It depends on whom you're married to. If you marry your friend, I think marriage will be fun than single hood. But if you marry a sadist, hmm... You would wish to be single again. So

Marry your friend.

This is one of the most dumb question i have seen in this forum,
There is time for everything in this life. life can be sweet at every stage of it. if you are happy being single when you are supposed to be married, i can tell you that you are deceiving yourself. and if you got yourself involve in early marriage, you will have yourself to blame.

This question makes no sense as long as i m concern.

vivalavida:


Lol
Introvert dey marry too oo

For how long do u think u can keep up with coming back home to an empty house?

As long as possible, but my mumsi go actually beat me die one day if I don't bring a girl home soon.

To me, married life is enjoyable.

Joycekkh:
It is, being single can also be miserable cause of loneliness, everything in life is conditional.

Been single doesn't mean you have to live in seclusion na... Single means you are not emotionally attached to anyone and you hurt no one's emotions. That doesn't mean you can't go out with friends of opposite sex, vsit when needed and enjoy yourself. Do you know you can be married or in a relationship and still feel lonely..

No just go there...single life has no limitation and constraint of activities... The freedom embedded in being single is second to none...no wonder most celebrities chose baby mamaism over proper marriage... There is nothing you can not chose with single life,,,but being married will cut you to size and left u with no many options... As he be ehn,,,this small change way ah they get will be used for my own upliftment and not to service those responsibilities associated with official union... Single life sweet gan

Married ! More sense of belonging.... subconscious of being responsible... for yourself and your family.

There's nothing as good and enjoyable as being married... That's if u are lucky to find ur woman...c most problems in marriages ds days are self made..egungun no dey dey careful not until e enta express..

Even in married life, you can still make it as though you just met. Marriage is never boring with the right persons.

In my honest opinion, being single is more enjoyable except that you'll miss the sex part (for those of us that are born again) but talk about freedom and the will to do what you want and when you want it, single life is bae unlike when you're married that you must do certain things whether convenient or not.

Now one aspect marriage life can freak you out is home front where you have to manage and keep it and also have to combine it with your job.
I do visit some of my married friends and sometimes don't admire them cos we may get back from work same thread time, and right from the road while I'm relaxed and not hurrying to anything, she's rushing to pick the kids from school, stopping at the market to buy a few stuffs to make evening meals. She get home, attend to the kids then races to the kitchen to prepare meals by what time I would have rested and prolly taken something light for the day. And I begin to wonder, is this what I'm going to be someday? Mannn its not enjoyable at all.

That is just one aspect of it. Talking about emotional aspect where you have to deal with spouses short comings and all that. Its a whole lot.
Families and others.
Marriage is over hyped especially in Nigeria where you believed to lose yourself just so you can be seen as submissive.

Let me still enjoy my single life while it last biko.

Continue Enjoying Your Single Life Sis,

Very Soon, You'll Be A Regular Attender During SHILOH Crusades

In my honest opinion, being single is more enjoyable except that you'll miss the sex part (for those of us that are born again) but talk about freedom and the will to do what you want and when you want it, single life is bae unlike when you're married that you must do certain things whether convenient or not.

Now one aspect marriage life can freak you out is home front where you have to manage and keep it and also have to combine it with your job.
I do visit some of my married friends and sometimes don't admire them cos we may get back from work same thread time, and right from the road while I'm relaxed and not hurrying to anything, she's rushing to pick the kids from school, stopping at the market to buy a few stuffs to make evening meals. She get home, attend to the kids then races to the kitchen to prepare meals by what time I would have rested and prolly taken something light for the day. And I begin to wonder, is this what I'm going to be someday? Mannn its not enjoyable at all.

That is just one aspect of it. Talking about emotional aspect where you have to deal with spouses short comings and all that. Its a whole lot.
Families and others.
Marriage is over hyped especially in Nigeria where you believed to lose yourself just so you can be seen as submissive.

Let me still enjoy my single life while it last biko.

Hmm

* As for me, I see marriage as d best way to end a beautiful friendship,

I see marriage as a romance in which the hero dies in d first act

If marriage is to be enjoyed, the man should be deaf while d woman blind

We all play fool one - to marry is to play it always.

You don't know what happiness and freedom are, get married; then it's too late. I rest my case

stevmatt15:
Nobody has ever died of being single, but many, I mean countless of many has died for marrying a wrong woman and the death rate is still increasing.

What now is the solution? Is being single more enjoyable than married life?

Do you know of a certain Oscar Pistorius and his late girlfriend?

meobizy:
They both have pros and cons, just like anything else in life.

I too know... just a simple question that requires a simple answer and you are talking rubbish... mtcheew

It depends on who you married and how your life was before you got married. As for me, I wish I married my wife early

Single life all d way

Stay single, get a baby mama. Nurture and educate your child.

Let every man raise his own children.

Singleness is sweet.

