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Have You Met And Maintained A Relationship With A Lady That Smokes Like Mad? by Nobody: 1:46am On Mar 12, 2020
I just met this lady few days ago. Mehnn!!! I’m still wondering why her head isn’t on fire yet.


It takes her just few minutes for her to request for another blunt.


Its not as if I have anything with her o. It’s just the normal rough play.

Where will her kind end up? Because I’m not sure a sane man will keep this one as wife. Pardon my use of words but na the way me dey reason am.


Before you say I’m destroying someone’s daughter, I just met her few days ago. No plans to change her yet grin but I’ll try. If she’s the type that want to change shar. After the rough play I’ll commence rehabilitation on her. grin

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Re: Have You Met And Maintained A Relationship With A Lady That Smokes Like Mad? by AliyuSIDI(m): 1:48am On Mar 12, 2020
Re: Have You Met And Maintained A Relationship With A Lady That Smokes Like Mad? by Nobody: 2:01am On Mar 12, 2020
AliyuSIDI:
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thunder fire you o!! Egbon Aliyu

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Re: Have You Met And Maintained A Relationship With A Lady That Smokes Like Mad? by CONFAMA: 11:39pm On Mar 12, 2020
Awon change agents tun ti de undecided
Re: Have You Met And Maintained A Relationship With A Lady That Smokes Like Mad? by Sacrosanct12(m): 7:53am On Mar 13, 2020
grin grin ; she smokes hard core and you dey do rough play with her,wat if here lungs and heart come do rough play on top una rough play. Bro u need rehabilitation cool

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Re: Have You Met And Maintained A Relationship With A Lady That Smokes Like Mad? by Russo35(m): 8:44am On Mar 13, 2020
Bros you can't change anybody, unless its her choice.. She is an addict to nicotine, weed and all already... Once an addict always an addict....S he can put a stop to it only when she wants to(Her Choice not yours)
Re: Have You Met And Maintained A Relationship With A Lady That Smokes Like Mad? by GeneralPula: 9:53am On Mar 13, 2020
Yes..

Most of girls that smokes are usually very romantic..
Re: Have You Met And Maintained A Relationship With A Lady That Smokes Like Mad? by Leezah(f): 10:13am On Mar 13, 2020
cheesy
I speak from personal experience. some years ago I dated a man I thought only used it on weekends when he was around his friends. We were in our late teens and I thought it was something he would grow out of. We were never together everyday until after we got moved in together so I had no idea he smoked it everyday after work. I had tried it myself while dating him but hated the way it made me space out and not be capable of having conversation or wanting to physically do anything. So I did not keep smoking it. As I said, I thought he would grow out of it once we moved in. That didn’t happen. And it was hard to leave and admit to the world that I made a mistake in dating him. I got pregnant, and when my husband still wouldn’t quit smoking, I found the courage to leave when our baby was 3 months old. I could never leave the baby alone with him because he would smoke the minute I was out the door. I found that out when I forgot something and returned home 5 minutes after leaving only to find him smoking a joint while the baby was sleeping. I lost my child 9 months after as a result of ihaled smoke the baby has ingested

Anyone who is under the influence of a drug that affects your brain in a manner such that smoking or alcohol does is not fit to be responsible for taking care of a baby or been a in a relationship. So I left on my own. I had a good job and have been a good.

My ex dated another girl, had two more children and has lost numerous jobs due to his smoking and is currently unemployed. His poor ladyworks 4–5 part-time jobs trying to pay the bills and keep a roof over their heads. They are clearly not happy and my ex looks like hell, at least 15 years older than he is. All I can think is what a waste his life has been. He was tall, very handsome and could have been a professional athlete but smoking got in the way. He valued smoking much more highly than anything else. Anyone who believes smoking is not addictive isn’t telling the whole truth. Some people DO become addicted.

So, to sum it up, if you don’t smoke and don’t want to be responsible for doing everything yourself that two people in a relationship should share in doing, then get out now. Find someone who you are more compatible with and live a life that is aligned with your own values.

Just remember, short term pain, long term gain! Yes, your heart may be broken for a little while but I know you will meet someone better! Life is short. Don’t waste too much of it with the wrong people or wrong circumstances.

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Re: Have You Met And Maintained A Relationship With A Lady That Smokes Like Mad? by cezarman(m): 3:22pm On Mar 13, 2020
Leezah:
cheesy
I speak from personal experience. some years ago I dated a man I thought only used it on weekends when he was around his friends. We were in our late teens and I thought it was something he would grow out of. We were never together everyday until after we got moved in together so I had no idea he smoked it everyday after work. I had tried it myself while dating him but hated the way it made me space out and not be capable of having conversation or wanting to physically do anything. So I did not keep smoking it. As I said, I thought he would grow out of it once we moved in. That didn’t happen. And it was hard to leave and admit to the world that I made a mistake in dating him. I got pregnant, and when my husband still wouldn’t quit smoking, I found the courage to leave when our baby was 3 months old. I could never leave the baby alone with him because he would smoke the minute I was out the door. I found that out when I forgot something and returned home 5 minutes after leaving only to find him smoking a joint while the baby was sleeping. I lost my child 9 months after as a result of ihaled smoke the baby has ingested

Anyone who is under the influence of a drug that affects your brain in a manner such that smoking or alcohol does is not fit to be responsible for taking care of a baby or been a in a relationship. So I left on my own. I had a good job and have been a good.

My ex dated another girl, had two more children and has lost numerous jobs due to his smoking and is currently unemployed. His poor ladyworks 4–5 part-time jobs trying to pay the bills and keep a roof over their heads. They are clearly not happy and my ex looks like hell, at least 15 years older than he is. All I can think is what a waste his life has been. He was tall, very handsome and could have been a professional athlete but smoking got in the way. He valued smoking much more highly than anything else. Anyone who believes smoking is not addictive isn’t telling the whole truth. Some people DO become addicted.

So, to sum it up, if you don’t smoke and don’t want to be responsible for doing everything yourself that two people in a relationship should share in doing, then get out now. Find someone who you are more compatible with and live a life that is aligned with your own values.

Just remember, short term pain, long term gain! Yes, your heart may be broken for a little while but I know you will meet someone better! Life is short. Don’t waste too much of it with the wrong people or wrong circumstances.

It seems you love fantasies/living inside your head?

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Re: Have You Met And Maintained A Relationship With A Lady That Smokes Like Mad? by StylishLord(m): 3:32pm On Mar 13, 2020
stupidity:
After the rough play I’ll commence rehabilitation on her. grin
Ahh this guy u bad. after drilling the hole then u will decide on what to do next. chaiiiiiii
Re: Have You Met And Maintained A Relationship With A Lady That Smokes Like Mad? by Leezah(f): 8:25am On Mar 16, 2020
what fantasies?
cezarman:


It seems you love fantasies/living inside your head?

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