Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by padi94(m): 11:10am On Mar 28, 2020 |
frozen70:
Every friendship must not end in bed
My reason for keeping you as a, friend is different from your own purpose of the same person From your moniker, your a girl... it's not a girl's thing to have sex as a relationship goal, so you can't relate ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by ANTONINEUTRON(m): 11:26am On Mar 28, 2020 |
Vega100:
My brother, just casual friends, nothing serious oh!!! We attended same secondary school, were classmates.. Attended same university too, were classmates , so we were more like casual friends, then I even invited her to my house in school, she told me "Abeg I no dey come, I be woman, you be man, I no want come there na something come happen" , those were her words... so we just related on platonic grounds , nothing more!!
Ma the same eye I use dey look am now na!!! I no know say frustration done turn am want use me as feeding cow.
LOL!! Senior man dis ur story funny die. Na u she want give deprecated item with load on top. Na wa for women |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Vega100: 11:49am On Mar 28, 2020 |
frozen70:
Am done with you same here ma'am. Ishilove:
I am not going to mention names but I have helped by God's grace male friends on this forum on several occasions. One of them is a male Nairalander who may or may not comment on this thread.
I will also not describe how I helped them because what I do in secret, God will reward me openly.
You, in your conceit, have painted all of women folk with one brush and I will no longer respond to nauseating, caveman ignorance. abeg go sit down!!! Your presence on this thread is even nauseating!!! Mtcheew!! |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Vega100: 11:52am On Mar 28, 2020 |
franchasng: hmmmm.
Don't go spiritual sis, we are not talking about helping strangers in need or needy people here, neither are we talking about charitable deeds, we are talking about helping your non-romantic friends of the opposite sex in a meaningful way that impact their lives, not giving yeye advice like most females give to their supposed male friends but when they are in need, they expect their male friends to donate physical cash, cars, etc and no longer a verbal help they offer to same male friends.
And remember, the world survive by hasty generalisation of issues, so when a research is conducted for any reason, it's usually done by sampling not whole, and the result or conclusion is made based on the sample result.
So when we say women are this or that, we know there are few exceptions of good ladies who are different, but then, we are looking at the majority not minority who maybe different. Majority always determines the result of any election of course.
When they say men are dogs, it doesn't mean all men fvck around but we all know that majority of men do, so.
Nigerians are poor does not mean we don't have rich Nigerians, but unfortunately, majority of Nigerians are poor and that is where the world draw the conclusion from, sadly.
Yorubas voted Buhari in as president does not mean all Yorubas voted for Buhari, but majority did and concludes the assumption.
So I stand by my initial words: female friends are useless to their male friends, it's always a parasitic friendship that only gullible guys indulge in ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) Baba, u don finish work as e be, no dey waste time on all this internet champions that are begging for silly attention. Abeg leave them to run along, yeye people!!! Mtcheew!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Vega100: 11:54am On Mar 28, 2020 |
ANTONINEUTRON: LOL!! Senior man dis ur story funny die. Na u she want give deprecated item with load on top.
Na wa for women Na so I see am baba!! |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Ishilove: 11:55am On Mar 28, 2020 |
franchasng: hmmmm.
Don't go spiritual sis, we are not talking about helping strangers in need or needy people here, neither are we talking about charitable deeds, we are talking about helping your non-romantic friends of the opposite sex in a meaningful way that impact their lives, not giving yeye advice like most females give to their supposed male friends but when they are in need, they expect their male friends to donate physical cash, cars, etc and no longer a verbal help they offer to same male friends.
And remember, the world survive by hasty generalisation of issues, so when a research is conducted for any reason, it's usually done by sampling not whole, and the result or conclusion is made based on the sample result.
So when we say women are this or that, we know there are few exceptions of good ladies who are different, but then, we are looking at the majority not minority who maybe different. Majority always determines the result of any election of course.
When they say men are dogs, it doesn't mean all men fvck around but we all know that majority of men do, so.
Nigerians are poor does not mean we don't have rich Nigerians, but unfortunately, majority of Nigerians are poor and that is where the world draw the conclusion from, sadly.
Yorubas voted Buhari in as president does not mean all Yorubas voted for Buhari, but majority did and concludes the assumption.
