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Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by darling4real1: 10:51am On Mar 08, 2020
Saw this in a group and decided to share it oh, when I thought I have seen it all, women have really suffered in this marriage journey �������‍♂️����������������

Sister please help me and post this and don't tell them my name. Thanks

I don't know if my husband is mad or have spiritual problem.
But the doctor and a psychologist we met said that he is suffering from Sadism. And we have been going for counseling but yet no positive result.

It all started when we are dating, we don't normally have sex. He always tell me that he don't want to rush anything or offend his maker by involving into premarital sex. We dated for 2 years without sex only kissing, hugging and sleeping on you of each other.
Immediately we married, we a quick sex which resulted to my first son. He even wrote sex time table and pasted it in our room. Anytime am horney and demanded for sex, he will tell me that he is in prayer week or we will have a short quicky. I got use of the quicky. Last 7 months, he called in the mid night and told me that he has no enjoyed sex as a married man, we talk about it and I promised him to do my best that I don't enjoy it too. We agreed to enhance our sexual life. Three days later, he came home with a gift which led to a hot romance I have never witnessed before since our 3 years of marriage which led to a rough sex, I mean during the sex, he was beating me and hitting me with any thing he placed his hand on. Moaning while I was crying and trying to escape. Our plastic jug I place beside our bed was smashed on my head, he even used his belt, whipping me like a thief and moaning till he cum. He pleased to me and told me that he enjoyed it. He told me to hospital and they gave me some pain killer. Later he explained it is the only way he enjoys sex. That if he didn't see me in pain or bleeding, he won't enjoy it.
That incident alone got me afraid. I started avoiding him in bed. I later found out that am pregnant and the nurses told me that I need to be having sex with my husband now.
I told him that and he was very happy.
That night we had another rough sex which lead to another injuries.he later bought a chain and a key for me to use and chain him if he turns wild but it didn't work. I talked to a friend and she directed us to a psychologist and a doctor, he was given drugs and started counseling.
As am talking to you now, we had sex two days ago, he nearly killed me with harmer, he didn't even remember that I was pregnant, he raised me up and hit on our drawer. He smashed our standing mirror on my bum bum. It was our neighbors that rescued me when they heard my crying and noise that was coming from from our room. I didn't even know when I was rushed to hospital because I fainted because he hit my head on our wooden bed. Thank God for my neighbor who came for my rescue because I wouldn't have come out a life till he cum because according to doctor he said that I have small brain injury and my baby is not in good condition.. My mum and my elder brother is in the hospital now. They said that he won't marry me again.
Sister, I love this man and he loves me too. Leaving him in this kind of problem will it help him?
Will I be able to abandon my first child there and go?
He has been pleading to see me and pay the hospital bill or even know the condition of my wounds but my brother refused. Please I need help.

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Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by ikh777: 10:54am On Mar 08, 2020
story is either a lie or a movie or the man has insanity in his lineage.


He has a fetish and it is the kind only a psycho would have. a serial killer in the making.

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Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by godofuck231: 10:59am On Mar 08, 2020
dm me fast, you are about to be in a dead bag, our husband is a psychotic killer waiting to manifest, this isn't his first , men like him are known to asphyxiate women till death or worse
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by Nobody: 11:04am On Mar 08, 2020
I don't believe this.

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Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by James289(f): 11:05am On Mar 08, 2020
Ahahahaha these sounds very funny.

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Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by mejai(m): 11:10am On Mar 08, 2020
Laff wan kill me here. Not a laffn matter o, but i have to.


grin grin grin grin


BDSM porn has finished him. Run for ur life o

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Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by GOFRONT(m): 11:11am On Mar 08, 2020
Lol......Nothing when pesun ear no go hear for this Nigeria....


Marriage gone bad....
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by eyefordetails: 11:13am On Mar 08, 2020
Wonders shall never end.
#awon BDSM geng

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Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by TellBlazer(m): 11:15am On Mar 08, 2020
I got so paranoid while reading your story, I don't know why some women dont make use of their brain,is better that you dead in his arm or your children become motherless, you can't send him first to the afterlife and inherit all his property...Ewu.

