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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Savvywriteprene(f): 7:33pm On Apr 04, 2020
You did no wrong helping her out financially. I'm sure you would want to be helped when you need help. You guys are friends, I believe that's why she was confident enough to ask you for assistance.

Her husband's birthday was very important to her, I'm sure that's why she used some or all of the money you gave her to celebrate it.

Sincerely, it's really not your business what she did with the money.

You have given, you will definitely be blessed for doing so. Now, face your front and mind your business.

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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Nobody: 7:38pm On Apr 04, 2020
A disgrace of a woman. Instead of her to help use it for hos business. This ia how people stay poor trying to impress

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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Kastrom: 7:39pm On Apr 04, 2020
nifemi25:
I believe the lady in question must have knew your own MUMU started with capital letter and that is why she didn't inform you on what she wanted to do with the money....
Imagine you sold your only 2 plots of land because of your ex... I swear you don't need to compete with anyone before you become the chairman of NIGERIA ASSOCIATION of MUMU

Zonal or National Chairman?
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by bennyrazz: 7:48pm On Apr 04, 2020
He he he he grin Exes are seriously cashing out these days. The annoying part of the story is "Why did she tell you she used the money to celebrate her husband?" grin think bro, she just want to use it to spite you and you get mad and angry. Can you tell your wife what you just did?
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Nobody: 7:52pm On Apr 04, 2020
Y'all accusing the man and stressing yourselves over nothing.

Men are like that. They hardly care about their wives but will go out to impress other women that dont even send them just to prove to her that they are doing well.

Nonsense.

I hope your wife is someone like me who isn't dependent at all on anybody's income. If u like share your money to all the olosho on the streets. I ll have something to fall back on and take care of my parents with

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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by ayomilore: 8:11pm On Apr 04, 2020
If you can give a male friend the same amount you are kind but if not you be woman wrapper.
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Pavore9: 8:24pm On Apr 04, 2020
Just laughing... cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Bestinstinct(m): 8:28pm On Apr 04, 2020
I feel your pain but try to overlook. You did no wrong helping out. For her small mind now, she's wise. I'm sure the husband will feel more stupid when he finds out the source of his birthday fund. Let it slide baba.

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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by jasman1: 8:41pm On Apr 04, 2020
No, you're not stupid, you're like most people who just can't say no to people in need. You're overly weak though, you should have asked what she wants to do with the money. Don't regrate a thing, just learn from it and I sincerely wish you well

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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Biglittlelois(f): 8:55pm On Apr 04, 2020
Really funny, this is what I call manipulation at its finest, she pressed and broke your mumu button, but you were too glassy eyed to detect it, pele cheesy

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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by starpower(m): 9:07pm On Apr 04, 2020
kennybabs1980:
You just said the obvious. I look even stupid to myself. Something I don't even do for myself or my wife. I have never spent 10k on my kids birthday before, I look so stupid to myself.
you should be thankful she wasn't your wife. Asking ex for favour is dangerous actions.
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Orlaoluwayimika(m): 9:37pm On Apr 04, 2020
NextD18:
If you are to be asked why you are pisssed, will you be able to say something tangible?

The only reason you are full of regret is because you are actually not a real helper and a generous type.You obviously seems to be the type that helps ladies for sex as rewards or who helps guys to expect something monetary and loyal-related rewards or to subjugate.

Or possibly those type who'll help you financially and still want to monitor you to direct you on what and how to use the money they gave you.

We have totally lost all sense of generosity and humanity in this generation.

If men don't help women for sex, they'll help their fellow men for loyalty and to enslave them.
If women don't help men to manipulate and rub it on their face with insults later, they'll help women to gossip and mock them.

Too bad mehn!

In all your life endeavors and activities, in all your doings and meetings to people, no matter what--NEVER BE POOR!!

Even if you are poor, don't form the habit of begging and asking for help, because asking for help and begging as a habit is worse and deadlier than the habit of drug and masturbation.

I don't agree with ur assertion.
I think OP did it out of freewill but angry cos he felt the money would ve been used fro things more pressing than a party.

I understand why he is angry and if I were to be in his position, I would ve been I can't give u money and u spend it on things I can't spend on myself.

I am sure next time she calls 4 hlp, he would most likely not do it 4 her and it may be more pressing at that time.

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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by eyinjuege: 9:48pm On Apr 04, 2020
kennybabs1980:
You just said the obvious. I look even stupid to myself. Something I don't even do for myself or my wife. I have never spent 10k on my kids birthday before, I look so stupid to myself.

