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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sarang(f): 4:34pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Nwaelohim: TO HELL WITH AUTHORITY! TO HELL! 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 4:35pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: If the boy is my son, I will not throw him away cos he is my responsibility. If he is another man's child, I have the option to either help or not to help. Do you get the difference now. Sometimes, you may have seen some children fighting and may be you are in a haste, you decides not to go and separate the fight. If it was ur child that was involved in that fight, will you say u are in a haste and let the fight continue? No, you will not. That is the same situation here. When you chose not to render help in a matter that is not ur responsibility, you have not commuted any crime. You can only say that it is not morally right but no the person is not guilty of any crime. That you have a soft heart to take in a child that is not your should not be a standard for every other person to be judged. The child is not his and moreover, the child in question has a bad criminal stigma attached to him. The man is not under any obligation to either take or not take in the child. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by NowisGod109(f): 4:38pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: You foot 70% bills and u still went ahead to get married after ur first 2kids. What were you thinking? The money u were suppose to save up and take care of ur 2kids to a level bfr even thinking of any marriage again...shooo! 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 4:39pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Psoul: U have time ooooo....usung this long epistle to explain yourself ..... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by BoboKush(m): 4:39pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Miarose: If u r in the man's shoe... U house a woman... Ha daughter then u wil add a boy that steal to knowing that u av a daughter he could molest or teach bad stuff.. Sometimes we shld put ourselves in shoe of others...... Did u knw aw many thought the man had before e conclude no.... Definitely his only daughter is major priority... He Wil protect ha n the unborn baby at all cost..... The daughter she brought to him is nt a threat that why their was no issue but a 12 yrs old boy with such attitude..... I then do worst than this 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by BoboKush(m): 4:40pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: Ode 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by BoboKush(m): 4:40pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Pusyiter(m): 4:41pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Do not blame the husband Is not easy to carter for kids that is not yours and yours He might be going through alot especially when the woman contributes more to the family PinkHealthGroup: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by goldensoul55: 4:41pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Since u are financially ok, quit that marriage and take care of your children 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 4:43pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: My dear sister, I read most if not all ur comments. Your response to the guy was that the man abandoned the agreement he had with the wife before getting into the marriage. Yes, they agreed to bring the boy in when things improve. The problem was that the boy the man agreed to take in turned out to be labeled a criminal. You kept blaming the man for abandoning the agreement. The agreement became null and void by that criminal attachment to that boys name. And the man gave his reason for that. He has full responsibility on his child and may chose to extend same to other pple's children or not. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 4:46pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: My dear brother, may it be well with you. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by wanger50(m): 4:46pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:Your husband could be right.I have seen my neighbour's wife daughter from a previous relationship come to damage his two younger daughters.From the point of view of a man,it's either your husband married you out of poverty, ignorance or a lack of foresight.You should be eternally thankful to him rather 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Amumaigwe: 4:47pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
xendra: But the OP that shares that mentality with her is here lanenting. Do you really mean that there is nothing wrong with it, goddamn feminist? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by PinkHealthGroup: 4:50pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Psoul: You can't label.a 12 year old a criminal. Did he kill someone? He is an abandoned child who may have some behavioural issues. Kids are very malleable and can be reformed. On the other hand, God knows how that poor child has been mistreated by relatives. If her husband cannot accept a child he is fake. He needs to take himself and his 30% somewhere else. I keep forgetting that Nigeria is backwards and stuck in the 1950s. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by eyefordetails: 4:50pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
liverpool72:Oh everyone, come and see the yeye husband's been spotted. Anofia |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by MaeBlocks(f): 4:51pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
God bless you dear For me, no woman who already has a child or children from a previous relationship/marriage should concern herself with another relationship. Those children need you more than that man. janvier27: 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 4:52pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Amumaigwe: Hahahahahaaha. Exactly my dear. She has bn ranting up and down and now want to counter herself even without admitting that she was wrong all these while. She is not as smart as I thought she was. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Pusyiter(m): 4:53pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
