Hello nairalanders, a friend introduced me to nairaland cos am really in search of were I can start up a new life and career, am a graduate and an indigen of one of the states in the middle belt region.

I graduated from the University not long ago and have also rounded up my nysc, I used to have my hopes high that atleast when am done serving my father land I will have something doing no matter how small it is but it has been really frustrating for me, so right now I have decided to move to lagos to start a fresh life and hoping things will work out but my problem is that I have never been to lagos before and all am doing is just taking a dare step, so please nairalanders I need your advice especially those staying and hustling in lagos.

Am a very good driver and I believe I can find something doing when I get there, yes I know it's a huge risk that am about to take but I have to because lately I have been feeling depressed and having suicidal thoughts and it's not really funny.

So please single guys in lagos how do you survive? I need your advice either positive or negative cos I believe it will help prepare me for the uncertainties of a stranger in a foreign land, and am planning to leave for lagos by next week.

Thank you

It's a pity that Life is not always fair Man.
But since you have decideded to take the bold step and live ur comfort zone and move to Lagos, I will say that you should be careful, never relent. Persistence and consistence will pay off one day.

I wish you Luck in ur journey that you are about to embark on.

ItzEminence:
It's a pity that Life is not always fair Man.
But since you have decideded to take the bold step and live ur comfort zone and move to Lagos, I will say that you should be careful, never relent. Persistence and consistence will pay off one day.

I wish you Luck in ur journey that you are about to embark on.

Thank you sir, even if it's to do Labour work b4 something better comes up its fine. I really appreciate your comment.