What exactly do you want us to do for you on NL?
Call you stupid and insult you some more?
Next time, stop talking to your ex, and cut off all unecessary communiction from all ex-es.
You shouldn't have dashed her money you couldn't afford to give
People enjoy awoof and free money.
She also just got a windfall.
Meanwhile, your own wife might have been asking you for money to do something tangible and you told her no money as you want to use the money on you for something important..
You said you cannot spend 10k on your own child's birthday, yet you're dashing out money to an ex.
Ntorrr, I hope your ex and her husband enjoyed themselves. She didnt lie to you, as she told you she needed money for something personal- the surprise party for her husband. That's personal enough.
Why are you so pained now?.
Na so some guys will be starving their family at home and giving side chicks and ex -es money for pikin school fees.
Last last, you will still confess why you gave out money you normally wouldn't even spend on your child

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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by eyinjuege: 9:58pm On Apr 04, 2020
tracyfemmmm:
Lol. What is your business with what she used the money for? She asked and you gave without conditions or are you planning to ask for Sex as a reward?

Na so e dey start.

He's tilling the ground now, so he can plant his seeds later.

If she had bought Brazilian wig with the money, OP would have preferred it than spending the money on another guy- her husband.

Na de thing wey dey pain am be that .

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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by jesmond3945: 10:04pm On Apr 04, 2020
kennybabs1980:
You just said the obvious. I look even stupid to myself. Something I don't even do for myself or my wife. I have never spent 10k on my kids birthday before, I look so stupid to myself.
the husband connived with her to collect the money. This is exactly what my friend did last year. He is fighthing with the family now.
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Queenserah26(f): 11:33pm On Apr 04, 2020
grin grin grin
Iyiataata92:

He is an embarassment to people who are stupid, they will reject him. He is something worse

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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by jeph19(m): 5:07am On Apr 05, 2020
You know one thing about helping people financially, they'll come back again with another method.
Bros man up
You've got family and long term goals
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by cococandy(f): 6:12am On Apr 05, 2020
If you discussed the money with you wife before giving it to your ex, you won’t be here today.
That’s the problem when your money is your money instead of the family money.

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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by nifemi25(m): 4:00pm On Apr 05, 2020
Kastrom:


Zonal or National Chairman?

President of MUMU ASSOCIATION
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Nobody: 4:08pm On Apr 05, 2020
cococandy:
If you discussed the money with you wife before giving it to your ex, you won’t be here today.
That’s the problem when your money is your money instead of the family money.
What nonsense did you just typed here? A man should take excuses/ discuss with his wife before given somebody’s money? You must be sick at same a time a gold digger.

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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by neoG(f): 6:13pm On Apr 05, 2020
You should more grateful to God OP that this was who you would have ended up with but God saved.
Such women can also leave this dia husband they are spending money for if one man flashes small dollars on dia face.
Such women are not contented with what they have and where they are.
Such women have potential of having extra marital affairs to have upto keep up with the lifestyle they have built.
Finally, such women have no regards for their hubby and they might not last in marriage.
So don't bother ya sef. Just move on.

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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by CallMeGrace(f): 9:37pm On Apr 05, 2020
Well, the deed has been done already, God bless you,and may God reward you bountifully..so far you made her happy and the event went well cuz of you.
One thing I would like say is, she might likely come back for more, trust me on this..just be open to her, you are family man, likewise she is a family woman too..
Go on and take care of your family, she is not your wife but ex lover..focus more on your family
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Oyindidi(f): 12:47pm On Apr 06, 2020
crackkhaus:
What's the problem exactly? cheesy
Him fall mugu

Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by crackkhaus: 3:03pm On Apr 06, 2020
Oyindidi:
Him fall mugu
cheesy
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Adgideon(m): 3:05pm On Apr 06, 2020
Iyiataata92:
Lai Mohammed said government will be extending the 14 days sit at home if Nigerians don't behave themselves, yet you sold your two lands and gave woman half of the money even before the lockdown was declared.