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Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by libertyfather(m): 11:19am On Mar 08, 2020
Crazy
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by Nwodosis(m): 11:22am On Mar 08, 2020
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by Dexpro: 11:26am On Mar 08, 2020
James289:
Ahahahaha these sounds very funny.

Nah not funny if the story is anything to go by. The husband is a sadist. I had a boy working for me back then, he would boast about sexing his girlfriend (Anal penetration) to the extent she'll start bleeding profusely. That is the point when he cums undecided

I never believed this until when news came to me that the girl was hospitalized coz of excessive bleeding from the anus cry

She told me he inserted metal rod into her anus and was so excited about it. I reported him to the police.

The woman involved in the above story should call it quits. If she does not quit that marriage, she'll end up in a body bag.

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Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by tidalstorm(m): 11:33am On Mar 08, 2020
People that think BDSM and that Fifty shades of grey stuff is romantic.

You should enter here and get sense.

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Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by Vyolet(f): 11:55am On Mar 08, 2020
You had better run for your life.
I don't understand how someone will get aroused by inflicting pain on others. If it's that easy, he should inflict it on himself first.
Animal.
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by Nobody: 12:32pm On Mar 08, 2020
shocked shocked
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by Joevics(m): 12:46pm On Mar 08, 2020
The husband isn't a sadist. He's a dominant. The only way they enjoy sex is to dominate others.

It's quite difficult to get over, but that shows he isn't really a Christian.
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by GboyegaD(m): 3:14pm On Mar 08, 2020
This one don pass BDSM. The guy needs help, she isn't a psychiatrist as such, she can't help him. However, she is wife and can walk this journey of rehabilitation with him.
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by punisha: 3:23pm On Mar 08, 2020
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Since the marriage is about to "crashed"
Oga has decided to be crashing the woman into everything in the house and also make sure her head is crashed with everything he can find.
They can crash away in peace.

May God protect his people from such crashing.

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Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by frozen70(f): 5:17pm On Mar 08, 2020
darling4real1:
Saw this in a group and decided to share it oh, when I thought I have seen it all, women have really suffered in this marriage journey �������‍♂️����������������

Sister please help me and post this and don't tell them my name. Thanks

I don't know if my husband is mad or have spiritual problem.
But the doctor and a psychologist we met said that he is suffering from Sadism. And we have been going for counseling but yet no positive result.

It all started when we are dating, we don't normally have sex. He always tell me that he don't want to rush anything or offend his maker by involving into premarital sex. We dated for 2 years without sex only kissing, hugging and sleeping on you of each other.
Immediately we married, we a quick sex which resulted to my first son. He even wrote sex time table and pasted it in our room. Anytime am horney and demanded for sex, he will tell me that he is in prayer week or we will have a short quicky. I got use of the quicky. Last 7 months, he called in the mid night and told me that he has no enjoyed sex as a married man, we talk about it and I promised him to do my best that I don't enjoy it too. We agreed to enhance our sexual life. Three days later, he came home with a gift which led to a hot romance I have never witnessed before since our 3 years of marriage which led to a rough sex, I mean during the sex, he was beating me and hitting me with any thing he placed his hand on. Moaning while I was crying and trying to escape. Our plastic jug I place beside our bed was smashed on my head, he even used his belt, whipping me like a thief and moaning till he cum. He pleased to me and told me that he enjoyed it. He told me to hospital and they gave me some pain killer. Later he explained it is the only way he enjoys sex. That if he didn't see me in pain or bleeding, he won't enjoy it.
That incident alone got me afraid. I started avoiding him in bed. I later found out that am pregnant and the nurses told me that I need to be having sex with my husband now.
I told him that and he was very happy.
That night we had another rough sex which lead to another injuries.he later bought a chain and a key for me to use and chain him if he turns wild but it didn't work. I talked to a friend and she directed us to a psychologist and a doctor, he was given drugs and started counseling.
As am talking to you now, we had sex two days ago, he nearly killed me with harmer, he didn't even remember that I was pregnant, he raised me up and hit on our drawer. He smashed our standing mirror on my bum bum. It was our neighbors that rescued me when they heard my crying and noise that was coming from from our room. I didn't even know when I was rushed to hospital because I fainted because he hit my head on our wooden bed. Thank God for my neighbor who came for my rescue because I wouldn't have come out a life till he cum because according to doctor he said that I have small brain injury and my baby is not in good condition.. My mum and my elder brother is in the hospital now. They said that he won't marry me again.
Sister, I love this man and he loves me too. Leaving him in this kind of problem will it help him?
Will I be able to abandon my first child there and go?
He has been pleading to see me and pay the hospital bill or even know the condition of my wounds but my brother refused. Please I need help.

