please advise me ! the parents and church members of the lady i want to marry are insisting we must not wedd in Catholic churcu my church rather in a Pentecostal church where she belong . if not they will not attend and will not give out their blessing. and this is about to ruin our relationship

Spinojaja26:
please advise me ! the parents and church members of the lady i want to marry are insisting we must not wedd in Catholic churcu my church rather in a Pentecostal church where she belong . if not they will not attend and will not give out their blessing. and this is about to ruin our relationship

Stand your ground they are very stupid. Traditional marriage is done based on bride family choice, church marriage is to be determined by Grooms family. Should they insist, go for court wedding or get another wife.

i tire for our people. learned people for that matter. Most of the times this is instigated by the priest.

SUPERPACK:
Stand your ground they are very stupid. Traditional marriage is done based on bride family choice, church marriage is to be determined by Grooms family. Should they insist, go for court wedding or get another wife.

Which culture is the bride from

Where I come from traditional and church is determined by the brides family.

If this is an intertribal marriage one has to bend for another.

If the condition comes from the parents, honor it and don’t think over it, after marriage you can start to misbehave. But if it comes from the woman you want to marry and she insists, drop her like hot dodo and don’t think over it.

Church wedding is always the lady's church and not the man, if after wedding, you can decide to worship there or continue in your place of worship, the family can't do much then coz you guys are legally married.
Have a talk with your wife to be, you can honour her parents wish but you guys should decide on the church to be going to avoid issh

Spinojaja26:
please advise me ! the parents and church members of the lady i want to marry are insisting we must not wedd in Catholic churcu my church rather in a Pentecostal church where she belong . if not they will not attend and will not give out their blessing. and this is about to ruin our relationship

This is a very simple issue, in as much as she will end up with you in the Catholic

Alternatively, end the relationship

Any marriage with out both parents blessing hardly work

You can't kill ourself

SUPERPACK:
Stand your ground they are very stupid. Traditional marriage is done based on bride family choice, church marriage is to be determined by Grooms family. Should they insist, go for court wedding or get another wife.

Your advice is too harsh, just learn to consider other peoples feelings before taking a decision if not you will be stepping on toes steady

Team trandition marriage only, church weeding is for White.

Then they should find a catholic for her. There has to be cohesion n unity. If you give in to this demand, be ready to iron the issue later in marriage

Spinojaja26:
please advise me ! the parents and church members of the lady i want to marry are insisting we must not wedd in Catholic churcu my church rather in a Pentecostal church where she belong . if not they will not attend and will not give out their blessing. and this is about to ruin our relationship

Oga, wedding is done in the bride's family church sir.





SMH. WETIN RELIGIOSITY GO CAUSE EEHN!!

Both of you should communicate. At worst, do court and not go to church.

Spinojaja26:
please advise me ! the parents and church members of the lady i want to marry are insisting we must not wed in Catholic church, my church rather in a Pentecostal church where she belong . if not they will not attend and will not give out their blessing. and this is about to ruin our relationship

The wedding is usually held in the bride's family's church, after all, they're the ones giving out their daughter. Consider that.
If it means so much to you, after the wedding in the pentecostal church, you both can meet with the Reverend Father of your parish for his blessings.