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Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by tony1918(m): 12:32pm On Mar 20, 2020
Why can’t you just help your husband understand how you like your Ex in bed..Let him be the best of your Ex in bed without breaking his Ego..I believe this man loves you and you need this form of closure from you Ex..

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Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by culf: 12:35pm On Mar 20, 2020
once you're involve with someone, their thought will always creep in from time to time, just make sure you try to push it out or get distracted if its getting too much.

The thought will always come, make up your mind not to be stupid and pray for God to help you.

marriage no easy, temptations plenty there
Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by dnawah(m): 12:47pm On Mar 20, 2020
Adesucess1:
I met the man i married 2 years ago, it was like a joke, we started like a friend, i never knew we could even be together because he was always to joffier, he was a cool headed man, he is caring and loving and he is also very rich, though his money is not what i was looking for, i was looking for true love and what truly felt them was love.

He always say to me that he loves me and use to ask me that if am not in love with him, i should let him know that breaking a courtship is better than breaking a marriage. I dont even know maybe something was truly wrong with me then because i told him i do love him too, truly, i thought i did, because as at then, i dont usually remember my ex boyfriend, he was the only in my heart, so, i felt i love him.

Now, we are in the marriage, but the thought of my ex boyfriend keeps coming to the extend that when we make love, i always remember my ex boyfriend. i just dont understand all this, i had to reflect in my past that how did we started i remember that i had forgotten my ex boyfriend, now am so confused how his thought started coming again, and this bitters my heart.

My conscience is beginning to hunt me, i never knew i still love my ex until i got married, i dont want to hurt my man and i want to protect my marriage but all i use to remember is my ex and is affecting the marriage, its not as if my ex boyfriend called me, all these just started of a sudden, am so tired of all these nonsense . Please what should i do? I need serious help?

there are two things that could cause this,is either he was the one who disvigin u or he bleeped u brain out.solution:find any activity that will occupy your mind.
Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by ITbomb(m): 1:01pm On Mar 20, 2020
I stopped reading here
he is also very rich, though his money is not what i was looking for, i was looking for true love and what truly felt them was love.

ITbomb:

Show me a girl confused in relationship and I will show you either a guy with money or a guy with a really good dick

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Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by Brooke60(f): 1:09pm On Mar 20, 2020
Adesucess1:
I met the man i married 2 years ago, it was like a joke, we started like a friend, i never knew we could even be together because he was always to joffier, he was a cool headed man, he is caring and loving and he is also very rich, though his money is not what i was looking for, i was looking for true love and what truly felt them was love.

He always say to me that he loves me and use to ask me that if am not in love with him, i should let him know that breaking a courtship is better than breaking a marriage. I dont even know maybe something was truly wrong with me then because i told him i do love him too, truly, i thought i did, because as at then, i dont usually remember my ex boyfriend, he was the only in my heart, so, i felt i love him.

Now, we are in the marriage, but the thought of my ex boyfriend keeps coming to the extend that when we make love, i always remember my ex boyfriend. i just dont understand all this, i had to reflect in my past that how did we started i remember that i had forgotten my ex boyfriend, now am so confused how his thought started coming again, and this bitters my heart.

My conscience is beginning to hunt me, i never knew i still love my ex until i got married, i dont want to hurt my man and i want to protect my marriage but all i use to remember is my ex and is affecting the marriage, its not as if my ex boyfriend called me, all these just started of a sudden, am so tired of all these nonsense . Please what should i do? I need serious help?

Are you still in communication with your EX? If yes, you need to stop.

Also, think of your man, list what you love about him and use that list to your own advantage.

This one has been calling regularly and I have stopped picking his calls.
Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by Jman06(m): 1:11pm On Mar 20, 2020
This is why we advise against marrying non virgins!


Guys, marrying a non virgin whose ex is still alive is almost the same as going into a polyandrous marriage! Most ladies have fish brains and just a little wink from the ex is enough to make them fall back into their exes' arms.


Be warned!

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Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by BabaAgba79(m): 1:28pm On Mar 20, 2020
Adesucess1:
I met the man i married 2 years ago, it was like a joke, we started like a friend, i never knew we could even be together because he was always to joffier, he was a cool headed man, he is caring and loving and he is also very rich, though his money is not what i was looking for, i was looking for true love and what truly felt them was love.

He always say to me that he loves me and use to ask me that if am not in love with him, i should let him know that breaking a courtship is better than breaking a marriage. I dont even know maybe something was truly wrong with me then because i told him i do love him too, truly, i thought i did, because as at then, i dont usually remember my ex boyfriend, he was the only in my heart, so, i felt i love him.

