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Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by freecocoa(f): 11:31pm On Dec 26, 2010 |
Carolece:Shebi i wrote it,you are just looking for someone to encourage you,well lucky you, you've found one,i guess u two will make a perfect match,oh wait,he's a man and you hate him as well,oh sorry how pathetic.RUBBISH. |
Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by beejaei: 12:11am On Dec 27, 2010 |
@freecocoa you are a naughty person. if you have not been in someone's shoes before, stick your mouth up your azz or keep quiet. There are certain things no one can discuss without the right perspective. If you have not worn the shoes the OP has worn. it is easy to sit on Mount Moral High Ground and tell the OP what is right or wrong. Pray you dont ever have to feel what she is feeling. |
Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by IyaBasira: 12:29am On Dec 27, 2010 |
freecocoa: YOU can say that your father is all you could ask for. Her experience has obviously been a bitter one. As much as we admire people who are able to move past their experiences, not everyone is like that. A lot of us are still too human and thats why some people say that maturity is overrated. Kadata: I hate arguments like this. You just heard someone say that they had the worst father in the world and you expect her to be grateful that he brought her into the world? Life is about quality , not someone who did something that anyone can do. Why do you think some people make the distinction between someone who was their "biological " mother/father and someone who was their parent in the true sense of the word? So someone gave birth to you, or contributed some of their semen to create you. That doesnt mean they deserve an award. Being a parent is a lot more than just mixing a sperm and an egg together and creating a child so why do people behave like you can get away with being a bad parent as long as you have broght a child into the world ? |
Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by iice(f): 4:16am On Dec 27, 2010 |
Odin forbid. I love my parents to death even if they can be annoying sometimes. They made the right choice. . .even reincarnating, they will always find each other |
Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by Osama10(m): 4:21am On Dec 27, 2010 |
iice: More like it. |
Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by freecocoa(f): 4:24am On Dec 27, 2010 |
beejaei:I bet you are naughtier than i can ever be,she had a bad experience fine,does being hateful and making derogatory remarks about men make it better?all am saying is her dad was bad doesn't mean every orther man is,she should understand that,and hey i won't be in her shoes. |
Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by Osama10(m): 4:26am On Dec 27, 2010 |
freecocoa: You are very correct, some people don't just get it. |
Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by beejaei: 5:36am On Dec 27, 2010 |
all i am saying only the OP experienced whatever she experienced and only knows what kind of reaction/name-calling her father deserves. Maybe all men are not like that, but the OP cannot be blamed for what she has learned from her experiences. |
Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by freecocoa(f): 7:47am On Dec 27, 2010 |
Nobody is blaming her,all am saying is she should limit whatever insults/abuses to her father who hurt her and stop insulting all men even the ones who try to advice here on Nl.maybe u need to read most of her comments/posts to understand what am saying,its not even about this thread alone. |
Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by question(m): 11:04am On Dec 27, 2010 |
@ OP learn to forgive or else you will be bitter all your life. There is need flogging a dead meat. |
Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by allycat: 10:54pm On Dec 27, 2010 |
OP sorry about what ever happened to you, but I hope you learn to let go of the hurt if not you are letting him have control over you even from the grave. To those insulting her let her be, she who wears the shoe knows where it pinches and Nl is maybe the only place she can lay are her soul being anonymous. I had and still have a great relationship with my father but many people did and do not. Do you ask the 14 year old girl whose father slept with her from age 10 and got her pregnant to respect or thank her father for bringing her to this world. Or the girl in Akwa Ibom whose father poured acid on her when he failed to get her to drink it to love that monster. Or is it those whose parents sold them knowingly into prostitution or slavery (here n Nija) cos they have too many children and cant feed them that should kneel down and thank them for giving them life. You may be lucky to have parents who loved you and catered for you but there are many out there that never saw love of care from their parents. |
Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by iphy42: 3:02pm On Dec 28, 2010 |
I feel ur mum has influenced ur judgement. are u sure she's not d architect of her misfortune. NO OFFENCE. |
Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by Ikedonn(m): 10:48am On Dec 29, 2010 |
Silly thread and a silly poster.Rubbish 1 Like |
Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by Youngpo413: 7:51am On Dec 19, 2014 |
Carolece:I now understand why you hate me...charity begins at home,I dont blame you anyway. |
Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by Youngpo413: 7:53am On Dec 19, 2014 |
Carolece:pathetic |
Re: Our Parents Make Mistakes Too. by Youngpo413: 8:55am On Dec 19, 2014 |
Carolece:I pray you find someone who will love you for real |
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