So I stand by my initial words: female friends are useless to their male friends, it's always a parasitic friendship that only gullible guys indulge in ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) You are entitled to your opinions, no matter how misguided they are. FYI the male Nairalander I mentioned is a friend, not a stranger. |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Ishilove: 11:56am On Mar 28, 2020 |
Vega100: same here ma'am. abeg go sit down!!! Your presence on this thread is even nauseating!!! Mtcheew!! Run along little boy, you have been noticed. |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Niggmatic: 12:06pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
franchasng: The problem is not the ladies you call friends, the problem is with you gullible guys who keep ladies as friends. Keeping a female friend as a guy is as useless as training a mosquito as your pet animal because she will never be of any help to you, while you will be of so many helps to her when she is in need. You will end up as her pillar when in need, but she will never be of help when you are in need except to offer their usual useless wordly advice mixed with “eh yaah, eh yaah…”
If a girl is not your girlfriend, not your sister, not your cousin, not your niece, not your relative, not your business partner, not your colleague at work, not your sex partner, you have nothing else to do with her unless you are ready to offer her free help without expecting anything at all.
Early last year I came back, unfortunately depleted my budget on some unexpected expenses, and needed to finish up some outstanding payments before I go back, so I picked my phone and phoned a childhood friend who lives in the US, and within 2hrs, this guy wired $4500 equivalent to me in Naira. I have done same for countless friends, and they have done much more for me too.
Now, tell me which Nigerian female friend you didn’t have any sexual intimacy with will ever do that for you without telling you cock and bull story of how goat ate her savings box![](/faces/huh.png)
I pity guys who keep female friends, it’s a parasitic friendship, don’t waste your time keeping friends with any lady that refused your romantic or sexual advances, just delete her and move on, keeping her as a friend is nothing but foolishness as a guy! Learn
Most females you guys keep as friends see you only as a fool to run to when they need help, they will never help you out if you are the one in need. Lol @the bolded Thanks for this. That was how one lady that I asked out sometime ago told me the usual "give me time to think about it". A month after, she's still thinking about it. But she will keep asking for valentine gift, Christmas massgift, birthday gift, new yam festival gift, amadiohas day gift bla bla. Anyway, trust me naa. Na I will give you, I will give you, I dey tell am till she come get sense come advice herself. Nansense 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by crackkhaus: 12:24pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
seanwilliam: Make the topic more appealing for wider contribution @ vega100 ... lol, this one make me remember last year wey I jam one single mother, this is a girl we grew together in the same neigborhood and I never knew she's got a kid.. all of a sudden she started showing this love ooo, I mean calling 247, ready to pay my bills etc, the day i one nack am, naso she dey tell me her story oo..she kon dey tell me say gutter dirty, say she don get pikin , and she is very sure I'm gonna leave her because of that just like others guys had done.. she was seriously begging me to promise her marriage, egba mi ke ? Untop sagamu-Lagos express toto?? I mehn I just weak for mind and konji don hold me die dat day.. i had to fold her well well so the pussy go grip my seanwil.. wen I first put am, e do jugbun jugbun like say paint bucket enter konga, una know wetin pain me? She kon dey do" ohh yeah, huh, hmm, pls, small small, please, u go kill me today's I said no be here u go die.. shut up your mouth you dey wine me ni?? Although I said that in a friendly and funny manner.. ooohin, I kuku turn am to friend with benefit since she no one leave me.. I no get time to dey nurse another man's client... ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Nobody: 12:33pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
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I'm giving out 1 MILLION NAIRA today on Nairaland by 6pm. All you have to do is to participate. Check out my post today by 6pm oga abeg no take bad thing play o, if true am with you on this. |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Nobody: 12:35pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
luminouz:
We dont need it ooooo ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) oga we need it o, some of us are at home looking unto God for a miracle, gatz kids fa |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Nobody: 12:36pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
topsquino:
LOL.
You be chairman now.
People wey never chop need am.
By the way, help me share the giveaway news.
I thought I told you the last time I sent you an email about it.
have started following you already and my alarm is set and have already shared it. Pls watch out for my moniker pls |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by luminouz(m): 12:37pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
southniyikaye: oga we need it o, some of us are at home looking unto God for a miracle, gatz kids fa ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Vega100: 12:44pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
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Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by topsquino(m): 12:45pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
southniyikaye: have started following you already and my alarm is set and have already shared it. Pls watch out for my moniker pls All right The giveaway is real. My profile reflects my credibility |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Newbielearner(m): 12:50pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Ishilove:
You really don't understand the heart of a woman. Your 'friend' is in a bad and unhappy marriage and since you have been an anchor in her time of need, she has transferred her affections to you. People in unhappy relationships will always gravitate to those who provide them some sort of succour and hope. You are here ranting and cussing because a woman developed feelings for the man who was providing a shoulder to cry on.
Immature much. So he should bear her burdens? Simps do that. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Ishilove: 12:56pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Newbielearner:
So he should bear her burdens? Simps do that. That is not the point of my post. The point is that there are better ways to handle the situation, not come online to make fun of someone who is supposed to be a friend. |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Nobody: 1:23pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
topsquino:
All right
The giveaway is real.