Now, we are in the marriage, but the thought of my ex boyfriend keeps coming to the extend that when we make love, i always remember my ex boyfriend. i just dont understand all this, i had to reflect in my past that how did we started i remember that i had forgotten my ex boyfriend, now am so confused how his thought started coming again, and this bitters my heart.

My conscience is beginning to hunt me, i never knew i still love my ex until i got married, i dont want to hurt my man and i want to protect my marriage but all i use to remember is my ex and is affecting the marriage, its not as if my ex boyfriend called me, all these just started of a sudden, am so tired of all these nonsense . Please what should i do? I need serious help?


Madam you are only missing ur ex-boy's joystick. Your Ex disappeared coz you could not match his money with the guy u married. His money coloured your face. After u now married, he could not dick you like ur EX! The fault is yours. grin grin grin. If you like, go Bleep ur EX!

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Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by Ewomano: 1:42pm On Mar 20, 2020
Best ever for the meñ them

Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by tritt(m): 1:43pm On Mar 20, 2020
No vex ohh, which kin advise be dis?


zexy2030:

if u won't be shy make ur husband ur ex and kill ur ex in ur mind, assume he died in ghastly motor accident.
make your husband the porn star u admire in ur ex.
Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by zexy2030(m): 1:54pm On Mar 20, 2020
tritt:
No vex ohh, which kin advise be dis?


my broda weytin musa no go see for gate na, if na ur wife dey dream of her sex won't u wish, the ex was like this pic below(viewers discretion advised)

Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by SmellingAnus(m): 2:07pm On Mar 20, 2020
heartbraker:
dis evening newspapers are always confused, reason y virgin is d best for marriage
It has nothing to do with evening newspaper... I have an ex that got married when she was 23, she currently has three kids ... I got the shock of my life when after some years in her marriage she told me for those years she had to think of me when having sex with her husband if not she will not enjoy the sex or she will deny her husband sex... If not that I don't sleep with married women I would have slept with her many times when she offered herself to me even when she was pregnant with her first child...

The heart of a woman is very deep... Many wives/husbands are definitely experiencing this but you may never hear it from them... Lol...


Cc: Adesucess1

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Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by GoodBoi1(m): 2:25pm On Mar 20, 2020
This is one of the reasons I prefer to marry a virgin. Seek spiritual counsel from a pastor. You are likely experiencing a soul tie with your ex due to your sexual history

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Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by Easybela(f): 2:29pm On Mar 20, 2020
undecided God forbid,I no longer have an ex,I later married him but wait,what useless advice, which ex deserves such imagination or dream ,nawaoooo
zexy2030:

if u won't be shy make ur husband ur ex and kill ur ex in ur mind, assume he died in ghastly motor accident, something like the pic below, then
make your husband the porn star u admire in ur ex.

Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by 24kmagic: 2:36pm On Mar 20, 2020
Ok
Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by Martinez39s(m): 2:46pm On Mar 20, 2020
Administration1:
Ashawo na money you pursue, now u dey find prick
grin grin grin

Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by lykwhoishe: 2:46pm On Mar 20, 2020
OK. I hope you find what you looking for
Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by Mbcastrol(m): 2:47pm On Mar 20, 2020
Hmmmm girls shall, how long have you been married
Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by freethesheeple(m): 3:03pm On Mar 20, 2020
4ckz:
For people that don't want to read all that, let me give you a summary.

It's the same story with all gold diggers.
They marry for money
Then start craving for their past more attractive or better in bed ex.

You can now advice her.

Thank you.


hahahhahahaha..the Ashewo no need advice..?Let her follow Runs girl advice her...Women get problem i swear..

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Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by abbatoir(m): 3:20pm On Mar 20, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
It is normal. That is how all women who marry as non virgins behave. Nothing you can do.


Aww I can't leave you with this problem without proferring a solution. Look, just go with the flow and don't get caught. If you start sleeping raw with your ex, make sure your husband doesn't think of DNA testing by connecting DNA test to mistrust and lack of love on his part and telling him that a real man would never do such. Make sure you delete all your whatsapp messages with your ex, but keep the rest. Don't ever forget to go to the whatsapp folder on your device to delete the media (to get rid of the nudes) and the archives/backup afterwards. Start coming home later with genuine confirmable excuses from now, so that he will believe you when you use those excuses for your rendevouz with your ex later. Above all, avoid doing anything together within your locality or in public, if you're going to meet, for heaven's sake don't go shopping together in shoprite.

That is a brief summary of the married woman's guide to still be in love with her ex.

Nigga.. you will be very good at criminal case...


