Dec 22, 2010
Coolabbie:

Having more dan one gf can stretch you real thin.
grin
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by lizzy153: 1:35am On Dec 23, 2010
if u love and value your life stick to one girl at a time if not keep playing with fir sooner or later u are sure to get burnt angry
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by MMM2(m): 6:47am On Dec 23, 2010
many chicks, more spending of money.
So if u have de money 2 spend go 4 any pu**sy.
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by ismaeel86(m): 2:20pm On Dec 23, 2010
I believe in polygamy, so having more than one girlfriend is not a big deal, since your current girlfriend is always suspecting she is not d only one you are dating.
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by Timi1990(m): 2:57pm On Dec 23, 2010
I dont see any prob in having more than one girlfriend . At least you need to have a backup in case of any thing . Even football coaches hav subtitute playerz.
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by MrCork3: 2:59pm On Dec 23, 2010
Maximum 4 at a time, (Playas guide: 2003) wink
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by seunny4lif(m): 7:02pm On Dec 23, 2010
Hello oh,wetin self.God said occupy till i come,so wetin be ur problem with not having more than one gf.Shebi na gf we dey call them,no be wife.Hav as many has posible becos when u get marry,u will be limit to only one channel,out of all the channels.
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by MeGaStReEt: 8:28pm On Dec 23, 2010
lol

I feel its not right to cheat on your gf
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by busygirl(f): 2:20am On Dec 24, 2010
Jamb question, it is even better to have more than 2 gfs grin
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by akwaowoudo(m): 3:52am On Dec 24, 2010
busygirl:

Jamb question, it is even better to have more than 2 gfs grin
Good girl! More than 2 _taking it down to a mathematical matrix, what would be the outcome of the array as in the rows (males) and the columns (females)? I see funeral, how about you?
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by OchiAgha2(m): 5:04am On Dec 24, 2010
There is nothing wrong with this. As long as they agree with it. Go ahead and sow your oats. That is what we men are suppose to do.
Re: Is It Good To Have More Than One Girlfriend by GNS202(m): 10:11am On Dec 24, 2010
Currently i ve three (3) girl frnds. But the 1st not too active
in bed, the 2nd wount allow me touch her regularly, while
the 3rd she is sexually active. but among the three (3) I find solace in the
2nd girl, she has got good qualities, beautiful, and inteligent, She is a Wife Material,
As for the 3rd girl, she certisfy my sexual needs, beautiful, but like a Nympho,
The 1st, always complaining, crying on each active period, though beautiful sexy,
but not active in bed.

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