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Advice Pls by Spinojaja26: 9:10pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
please advise me ! the parents and church members of the lady i want to marry are insisting we must not wedd in Catholic churcu my church rather in a Pentecostal church where she belong . if not they will not attend and will not give out their blessing. and this is about to ruin our relationship |
Re: Advice Pls by SUPERPACK: 10:13pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Spinojaja26:Stand your ground they are very stupid. Traditional marriage is done based on bride family choice, church marriage is to be determined by Grooms family. Should they insist, go for court wedding or get another wife. |
Re: Advice Pls by jesmond3945: 12:53am On Mar 12, 2020 |
i tire for our people. learned people for that matter. Most of the times this is instigated by the priest. |
Re: Advice Pls by NoToPile: 1:07am On Mar 12, 2020 |
SUPERPACK: Which culture is the bride from Where I come from traditional and church is determined by the brides family. If this is an intertribal marriage one has to bend for another. 6 Likes |
Re: Advice Pls by Nobody: 2:12am On Mar 12, 2020 |
If the condition comes from the parents, honor it and don’t think over it, after marriage you can start to misbehave. But if it comes from the woman you want to marry and she insists, drop her like hot dodo and don’t think over it. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Pls by Liliyann(f): 7:37am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Church wedding is always the lady's church and not the man, if after wedding, you can decide to worship there or continue in your place of worship, the family can't do much then coz you guys are legally married. Have a talk with your wife to be, you can honour her parents wish but you guys should decide on the church to be going to avoid issh 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Pls by frozen70(f): 4:52pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
Spinojaja26: This is a very simple issue, in as much as she will end up with you in the Catholic Alternatively, end the relationship Any marriage with out both parents blessing hardly work You can't kill ourself |
Re: Advice Pls by frozen70(f): 4:56pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
SUPERPACK: Your advice is too harsh, just learn to consider other peoples feelings before taking a decision if not you will be stepping on toes steady 3 Likes |
Re: Advice Pls by demoBaba: 7:32pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
Team trandition marriage only, church weeding is for White. |
Re: Advice Pls by LadySarah: 7:41pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
Then they should find a catholic for her. There has to be cohesion n unity. If you give in to this demand, be ready to iron the issue later in marriage |
Re: Advice Pls by OlawaleBammie: 8:14pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
Spinojaja26: Oga, wedding is done in the bride's family church sir. SMH. WETIN RELIGIOSITY GO CAUSE EEHN!! 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Pls by GboyegaD(m): 8:55pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
Both of you should communicate. At worst, do court and not go to church. |
Re: Advice Pls by Mariangeles(f): 10:01pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
Spinojaja26: The wedding is usually held in the bride's family's church, after all, they're the ones giving out their daughter. Consider that. If it means so much to you, after the wedding in the pentecostal church, you both can meet with the Reverend Father of your parish for his blessings. 1 Like |
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