Hello Guys, Happy Quarantine o .

I won't bore you with long talk but this is my love story. I dated this girl when I was serving in Cross River, very beautiful, smart and I loved her so dearly even though las las I messed up and she also messed up too. We've broken up since 2017 but for some reasons I've not gotten over her(maybe cos I don't have a gf I'll love as much as I loved her) and she got my replacement immediately after we ended. Now she chats me up like we never had anything between us, like we were just one ordinary friend from way back. Recently like that when we were chatting, I confessed to her that I've still not gotten over her, then she asked me if I cheated on her while we dated then I confessed to it and I apologised for being stupid, but she tortured me emotionally during our breakup that I thought of hurting myself and doubting my self worth, in the course of our chat I then asked her if she's dating someone cos I really would want her back but she said she is in a relationship.

My problem is that why is she chatting me up like we never had anything together?? When I post a story on whatsapp, she comment on it like a normal friend would, no iota of emotion in any of her response or anything cos I still feel some hurt in me. Is she disrespecting me d my feelings despite I've told her I've not still gotten over her and how I thought of hurting myself during our breakup?? How do I put an end to this rubbish cos it's becoming annoying when I see her 'I no send' kinda response?? Cos I think confessing my feelings to her again will make me look like a fck Boy.

Bashing o(na wetin una de like do na ) correct talk o, it's allowed.

Cc rockstation farano

U messed up, she messed up too and you went ahead to confess to her that you haven't gotten over her after so many years of breakup thereby making her know what you feel and how you think too, without even saying it op you are a bloody f-up boy.....better block her azzzz and move on with your life or continue being a pvssy.

Cheating on a woman is not good,but telling her "u did it" is worst than the act..it will forever live inside her heart than all d millions u've ever spent on her and she will never 4give u...dont ever tell a woman ur secret...even d only secret GOD told eve and adam..eve vomit am give a snake..see wia e land us and it killed samson.

Snipper007:
U messed up, she messed up too and you went ahead to confess to her that you haven't gotten over her after so many years of breakup thereby making her know what you feel and how you think too, without even saying it op you are a bloody f-up boy.....better block her azzzz and move on with your life or continue being a pvssy.

thanks man.

Rubbish and ingredients.

chatinent:
Rubbish and ingredients.

naaaah! it is not rubbish and ingredients. it is
nonsense and ingredients

Some men are.... Let me keep quiet...

Okay

Bola146:
Some men are.... Let me keep quiet...

look say it....

ubunja:
look say it....

I would not say it, you know the answers

Ubunja see one of your students oo.... And y'all would be forming hard guy, ja guy on nairaland... See your life...

Delete her number for good so she wouldn't be seeing your posts. Blacklist/block her number via your true caller app.

You deserve better, but you're too empathetic and emotional . Believe me you, she's never thinking of you. She could be probably riding some d*ck in isolation and you're there moping and sulking .

She has likely friendzoned you/not interested in you romantically.

Richnerd69:
Delete her number for good so she wouldn't be seeing your posts. Blacklist/block her number via your true caller app.

You deserve better, but you're too empathetic and emotional . Believe me you, she's never thinking of you. She could be probably riding some d*ck on isolation and you're here moping and sulking .

bless you man.

Ellipsoid:
She has likely friendzoned you/not interested in you romantically.

hmmmm... Okay. Thanks for clearing me.

Lamanii22:
Ubunja see one of your students oo.... And y'all would be forming hard guy, ja guy on nairaland... See your life...

these wailing threads are from people who don't read what we write. If he read our content he would know what to do.

ubunja:
these wailing threads are from people who don't read what we write. If he read our content he would know what to do.

what do you think i should do or can you refer me to any thread of yours that can put me on the right direction?

Jaculze:
what do you think i should do or can you refer me to any thread of yours that can put me on the right direction?

Good you are trying to learn.. after reading ubunja miseducation make sure you work with them after your life will never remain the same again some other guys here were once in you position.

She has moved on and I will advise you to do the same. No need crying over a spilt milk. A broken bottle has no mekwatarism

What do you want?

You want someone who has clearly gotten over you to pretend?

Why?

To boost and smoothen your ego?

Move on man!

You confessed your feelings to her again bro? Hahahahahahahahhaha!


She has you by the balls already

You were just used to past time bro

I have an award for you: SISSY of the year 2020. But u mumu small o. What kind of weaklings are there in this generation? Move on if u still have anything left of ur dignity.

she's just using you to get free validation.

Delete her number. What is all this

Jaculze:
what do you think i should do or can you refer me to any thread of yours that can put me on the right direction?

I don't just know why guys only wana believe a gurl loves dem .... even when the signs are clear there is no love.
From ur story the chances that gurl loved you then sef is relatively low, apparently the babe as moved on & definitely not coming back ... she only wants 2 know if you are still entrapped in love so she can torment and toy with you, commenting on ur status keeps her memory on in you thereby you get stuck, ur attention 2 her is what makes yu liable ,she gains more strength
You fvckup tho buh don't feel bad in my xperience in life i av realized two people can never move on ... one must get stuck n its mostly 1st to admit .
Solution don't delete or block her, just snub her as much as you drink water, no insults,arrogances or rudeness ... snub her politely (maturity).

nickvanilla:
What do you want?

You want someone who has clearly gotten over you to pretend?

Why?

To boost and smoothen your ego?

Move on man!

Thanks for this Man. This reawakening is what I need. I got game but this gyal is like my Delaila. Anyway, thanks G.