The taste is in the pudding.
how can you tell the taste the pudding without tasting it first,is it possible?

advocates of sex b4 marriage do not love God simple. God says don't and thats it.
Howcome those who do the wrong things call others hypocrite. If you love God, obey him.

On the other hand people should know that sex is a tool used by the dark world to capture men. Most evil that cannot me phantomed by our 6 senses are maniupulated thru sex. Finally with so much knowledge about sex and all the testing testing relationships no longer last as before. Sex cant satisfy man. God is not joking if he condems illicit sex.
Its very clare but men love darkness rather than light.

Left to our desires alone, it certainly will fall to our choices. Whether we want to experiment with it or not. But when God comes into the picture it becomes a different thing. The question is who do want to obey? Ur  insatiable desires or God. Before u make ur choice just remember our desires or feelings were made for us and not vice versa. U can control them if u want to.

Wumine:

The holy books classifies sex before marriage as sin. But really who are we to judge? Who is that without sin? And marrying as a virgin doesnt guarantee you happiness in marriage.
My take on this: your choice and between you  and your God!

Nobody judges u without your conscience judging u first. The question is, is it really someone else judging you or your conscience? I can't just understand why the term JUDGE or JUDGING always finds a place whenever moral l issues in relation to God are discussed or mentioned.  

ebonyvibe:

There are many hypos on this thread living in la la land not the real world

Yeah well said. Who are the hypocrites?
Those who don't see it as judging, when they call others thieves (especially politicians), verbally or physically assault their friends, siblings, neighbours e.t.c, for wrong doing, , on and on I could go. Infact if u've had any reason to frown at anything you considered wrong, know that you judged that thing or being. As such if you don't see these acts as judging but see the views of others on this subject matter, or its like as judging others, YOU ARE A HYPOCRITE !

Some people here are mind baffling not one of you can come out and say I didn't have intimacy b4 marriage but condem it vigorously God says we should not do so many things but we do and some chose one is a bigger sin than the other to God sin is sin keep the sabath day holy do not lie how dare some one tell me I don't love God far from it I do.

I suggest you read your bible's ten commandment well it say thou shall commit adultery not fornication  I know some other passages refer to fornication. But obviously it would have said fornication if it was meant to be so

@ ndecde did u marry a virgin??

Sex before marriage covers a broad ground, there has been series of debate, on why one has to wait, for any sexual intercourse until your wedding night.

Sex Before Marriage is just a common sense issue

Yes it is clearly writen in the Bible which say “do not commit fornication”, this implies no sex before wedding. It a guide to a better life and better choices we end up making.

Tell me as a 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, years old etc, what do they need
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http://www.womenconfidentials.com/2010/sex-before-marriage-what-is-your-take/

@ ebonyvibe!!!

U got it all wrong my dear, I was telling the other person to read your post and might learn something from it,

Morally, sex before marriage is wrong but in these times we are living how many people can actually stand up and say they are virgins once above the age of 20?

@OP, I can't marry someone I have not had sex with, there's need to know if you both are 'compatible' in that aspect too. And this could possibly help especially if there is need for adjustment or one party learning from the other so that both parties would be operating on the same cadre so as to avoid cheating from the party who is not satisfied with the performance of the other.

Kai! SATAN and his agents have succeeded in blind-folding many people's face! SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS WRONG. Marriage is not about sex alone, remember? Those of you talking about testing and stuffs like that, whatever happened to faith in God? Do you know that marriage is pre-destined and God'll never pair incompatible people together. If you know that love is the basis of your relationship then I see no reason to sampling technique. Wish I could explain better but hope you got me.

It is a Choice we are all free to make. However, there are consequences for the choices that we make.

God said: no sex before marriage, out of love for us because he wants the best for his children.
Man said: I need to "try before I buy", out of the need for immediate gratification and selfishness.

Which side will you follow?
Its is as simple as that.

, Anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. (James 4:4)

(and for those that will be quick to call me a hypocrite, I am a virgin in my early twenties living in America- I have dated quite a few guys and had numerous opportunities to slip up - luckily by God's grace I have maintained my stand.) Trust me it hasn't been easy especially in my environment where people even judge me for not being active.

LET US CALL A SPADE A SPADE!SEX B4 MARRIAGE IS WRONG because D WORD OF GOD SAID FORNICATORS WIL HAVE THEIR PART IN D LAKE OF FIRE. WHO ARE WE TO FOLLOW?GOD OR OUR FEELINGS? DID GOD NOT KNOW THAT WE AR HUMAN B4 HE GAVE D COMMANDMENT? OR DID CHRIST NOT KNOW OUR FEELINGS B4 HE SAID WE SHD NOT LUST AFTER WOMAN/MAN? WE AR ADMONISHED DAT INSTEAD OF BURNING WE SHD MARRY. FOR WE DAT HAVE NOT MARRIED WE SHD FLEE 4M THINGS DAT WE WIL TEMPT US TO HAVE SEX B4 MARRIAGE.REMEMBER, WAT U SOW U REAP.IF U SOW TO D FLESH(watching dirty movies,nght clubbing etc) U WIL REAP CORRUPTION(sex b4 marriage, ) HAPI NEW YEAR!

@Girl846,God bless u my sis.keep it up.u wil b rewarded 4 it

Having sex before marriage makes you cheap!!

some folks will say " you have to test what you are buying"

let me answer a question when you go to buy an apple, does the apple seller allows you to taste the apple before you buy? No!

Okay, you will probably come up with a defensive statement that "I have to test drive the car that I am buying before I buy it" and I will say second hand cars are the one that are up for testdrives and not New cars.
Allowing yourseif to be tested shows how cheap you are


Sexually compatiblity does not secure a marriage, look at those hollywood stars and other celebrities

The truth is SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS WRONG!!

jmoore:

Having sex before marriage makes you cheap!!

some folks will say " you have to test what you are buying"

let me answer a question when you go to buy an apple, does the apple seller allows you to taste the apple before you buy? No!

Okay, you will probably come up with a defensive statement that "I have to test drive the car that I am buying before I buy it" and I will say second hand cars are the one that are up for testdrives and not New cars.
Allowing yourseif to be tested shows how cheap you are


Sexually compatiblity does not secure a marriage, look at those hollywood stars and other celebrities

The truth  is SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS WRONG!!

Well said,if you want it put a ring on it

Exactly put the ring on it means you owe the body, that is what is marriage; you owe each others body.

If you are sleeping with one you are not married to then both of you are stealing from each other.

I used to think that when you obey God's law, God will come down and salute me. Or send someone to encourage me. Hmmnnnn, recently i realised that it's a lie from the pit of hell. Lemme tell you something about God's law of NO SEX BEFORE MARRAGE. It is simply to save you from unnecessary heart aches, h. i v., s.t.d, unwanted pregnancy, abortions, ridicule and disgrace. If you dont have all of these mentioned, who will have peace of mind God or yourself If you sleep with a guy who messes you up in your neigbourhood or office, who ends up getting the disgrace? I know pple who have dated in the office, slept with themselves. One of them had to leave the job not because the pay wasnt good but because of the embarassment. Tell me, couldnt they have saved themselves the shame
I am not a saint. Infact, i am writing this from Experience and i thank God for the opportunity to tell pple to learn from my own stupidity.
Dont sleep with the opposite sex. It doesnt help you. It ties u down to the other person. You may pretend to the world but you cant pretend to yourself.
Yeah , I know some ladies who want a guy. They know the guy's in a relationship but they still want him , Just to have sex with him or kiss ,
Whatever ,

It doesnt help. Once you get it, you want more. Pls leave a guy who's in a relationship alone. If he wants you and believes you mean more to him than the lady in his life, he'll end the relationship and be with you. .
I have said my own!