My profile reflects my credibility
Bros.. We dey.. Alarm Don set.. Abeg no make the questions too hard abeg.. Remember u want to help us wit it.... God bless the pocket giving it.... |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Yksulaimon02(m): 1:34pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
topsquino: Do you want to be among the lucky 70 people that will win 1 million naira.
I'm giving out 1 MILLION NAIRA today on Nairaland by 6pm. All you have to do is to participate. Check out my post today by 6pm |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by topsquino(m): 1:42pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Yksulaimon02:
Bro,I never chop today I swear I really need it ooo I am following you now May God continue to bless you Amen o. The best way to be happy is by making others happy |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Nobody: 2:35pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Ishilove:
You really don't understand the heart of a woman. Your 'friend' is in a bad and unhappy marriage and since you have been an anchor in her time of need, she has transferred her affections to you. People in unhappy relationships will always gravitate to those who provide them some sort of succour and hope. You are here ranting and cussing because a woman developed feelings for the man who was providing a shoulder to cry on.
Immature much. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png)
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Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Nobody: 3:07pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Vega100: This is a follow-up to the story I earlier posted , the link attached below This is a follow up, to that my childhood friend, whom I cited an example earlier , to buttress my point that virginity doesn't guarantee a stable marriage
https://www.nairaland.com/5739306/virginity-doesnt-guarantee-stable-marriage
So following the problems she was having, I casually told an elderly relative of mine , so she (my aunty), thought it wise to contact her and offer some counsel as she has passed through a similar turmoil in her life. She asked me for her phone number, which I called her(my childhood friend), to get her consent! , I gave my aunty her phone number, my aunt called her and they had a discussion this was 2 days ago. Today I asked my aunt what they discussed, and she told me how she called and counselled her, and the girl was telling her she wants to leave the marriage, and marry another person, that I am not serious else she would follow me! , like WTF!!! Imagine a woman with 3 kids already, now fat and worn out, lost all shape and appeal, lost virginity when I no test, now wants me to come carry another man burden..
I now recalled how she was telling me some intimate things some weeks ago (like how her husband wasn't gentle with her, how she does kegel exercise now, and her VJ getting a little more tighter), telling me how she will pray her new man into success, so na me fit to carry burden of 3 children from another man, after she don give the thing another man when e sweet!!! Na me fit to eat soured soup with better burden.
People could just be stupid!!!, as I hear the thing I just go my phone block every contact of her, delete her from my phone!. Stupidity of the highest order, good riddance to bad rubbish!! Nonsense.
Vega100, 1 Like
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Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by X0012(m): 5:16pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
jugbun jugbun ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) seanwilliam: Make the topic more appealing for wider contribution @ vega100 ... lol, this one make me remember last year wey I jam one single mother, this is a girl we grew together in the same neigborhood and I never knew she's got a kid.. all of a sudden she started showing this love ooo, I mean calling 247, ready to pay my bills etc, the day i one nack am, naso she dey tell me her story oo..she kon dey tell me say gutter dirty, say she don get pikin , and she is very sure I'm gonna leave her because of that just like others guys had done.. she was seriously begging me to promise her marriage, egba mi ke ? Untop sagamu-Lagos express toto?? I mehn I just weak for mind and konji don hold me die dat day.. i had to fold her well well so the pussy go grip my seanwil.. wen I first put am, e do jugbun jugbun like say paint bucket enter konga, una know wetin pain me? She kon dey do" ohh yeah, huh, hmm, pls, small small, please, u go kill me today's I said no be here u go die.. shut up your mouth you dey wine me ni?? Although I said that in a friendly and funny manner.. ooohin, I kuku turn am to friend with benefit since she no one leave me.. I no get time to dey nurse another man's client... ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by MAXIMUS007: 6:05pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
2020612867 zenith bank.. Enitan O... Thank you for the bail out fund.. I appreciate if I am lucky |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by MAXIMUS007: 6:07pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
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Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by revolt(m): 6:30pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Vega100: it wasn't infatuation, it's just a case of trying to use me as a cash cow to cater for her children, that's being very insensitive, unreasonable, selfish and silly!... all this while she no catch feelings, na as she want commot from marriage she begin catch feelings!!! That's not how things are done!!! Very wrong and I feel very betrayed and saddened!!!... ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) that's a single mother duhhhh...shes single mother in the making... so the mentality is always same. |
Re: Why Are Women like this? See this,Judge for Yourself and share your experience by Newbielearner(m): 7:26pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Ishilove:
That is not the point of my post. The point is that there are better ways to handle the situation, not come online to make fun of someone who is supposed to be a friend. Noted |