Philosopher call it radical intelligence
Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by TA4TA4: 3:25pm On Mar 20, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPPC0gdCSIM

Maybe your Ex treated you as the ideal man this lady talked about in this above video
Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by Olunmercy56(f): 3:40pm On Mar 20, 2020
Someone or your friends are advising you wrongly... cry embarassed Why did you married your husband when you never loved him Eni ti o ni ori o ni fila embarassed embarassed Release your husband, go and meet your ex, let another lady that knows how precious a man is to marry your husband. undecided undecided

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Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by zomoears(m): 3:43pm On Mar 20, 2020
SweetCunt97:
The ex probably did Remember Me Jazz on you

Na lie!

The kpekus knacking from the ex is original, the real deal!

She probably broke up with the ex cos he didn't have money or something. Now that she is with someone that has money, she misses the real deal!

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Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by Nobody: 3:43pm On Mar 20, 2020
abbatoir:


Nigga.. you will be very good at criminal case...


Philosopher call it radical intelligence

Lol. Always glad to be of help.
In the words of Rollo Tomassi of "the Rational Male" fame;

"A woman who wants to f*ck you will find a way to f*ck you. She will fly across the country, crawl under barbwire, climb in through your second story bedroom window, f*ck the sh*t out of you and wait patiently inside your closet if your wife comes home early from work – women who want to f*ck will find a way to f*ck"

I was just trying to keep her safe and under the radar when doing what she was already thinking of doing even before I joined NL.

And in case the Rollo Tomassi comment tweaked a nerve somewhere, here are some other red pill quotes worthy of mention...

https://brasspills.com/20-red-pill-quotes-from-rollo-tomassi-that-will-change-how-you-think-forever/

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Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by Nobody: 3:49pm On Mar 20, 2020
Adesucess1:
I met the man i married 2 years ago, it was like a joke, we started like a friend, i never knew we could even be together because he was always to joffier, he was a cool headed man, he is caring and loving and he is also very rich, though his money is not what i was looking for, i was looking for true love and what truly felt them was love.

He always say to me that he loves me and use to ask me that if am not in love with him, i should let him know that breaking a courtship is better than breaking a marriage. I dont even know maybe something was truly wrong with me then because i told him i do love him too, truly, i thought i did, because as at then, i dont usually remember my ex boyfriend, he was the only in my heart, so, i felt i love him.

Now, we are in the marriage, but the thought of my ex boyfriend keeps coming to the extend that when we make love, i always remember my ex boyfriend. i just dont understand all this, i had to reflect in my past that how did we started i remember that i had forgotten my ex boyfriend, now am so confused how his thought started coming again, and this bitters my heart.

My conscience is beginning to hunt me, i never knew i still love my ex until i got married, i dont want to hurt my man and i want to protect my marriage but all i use to remember is my ex and is affecting the marriage, its not as if my ex boyfriend called me, all these just started of a sudden, am so tired of all these nonsense . Please what should i do? I need serious help?


My advice come with a price.
The ex you kept remembering is he the one that dis-V (deflowered) you?

Rate his sexual expecties to your hubby?

Then I can help....
Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by jeff1607(m): 3:55pm On Mar 20, 2020
you can't be in love 247, this phase will definitely pass

bring back the spark that made you want your current husband


marriage ain't a bed of roses, marriage is work
Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by XhosaNostra(f): 3:56pm On Mar 20, 2020
What do you even miss about this ex-boyfriend of yours? Do remember that exes are exes for a reason. The grass is not always greener on the other side. Take the ex out of your head & just take in how fortunate you are to be with someone that loves you despite everything that you've been through in your life (Only you know your history. Reminisce).

Because if you don't learn to appreciate that man, some of us will wink

"Whoops, sir" grin

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Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by Bola146(f): 4:01pm On Mar 20, 2020
Very simple, go back to your mumu ex and stop wasting your husband's time, oniranu
Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by centboy123456(m): 4:01pm On Mar 20, 2020
XhosaNostra:
What do you even miss about this ex-boyfriend of yours? Do remember that exes are exes for a reason. The grass is not always greener on the other side. Take the ex out of your head & just take in how fortunate you are to be with someone that loves you despite everything that you've been through in your life (Only you know your history. Reminisce).

Because if you don't learn to appreciate that man, some of us will wink

"Whoops, sir" grin


shut up your mouth

what do u know u are saying

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Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by XhosaNostra(f): 4:04pm On Mar 20, 2020
centboy123456:



shut up your mouth

what do u know u are saying

...

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Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by centboy123456(m): 4:05pm On Mar 20, 2020
XhosaNostra:

...

you this girl I don't know what ur problem
I don't know why you still here
Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by crackhouse(m): 4:37pm On Mar 20, 2020
Your ex is cooking something in baba's place and it will soon done.
Re: Am In Big Trouble, Am Married But I Keep Remembering My Ex Boyfriend, What Can I by czarr(m): 4:39pm On Mar 20, 2020
Bola146:
Very simple, go back to your mumu ex and stop wasting your husband's time, oniranu
why is the ex mumu?...what is his crime?

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