Scandinavian02:


Do you know of a certain Oscar Pistorius and his late girlfriend?

Nope

Rozz:
it should be single life for ladies because I use to be tired atimes by just mere thinking of marriage and everything.

that not enough excuse. I tink d problem is u tink 2 much

If being married is better why do married men cheat and the women find solace in their children...
Single is rest of mind... Time to do anything when you want to do it...
I still don't see why some dudes will be desperate to get married at the end of the day they end up cheating... It's bullshit.... Stay single and flirt marry and be with one forever

Marrying the Right person makes marriage enjoyable asides that single hood it is

In my honest opinion, being single is more enjoyable except that you'll miss the sex part (for those of us that are born again) but talk about freedom and the will to do what you want and when you want it, single life is bae unlike when you're married that you must do certain things whether convenient or not.

Now one aspect marriage life can freak you out is home front where you have to manage and keep it and also have to combine it with your job.
I do visit some of my married friends and sometimes don't admire them cos we may get back from work same thread time, and right from the road while I'm relaxed and not hurrying to anything, she's rushing to pick the kids from school, stopping at the market to buy a few stuffs to make evening meals. She get home, attend to the kids then races to the kitchen to prepare meals by what time I would have rested and prolly taken something light for the day. And I begin to wonder, is this what I'm going to be someday? Mannn its not enjoyable at all.

That is just one aspect of it. Talking about emotional aspect where you have to deal with spouses short comings and all that. Its a whole lot.
Families and others.
Marriage is over hyped especially in Nigeria where you believed to lose yourself just so you can be seen as submissive.

Let me still enjoy my single life while it last biko.

You are wrong my dear. It all depend on who they marry. Part of a man's work is to protect his wife. Not just on security but every aspect of life.
I admit some men can be horrible but most are good in protecting their wives. A man who sees the wife return from work, buy food for cooking and also go to kitchen after a whole day work is not protecting his wife enough. This is because the wife can collapse doing excessive works. Way out of it is to get a helper. Most Igbos pick their relatives who could be helping their wives. The only issue is that women sometimes can have horrible attitude towards the helper and ruin everything.

As for me, I can't stand seeing my wife undergoing enormous stress. Not just me alone. Many men

EgunMogaji2:
Stay single, get a baby mama. Nurture and educate your child.

Let every man raise his own children.

u cant eat ur cake n hav it

Both have their ups and downs. If u are married be grateful to God and manage ur home well in God's wisdom and if u are not married pray for the right partner so ur can enjoy it.

Single life....but if u must be hapi while married,u must mrry ur friend

intruder15:


The pictures you uploaded doesn't reflect on the realities in dating and marriage. Firstly, the term enjoyment differs for people. One have to define what he sees as enjoyment. Mr A may prefer hanging out with friends, getting high and engage in illicit sex.
Mr B may prefer going to serene environment, site seeing, watching the birds or animals in a zoo as well as visiting new places.
If you fall into the category of MR A, marriage should be boring
Mr A will be perceived as an irresponsible man in our current day society. Moreover, marriage is not for irresponsible people.

Definitely, I posted that trend on MARCH, why it was moved to front page today is what baffles me. And about the pictures, see, I never added any photo when I posted it. Better ask the moderators that moved it to front page oooo. They are the ones who added all those photos ooooo. My hands are clean.

When you marry your friend as in someone both of you started from scratch, trust me married life is more enjoyable. A lot of people are suffering because they are not friends with their spouse or they married for the wrong reasons and after several years discovered what attracted them in the first place is no more there. I met my hubby in school and today after 14years of marriage, I can say proudly that God has been faithful In making us 1. We look out for each other's growth and try to build up ourselves in the best possible ways with God on our side. The job I have today that has greatly prospered us, it was my hubby who applied for me even when I wasnt interested 13 years ago cos I assumed then that I wont get that type of job without knowing any big man or senator in Nigeria. The job he has today I was the one who got infor about a vacancy there and made enquiries and my friends working there asked me to send his CV. Today after 16years of working there he is seen as one of their strongest hands which has earned him lots of awards and overseas training yearly which other of his colleagues dont get. That is the kind of relationship am talking about, being friends first, having the word of God as your guide and helping each other to grow. Years after even after the kids arrival, you will still see yourselves as friends.
It's not like we dont have misunderstanding or we dont quarrel, of course we do once in a while but because we are friends we settle and over look each others lapses. Of course married life is bae for me any day and anytime���

Single life sucks

Texty:
If being married is better why do married men cheat and the women find solace in their children...
Single is rest of mind... Time to do anything when you want to do it...
I still don't see why some dudes will be desperate to get married at the end of the day they end up cheating... It's bullshit.... Stay single and flirt marry and be with one forever

i just pity u. By d time wey pressure enter u. u go rush go marry

Passionate888:
Singleness is next to Godliness

Let me know why you said this.