It is clear that Sex after marriage is the proper thing to do. Trust that man will always find a reason to justify his wrong doings. Test drive whatever? I am more concerned about the spiritual aspect of sex. A lot of people tend to ignore this, thinking it is just sex, it is not just sex, it has a root, it is a BOND (soul ties). Many people lose their destiny just because of sex. Abstinence is a thing of the mind achievable by grace. One big mistake many people make is making sex the basis of their relationship. BIG MISTAKE!!!! It clouds your sense of reasoning in a relationship and it doesn't guarantee you a 'happy ever after'.

Sex before marriage covers a broad ground, there has been series of debate, on why one has to wait, for any sexual intercourse until your wedding night.

Sex Before Marriage is just a common sense issue

Yes it is clearly writen in the Bible which say “do not commit fornication”, this implies no sex before wedding. It a guide to a better life and better choices we end up making.

Tell me as a 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, years old etc, what do they need what do they need or why do they need to have intimacy at such young ages, if the rule of age laws was to be applied, than all this hurt, depression, heartbreak , suicidal thought, will not be an every day occurrences
Click below for full story

http://www.womenconfidentials.com/2010/sex-before-marriage-what-is-your-take/

I ain't gonna preach the bible and condemn alla y'all to hell fire, HELL NO!!
I'm just gonna give you the benefit of my looooong experience.

A wife is a much much bigger deal than how hot she can make you cum after 30mins of bleeping. MUCH MUCH BIGGER. So if sexual compatibility is your only measure. You gonna be shortchanged dude. Same goes for the chics here.

Some things can be learned. How to shine congo, hala kpakus, or whatever u wish to call it CAN be learned. By anybody without ever touching a woman or a man. The first time I ever handled a woman (luscious, big breasted, broadhipped sultry thing she was), she accused me of lying to her that it was my first time. My secret? I did my ground work first. I made sure that I knew where all the hot spots were and how to hit them just right (it was like doing course work) and it paid off. The agra or konji or whatever you call it almost undid me but I managed to hold it together just long enough. Same goes for the ladies.

Those of you who claim that you gotta taste before you sit down to the meal are just lusty, selfserving people who wanna catch as much fun as they can before settling. Unfortunately, you may miss what's really important about a relationship. I'm not condemning u. Just giving u a heads up.

For those of you with you numskulls buried deep in the bible while ignoring reality. All I feel for you is pity. God made sex and He made it to be gloriously, luxuriously, erotically, deliciously enjoyed to the fullest extent possible by the partaking man and woman. At least, do your future spouse a favor. Learn all you can hold about it so that you'll perform adequately. You don't need to touch a man or woman to know how give them an unmatched bleep. It all begins and ends in your head.

Finally, a mature open mind cannot go wrong in this world, regardless of the principles and strictures u subscribe to.

I'm out.

well

OP.
Marriage before sex all the way

There are benefits to either senario, but if you are waiting until marriage you can change your mind at any time.
Once you have sex you can't become a virgin again, even if you decide not to have sex anymore the desire will be greater once you have started.
Waiting is the best thing.

LMAO@Desso sustaining from sex before marriage.

Mrs, Chima:

LMAO@Desso sustaining from sex before marriage.

Stop hating/jealousy , . . .we both know you could not wait for sex till you were married . . . . .So just pray for me that i keep this virginity . , . . . .stop hating, duck!!

I was a virgin before my marriage.

^^^WHAT? . . . .Did your bro told you that or you framed it up to make yourself happy?

My doctor told me. Limp Dick.

It is okay as long as you don’t get the f-u-c-k and destroyed the v.a.g.i.n.a of your beloved woman. I have intimacy recurrently, Zap  b.i.t.c.h.e.s around like there’s no tomorrow. I gotta keep my d.i.c.k satisfied you know. But when it comes to the one true woman that I love, I don’t think I will ever satisfy my urges outside marriage on her. I can only see myself making the most striking love to her when I marry her. She is saving her beautiful diamond for me. That kind of angel ought not to be played with. She is a dime and me s-e-x.i.n.g her out of the blues is out of bound. I only see myself making love to her.