So this man told me a story of how he invited a lady out and ended up regretting doing that . This was how the story went..

Let's call him Yomi and the babe (Yetunde)

So Yomi met this particular lady through a friend , they got talking and he was really enjoying her vibe....
He hasn't dated anyone in a long time since his job is very demanding and he has gotten comfortable with himself. But still he decided to give it a go.
Yomi asked her out on a date, they agreed to go to the restaurant around 7pm. Let's fast forward to D day....
Yomi called Yetunde around 6:00pm and told her he would be coming to pick her up around 6:50pm, so basically he was giving her 50 minutes to dress up and do whatever it is she wants to do. I think that's reasonable enough time, yeah?
Mind you, Yomi is a stickler for.

punctuality, he hates being late and he has told Yetunde about it during one of their conversations.
So by 6:40pm, Yomi was already on his way and he told yetunde about it and she told him not to worry that she was almost done anyways. Baba got to her place by 6:48pm and called..
her to come outside, hmmmmm, na where wahala start be this. Yetunde told him to chill that she just needs to put some finishing touch to her make up.
30 minutes after, Yomi is still waiting, he kept calling her every 10 minutes but she wasn't even picking up anymore...He was so annoyed but just decided to ride it out. Yetunde finally came out about an hour later looking like a meal Smiling face with heart-shaped eyesSmiling face with heart-shaped eyes, all ravishing, and very beautiful.
You would think that would calm Yomi's nerve right?
But do you know what he did??

ps: all Yetunde said when she came out was "sorry i was late, lol" was blinking like a barbie doll.
Well, Yomi opened the car door for her like a gentleman, took her to the restaurant. When they got there, he opened the door for her again, he got into his car, then he took off...
On his way home he shoot her text saying "I don't condone lateness, so we can't work out, have a nice life"

so question for y'all.
is anybody to be blamed? if yes, who?
what would you have done better if you were the guy/lady?
is this a W/L for the guy/lady?
what y'all don't know is, "first impressions matters, like it matters alot!!"

I'm still not supporting anybody tho

Is the guy at fault or the lady?

Both are at fault

walcruise:
Both are at fault

Lol even the guy?

Your impression on a first date matters a lot.

In my opinion; The lady alone is at fault because she didn't keep to the agreed time, which could be a very big turn off for a busy guy who had to schedule out time to go on a day wit her.

The guy had to handle and express his dislike for the behavior and anger towards the lady the way he felt will be okay for him. So I don't condemn him on anything.

He could have left instead of waiting for her to make up though. All the other drama is unnecessary.

Conclusion: both yomi and yetunde are ladies

Some stories eh....

NextD18:
Your impression on a first date matters a lot.

In my opinion; The lady alone is at fault because she didn't keep to the agreed time, which could be a very big turn off for a busy guy who had to schedule out time to go on a day wit her.

The guy had to handle and express his dislike for the behavior and anger towards the lady the way he felt will be okay for him. So I don't condemn him on anything.

He should at least talk to her about it so incase of next time

scrolldown88:
He could have left instead of waiting for her to make up though. All the other drama is unnecessary.

Conclusion: both yomi and yetunde are ladies

Hahaha why ladies

Thoseen30:

He should at least talk to her about it so incase of next time

People have their ways of dealing with anger.

The earlier you understand this the better for you.

NextD18:

People have their ways of dealing with anger.

The earlier you understand this the better for you.

Are you telling me that, waiting for an hour, driving to the restaurant and wasting your time is dealing with anger Abi mumu nature

Both are wrong. For the lady it's obvious. But for the guy a better way of handling it would have been to call her maybe 15 or 30 mins after 7pm telling her he had to leave cos he couldn't keep waiting for her. And then tell her how he likes to keep to time. Usually such ladies won't appreciate that such a man can make them better at least in that aspect. They'd be blinded by the annoyance of the time wasted in painting and faking their looks...

[quote author=DominusPrime post=87231554]Both are wrong. For the lady it's obvious. But for the guy a better way of handling it would have been to call her maybe 15 or 30 mins after 7pm telling her he had to leave cos he couldn't keep waiting for her. And then tell her how he likes to keep to time. Usually such ladies won't appreciate that such a man can make them better at least in that aspect. They'd be blinded by the annoyance of the time wasted in painting and faking their looks...[/quot
I like your take, communication is the key

The lady is at fault for getting late all because of makeup that dumb thing not even because of traffic maybe because i hate makeup sha.

luvyaself95:
The lady is at fault for getting late all because of makeup that dumb thing not even because of traffic maybe because i hate makeup sha.

lol you should

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Thanks thoseen30

I completely understand both of them but one thing about me is I give a number of chances before reacting, if I tell u same thing more than 2 times, Alaye... I pity u if I react... Bae is tired of calling me beast already, lol

My sentiments since I last saw this on twitter hasn't changed.

I will Carry that lady to another state and drop her there then we now apologize to each other and start allover again.
As a single lady with no responsibilities like preparing three kids for church service how dare u keep a man waiting for over 1hr 30mins?
Even after she was warned.

Some will say it's her testing the guys patience. Patience kill her there.
That's sheer wickedness.
chief scummander with an ugly behavior.

Thoseen30:

He should at least talk to her about it so incase of next time

So the first time talking to her about lateness was not enough?
He needs a second and third maybe fourth n fifth talk before it will get into her head right?

Ever considered that this might be her habit and it takes a reaction like that to help her break the stupid lateness habit ?