You are not being fair to your husband Respect his opinion if you have tried to make him see reasons The fact that you contribute more to the family need does not mean he is not the man/husband All i can say is, remain in your matrimonial home and do the needful. Vyvyanvyvy: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by johnwell(m): 4:54pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Live the poor guy alone, respect his decision. It's difficult for a man to accommodate a child that has been accused of stealing. Take them to their father(s), else it will crack your marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sixfeetbelle: 4:54pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Psoul: This means you didn't read my first comment. There, I advised Op to have a long talk with her husband and find out why he backed out of the deal. I even added she should use people he's close to so they can beg on her behalf. Let me say it clear now since I've seen you keep saying it as if it is the koko. The boy isn't a criminal until proven so. The criminal part is coming from her brother and his wife and their word of mouth isn't everything here. Some people are rarely nice to kids that aren't theirs. See, like some people pointed out, what that boy needs is a father figure in his life, especially in a home where he feels welcomed. The next four years in that boys life will be very critical in determining how he'll turn out. He doesn't need a man who is skeptical about his presence. He needs love and warmth and if the man is doubtful, then the woman has to place her kids first. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by PinkHealthGroup: 4:55pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
BoboKush: You sound like an animal. Taking out all your anger and frustrations on a 12 year old kid who needs love and stability. Some of you are real decayed in the brain. No wonder there is a stark difference between you and the modern world. Your brain is very archaic. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 4:55pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: What is God telling you about it? Direct your request there. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nwaelohim: 4:57pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Sarang: Life has principles that governs it. Is not about your feeling or your decision.... Every solution is a new problem so you have to weigh your opinion properly. That's is life. She wants advise that will lead her to living with her son not some fight with her husband for who is in charge and not I charge 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by theency: 4:57pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
[quote author=Vyvyanvyvy post=87380932] He traveled to Italy and abandoned me with the children I shouldn’t waste my time waiting for him because he had move on and I’m also free to move on with my life [/quote you both decided to move on at the expense of your son |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by cezarman(m): 4:58pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: WITCH! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 5:02pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
cezarman:WIZARD ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by frozen70(f): 5:02pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Your son can not deny you or leave your life to suffer or leave you to another mother Your husband can decides to pack out to another woman or even leave the marriage for good Your son was behaving the way he was behaving because no one has a firm grip on him and he lost it all He must have been suffering going through difficulties which lead him to start pilfering He could as well be starved and am sure he has not experience love since you left him there Pls get your son back to your home before he gets use to wild life and keep watching his behaviour, correct him with love as that's the only way to get him back to his good self Let your husband react, just keep quiet and plead with him that tomorrow, this child will be you people's hope If he refuses and insisted on him leaving the house, just keep quiet let him do his worst You have not given birth to him and the one you have, you are not with him, Who do you want to impress Worst case he will pack out that's shows he loves you for what you have 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Mstick: 5:04pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Madam don't listen to the children on this thread that feels the "ego" of a man should be put before the need of a child. My advice is, go and bring your son home and DON'T send him to boarding school, be a mother to that boy and mould him. The people insulting you and giving you such silly advice and supporting your husband will still blame you when that boy turns out worst. He's not a criminal all he needs right now is your care. Vyvyanvyvy: 10 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by cezarman(m): 5:06pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: You're blaming every other person but yourself, for your son's troubles. You should know you (and your baby daddy) are both responsible for him... |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 5:08pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:God will see you through. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 5:09pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Pusyiter:I cannot remain in my matrimonial home and seeing my son suffering like an orphan . I cannot put my husband over my son because he can abandoned me anytime soon but my son will always be there for me. I’m ready to quit and focus on my children alone 13 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 5:11pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
PinkHealthGroup: Thank you very much. I love pple that read and understand words very well the way they are bn used. Unfortunately, you failed to. I never labeled that little boy a criminal. I only said that there was a criminal stigma attached to him. This does not mean that I have concluded that he is a criminal It's just same as saying that he was alleged for stealing. It's not the same to say that he stole. Then, you said that if the man refused to accept the child, then he is fake. This is woefully thought out logic. It cannot stand any test. The man is free to either accept or reject the boy. He has not offended any law if he refuses to accept. You can only accuse him of low morality. Finally, you said the man can go away with his 30%....hahahahahahahahaha. Pathethic. Did you noticed in the Post that the woman does not have a comfortable life or earning before she marries that man? Whaooo....you did not see that. If she was comfortable, she wouldn't have sent his boy to go and live with someone that was maltreating him. Did you read the line where the woman said she told her husband that they will bring the boy back when things get better financially. Then he was living with her husband in his one room self content. From there, they worked hard and improved their finance and was able to get a bigger house. So you wholeheartedly accepted the 70-30% ratio? Hahahahahahahaha. My dear, they jointly build that home. Even if the woman is making more money, there are other ways the man was supporting that has really helped the woman more than the financial side, but women hardly recognize this. They only see material things. 1 Like |
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