WoundedLamb:


The issue with this is that if something goes wrong in future and she comes here to share her story, the same people that gave her this advice will be the ones to call her olosho who threw herself at a man. It's never really easy for the women folks to express such desires.

Which ever way to things do go wrong in marriage. It's all about ur level of maturity in handling it

cRobo:


individual difference, I will forever respect any woman who is bold enough to state clear her desire about me

well it all depends on the maturity of the guy

only kids will take such for granted

such ladies are rare and so special its not an act of desperation but going for what you want

guys pleads with girl and also ladies pleads with guys

unless the are kids

What if babymama that has two kids ask you out? What will be your response? Asking for a friend

If she must ask him out she must do it tactically by asking the guy how she see her and what he thinks about them both together.

NextD18:
Be bold and ask him out if you have feelings for him before you loose him to another lady.

Christian Brothers and their wahala... They will confuse you, your past generations and generations to come.

hmmmm

Oyindaberry:

Let’s wait for her response and hear her out

In case you are not married...pls dont ever try it , to charge a guy to know what he is up to,(tho, it can be done logically, but not with a date or direct) because he wouldn't be able to give a good response which is the main reason for delay...unless maybe financial issues, but a serious guy will always be open, mostly when it's more than 2years...but presently, 95% Nigeeian guys , will take it for desperation, confrontation and impatient....but a WISE, SMART, and INTELIINTEL GIRL, who knows what she wants will always know how to texhnically, logically knows what guy is up to...

Hope you read the nonsense you typed

cRobo:


individual difference, I will forever respect any woman who is bold enough to state clear her desire about me

well it all depends on the maturity of the guy

only kids will take such for granted

such ladies are rare and so special its not an act of desperation but going for what you want

guys pleads with girl and also ladies pleads with guys

unless the are kids

Chairman has already shown his intentions to bed u but too chicken to bear the consequences of denial. Ask him if U think I’m lying, and he’ll tell u he never have it in mind while taking off ur bra strap!

My advice? Don’t boink him, he’ll vanish once he’s had u like 1ce or 20 times but he certainly doesn’t want a future with u permanently in it. If he wanted that, he’d have manned up since and asked u out officially. Not keep u guessing and confused of his true intentions. If u like hear if u like nor hear, it’s ur 'kondus' not mine.

SweetCunt97:
He's married

Hmmm EXPE

Then asked him out.

merit455:
huh.....,you like him because he does everything you need. If he was just a friend,you will not come and asekd for advice,stingy and greedy African girls

Exactly what is on my mind about O.P

send mi to him

merit455:
huh.....,you like him because he does everything you need. If he was just a friend,you will not come and asekd for advice,stingy and greedy African girls

High

...that does not worth meaningful Men!!

PrimadonnaO:
Please, just move on with your life.

Open your heart to someone else, and let that other one continue doing his thing.

...

LOL, free money has consequences. in other words, there's no such thing.

prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out.

I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me.

What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

Women and confusion. He's not a suitor so why should he even come into the equation? Don't get ahead of yoursself. Make a decision based on your known suitors.

Just call him one faitful day n aprecite his efort, then ask him if his girlfrnd or wife won't b angry for being nice to u and wait for response. na there u go take finish mater

Sistas code 1905 section 1 subsection 18b:

Friendzone him and go out with the bolder guy. You get the best of both guys. Alpha fvcks as well as beta bvcks. Win-win for you.

prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out.

I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me.

What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

Shine your eyes.

I hope he is not targeting to use your head for perper soup for good fortune.

Or to sell your parts

Hustle o make you nor go dey mistake an act of kindness as marriage proposal

prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out.

I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me.

What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

Ask him out.

prepresh:

Oga, I like him because he is a born again and a brother in my church and very God fearing Christian, I'm only telling you people the things he does that made me think he has feelings for me, I don't like long story that's why I summarized. Please if you don't have advise to give people please read and pass and stop looking forward to criticism.

Why is it difficult to tell him how you feel? Ok, just ask him when can you come and cook for him or wash for him for all the care he is giving to you. If he gives you that chance, use it to tell him about the suitors coming your way. Ask what he thinks. Move on or forward from there. God bless.

The guy is really loaded ooo

He might be married or engaged yet he likes your company

Girl he's most likely an intelligence officer... It's best you let him be if he's not coming forth.

Reason is because most Intel officers need company because they Spend most of their lives a loner...

Rules is that you will never get to know were here resides and won't wanna know were you live also because that's his safety parameter...

Anyway all the best in finding your Mr Right

prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out.

I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me.

What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

The guy is a pro.

He won't ask you out till you end on his bed twice and everything will be end.

He's Better than Ronald and Messi combined

he's most likely rich and possesses some strong connects, he's commanding and has a strong command of what ever he wants, power steers, power tie, power suits, power looks, power cars, power trips, power banks, power houses, power bond, power control,
men of power only turn to women who play chess like them and command his attention, it's not a game for an ordinary jane

Socialng:


Maybe he is married....hmmmmm...And he is warming you up for the kill
Maybe he is hiding cos he has a small koboko..He may not flog you well
Maybe..He is a good Samaritan...Making the world a better place by helping u..You better be wise and use that money to establish a business..Or something good for yourself..
Maybe he is so Darn rich..What he is giving you is chicken change..
Maybe you are pretty..And he likes pretty girls..That's it..
Maybe he is a ritualist..Giving you ritual money...
Maybe maybee maybe
What am I saying sef

My dear op...Just sum up courage and ask him why he is giving you money..
Not that you mind...But is he interested in you..
It either a yes,No,or its complicated...

You have your answer...

Oya..Next person ...

Crazy meeeeeeeeen!!
But any of what you said could be true expecially about he being "MARRIED".

prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out.

I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me.

What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

ask your self why you lyk him? same sun that melts the butter hardens the clay,

If you truly like/love him. Please be bold and make the move before is too late. As long as he is not married, he is single and available.....

Call him and tell him ur introduction is in two weeks time and watch his reaction