If you want to die quickly stay with him
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by skentelelady(f): 5:36pm On Mar 08, 2020
This is so hilarious cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy just rolling on the floor with laugh

This can't be real and if its then the woman is crazy herself. Shes still thinking if how the man would feel if she left him
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by bukatyne(f): 6:44pm On Mar 08, 2020
Dexpro:


Nah not funny if the story is anything to go by. The husband is a sadist. I had a boy working for me back then, he would boast about sexing his girlfriend (Anal penetration) to the extent she'll start bleeding profusely. That is the point when he cums undecided

I never believed this until when news came to me that the girl was hospitalized coz of excessive bleeding from the anus cry

She told me he inserted metal rod into her anus and was so excited about it. I reported him to the police.

The woman involved in the above story should call it quits. If she does not quit that marriage, she'll end up in a body bag.

You mean a girl NOT married to man endured all these?

She is a disgrace to her parents and her lineage!
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by SweetCunt97(f): 7:08pm On Mar 08, 2020
If you not into the same sexual fetish, better run for your life cos one day, he might just strangle you to death.
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by SweetCunt97(f): 7:10pm On Mar 08, 2020
Joevics:
The husband isn't a sadist. He's a dominant. The only way they enjoy sex is to dominate others.

It's quite difficult to get over, but that shows he isn't really a Christian.
masochist, sadist... He is all.
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by Dexpro: 8:02pm On Mar 08, 2020
bukatyne:


You mean a girl NOT married to man endured all these?

She is a disgrace to her parents and her lineage!

These are just but a few instances of what some girls do all in the name of love.

Just recently, I made friends with two very young girls. I over heard her bf yelling to her on phone that what exactly is her problems? Whenever she visits him, he'll invite 3 of his friends end they'd ensure they tear her underneath apart. She wholeheartedly agreed in as long as that is OK with him and will keep both of them together shocked

I couldn't believe my ears. The lady in question is a 300L student of a Uni. in Nigeria.

Things have completely fallen apart!

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Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by babyfaceafrica: 8:33pm On Mar 08, 2020
Keep sharing lies
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by cococandy(f): 8:37pm On Mar 08, 2020
No no way. What advice does she need?
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by Jacqueline22(f): 8:50pm On Mar 08, 2020
Lie or no lie.. Choi this story is funny grin grin grin grin grin grin grin I can’t stop laughing
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by Oyiboman69: 9:47pm On Mar 08, 2020
You and your husband they craze.

Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by Foxie: 11:47am On Mar 10, 2020
punisha:
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Since the marriage is about to "crashed"
Oga has decided to be crashing the woman into everything in the house and also make sure her head is crashed with everything he can find.
They can crash away in peace.

May God protect his people from such crashing.
I almost died laughing reading through this... LMAO grin grin grin
Re: Please Help A Sister As Her Marriage Is About To Crashed by Nobody: 11:52am On Mar 10, 2020
ELEBRADA!!!

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