One of the things I am very passionate about in this life is SEX. Yes, you read right. I love sex a lot as long as it is consensual. It’s not like I have been having sex for years. I just started recently but after my first experience, I sat down and thought about how amazing, how creative, powerful, mysterious that our creator is. Like, how was he able to design such a mind-blowing experience like sex? Why did it feel so good?

Now, I am not talking about “Forced Sex” or sex that happened because your partner persuaded you. I am talking about consensual sex – the guy wants it as much as the girl does. No persuasion. That’s the sex I am talking about. It consumes you and it becomes you.

A friend once asked me, “Ann, what does sex feel like? Can you describe it?” I opened my mouth to answer the question but couldn’t. I was lost for words. I tried again but failed. “There are some feelings that cannot be explained”, was the reply I ended up giving my friend.

I went home that day and kept asking myself, “Ann, how is it possible that you cannot explain something you are passionate about?” it didn’t make sense and that was why the next time I decided to have get down with a guy, I paid attention to my feelings.

Continue reading: https://annsbleedingpen.com/blog/freaky-tuesday-what-sex-really-feels-like/

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Yeah right! If u pay attention to how u & ur partner feel during an intimate session and not what u’ll get after the session from said partner, it can be the sweetest of feelings. You’ll probably achieve orgasm more frequently too. The French don’t call it 'the little death' for nothing!

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No be only you oooo...

We all love sex.

We love to fork our girlfriends as if we're acting porn, and Las Las we love to hustle and settle with virgins.

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Men!

So some girls like this thing abi no qualm then
This is my question between A man and A woman
Who enjoys sex the most
Many people will fail

To different people sex can sometimes be any of the following:

-Pleasant/pleasurable

-Little or No feelings (Frigid)

-Discomforting/painful/terrifying

This is highly situational and you can only describe your experiences based on context. You as an individual, may meet a lousy partner and not enjoy it while you meet another 2 days latter and you are blown away and erupt beyond Mount Etna.

So, inform your friend that the experience, it is contextual. Every human has slightly different psychological, intellectual, experiential, emotional and anatomical/physiological make up. This applies to each partner (homo or hetero) or even the individual (solo). These play great roles in the answer to give your friend. Someone else can give her an answer which is a direct opposite to yours.

The society you live in does not really allow women express themselves when it comes to enjoying sex, having special or specific sexual desires, preferences and fantasies. Go read My Secret Garden for instance and you will realize how the society stiffles self desires and expression by women.

Sexual fantasies that men readily express, e.g. size, positions, likes, dislikes etc. Women are generally slut shamed for such. Such double standards have made women keep notions like the one you have expressed in this topic hidden and never to be expressed. A simple act of telling a man to increase thrusts or his grinding because it is pleasant to you during the sexual act will make most instantly judge you and tag you a slut. To the shallow minded men, if you aren't a slut how come you know the things you do?


This is fast changing though as women become more independent and demand for freedom to express themselves as much as men.

Sex is damn good.

meobizy:
Sex is overrated. The only reason why people want it so much is because they don’t get enough of it. One who gets it whenever desired will actively avoid the act. Humans can use it to manipulate others because our basic programming is to pass on genes once all our survival needs are met.

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