STORY OF MY BESTIE she's in pains now

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HT_yAdd10XQ

I have decided to ask everyone here for advice —
should I marry a very decent guy if I felt nothing more than respect and friendly feelings to him these days?

The reason I ask is that I’m 28 but I haven’t had any relationship before this. I’ve fallen in love several times before but the guys either turned out to be married, not interested in me, had a very unstable mind, or were irresponsible and let me down…

I would love to listen to my heart but even till today, my heart is used to making the wrong decisions…

Now I met this guy, and he fell in love with me immediately. He is very responsible, caring, perceptive…
But I simply don’t feel anything for him…


I’ve told him that already but he asked me to give him a chance and to see if I would change my mind…
I’ve given him that chance but I simply don’t feel emotional or physical compatibility…
I just can’t imagine having a spousal relationship with him…

Should I give him a straight-up “NO” and continue to wait/search for someone while living my life?
Or is there a chance that love will come after marriage? This my last question sounds very funny but what brought up all these is due to the many videos I've watched on YOUTUBE about how to give up in a relationship/how to fall in love.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HT_yAdd10XQ
The responses I get from Youtube Videos are quite complicated, some seem helpful, but I remain completely ignorant about my present condition.

Thanks for reading and I expect your advice.

Twifemmy:
STORY OF MY BESTIE she's in pains now

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HT_yAdd10XQ

I have decided to ask everyone here for advice —
should I marry a very decent guy if I felt nothing more than respect and friendly feelings to him these days?

The reason I ask is that I’m 28 but I haven’t had any relationship before this. I’ve fallen in love several times before but the guys either turned out to be married, not interested in me, had a very unstable mind, or were irresponsible and let me down…

I would love to listen to my heart but even till today, my heart is used to making the wrong decisions…

Now I met this guy, and he fell in love with me immediately. He is very responsible, caring, perceptive…
But I simply don’t feel anything for him…


I’ve told him that already but he asked me to give him a chance and to see if I would change my mind…
I’ve given him that chance but I simply don’t feel emotional or physical compatibility…
I just can’t imagine having a spousal relationship with him…

Should I give him a straight-up “NO” and continue to wait/search for someone while living my life?
Or is there a chance that love will come after marriage? This my last question sounds very funny but what brought up all these is due to the many videos I've watched on YOUTUBE about how to give up in a relationship/how to fall in love.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HT_yAdd10XQ
The responses I get from Youtube Videos are quite complicated, some seem helpful, but I remain completely ignorant about my present condition.

Thanks for reading and I expect your advice.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HT_yAdd10XQ

Twifemmy:






https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HT_yAdd10XQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HT_yAdd10XQ

Twifemmy:
STORY OF MY BESTIE she's in pains now

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HT_yAdd10XQ

I have decided to ask everyone here for advice —
should I marry a very decent guy if I felt nothing more than respect and friendly feelings to him these days?

The reason I ask is that I’m 28 but I haven’t had any relationship before this. I’ve fallen in love several times before but the guys either turned out to be married, not interested in me, had a very unstable mind, or were irresponsible and let me down…

I would love to listen to my heart but even till today, my heart is used to making the wrong decisions…

Now I met this guy, and he fell in love with me immediately. He is very responsible, caring, perceptive…
But I simply don’t feel anything for him…


I’ve told him that already but he asked me to give him a chance and to see if I would change my mind…
I’ve given him that chance but I simply don’t feel emotional or physical compatibility…
I just can’t imagine having a spousal relationship with him…

Should I give him a straight-up “NO” and continue to wait/search for someone while living my life?
Or is there a chance that love will come after marriage? This my last question sounds very funny but what brought up all these is due to the many videos I've watched on YOUTUBE about how to give up in a relationship/how to fall in love.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HT_yAdd10XQ
The responses I get from Youtube Videos are quite complicated, some seem helpful, but I remain completely ignorant about my present condition.

Thanks for reading and I expect your advice.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HT_yAdd10XQ