Bro I swear, your matter tire me
no b only u tire 4 d matter
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Adgideon(m): 3:09pm On Apr 06, 2020
U get money to spend, what of if ur wife here dis matter how she go feel. but don't go back to ask 4 dat thing as a revenge or pay back, cos I see say u dey vex, next time don't give, u here watin I tell you so, no b say u go come here 2moro come tell us another thing as I dey see u so just go house go sleep,
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by PuZZyNegro: 3:11pm On Apr 06, 2020
kennybabs1980:
I dated her while in the university, she was a very nice girl. She got another man while I was still hustling around looking for jobs, so we couldn't get married. We actually discussed then and I released her to go and marry because she is my age mate, we were born same year and I wouldn't want to ask her to continue waiting while I continue to hustle. I married 4 years after her. We have been friends on Facebook since 2010 and there's nothing unusual between us. She live in Ibadan with her family while I live in Akure. In January 2020 she asked me to assist her financially to meet certain personal obligation which her hubby couldn't meet because his business isn't doing well of late, she said she'll need the money by end of February and that it's I who she had in mind that could be of help. I promised to do something before the time. She didn't tell me the details of what she wanted to do with the money. Mid February, I was able to sell off 2 plots of land I bought some years ago, In have been trying to sell of the plots without success for sometime. I transferred something tangible to her account which she appreciated so much. Last week in February, I saw a lot of pictures of people in beautiful dresses on Facebook and Instagram. It was a big birthday party for her hubby. I just wrote congratulations. One thing with me is that I hate spending money on parties, I'll rather give it to people around me or invest in buying land.
She later chatted with me on messenger and informed me that I made the birthday party happen, that she used the money I gave her to organize a surprise party for her hubby. I was so amazed.
Why did she have to tell me she used the money I gave her for the party?
Why did she had to seriously beg me for such money?
Where will she tell her hubby she for the money from?
Why didn't she tell me what she wanted to use the money for?

Did you study economics in school?
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Mariangeles(f): 3:25pm On Apr 06, 2020
kennybabs1980:
I dated her while in the university, she was a very nice girl. She got another man while I was still hustling around looking for jobs, so we couldn't get married. We actually discussed then and I released her to go and marry because she is my age mate, we were born same year and I wouldn't want to ask her to continue waiting while I continue to hustle. I married 4 years after her. We have been friends on Facebook since 2010 and there's nothing unusual between us. She live in Ibadan with her family while I live in Akure. In January 2020 she asked me to assist her financially to meet certain personal obligation which her hubby couldn't meet because his business isn't doing well of late, she said she'll need the money by end of February and that it's I who she had in mind that could be of help. I promised to do something before the time. She didn't tell me the details of what she wanted to do with the money. Mid February, I was able to sell off 2 plots of land I bought some years ago, In have been trying to sell of the plots without success for sometime. I transferred something tangible to her account which she appreciated so much. Last week in February, I saw a lot of pictures of people in beautiful dresses on Facebook and Instagram. It was a big birthday party for her hubby. I just wrote congratulations. One thing with me is that I hate spending money on parties, I'll rather give it to people around me or invest in buying land.
She later chatted with me on messenger and informed me that I made the birthday party happen, that she used the money I gave her to organize a surprise party for her hubby. I was so amazed.
Why did she have to tell me she used the money I gave her for the party?
Why did she had to seriously beg me for such money?
Where will she tell her hubby she for the money from?
Why didn't she tell me what she wanted to use the money for?

She had the audacity to ask because she still feels entitled to you and what you have, just as you feel entitled to her in some kind of way.
You both know the reason(s) why you feel so.
You still feel deeply connected to each other even if you don't admit it. That is reason you were hurt when she told you she used the money to celebrate her husband's birthday party.
You would not have cared this much if she had spent the money on something frivolous.

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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Mariangeles(f): 3:47pm On Apr 06, 2020
When they want to beat themselves up for doing something stupid, they come to nairaland.
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by MrCork17: 11:35am On Apr 30, 2020
CallMeGrace:
Well, the deed has been done already, God bless you,and may God reward you bountifully..so far you made her happy and the event went well cuz of you.
One thing I would like say is, she might likely come back for more, trust me on this..just be open to her, you are family man, likewise she is a family woman too..
Go on and take care of your family, she is not your wife but ex lover..focus more on your family


Please how much for kiss, hug, sexx,romance, extra kiss, extra hug & mating wot u? Please sir can u take 1000 naira cash? I pay u please
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by CallMeGrace(f): 11:38am On Apr 30, 2020
MrCork17:



Please how much for kiss, hug, sexx,romance, extra kiss, extra hug & mating wot u? Please sir can u take 1000 naira cash? I pay u please
Please please, go and meet your mother at home.. don't disturb my peace.
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by MrCork17: 11:57am On Apr 30, 2020
CallMeGrace:

Please please, go and meet your mother at home.. don't disturb my peace.


Calm down baby, am a sweet guy, I swaaar. Am trying to help u help me so u can help ya sex. I need pu5555y & am readt9to pays u 1000 naira in cash so u can buy shoping. Please I beg u, how much will u charge me for only kiss,hug,romance & mating with u please? I pays u 1000k. Be nice.
Deal? smiley

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