Spare my grammatical blunders,dont even how to start ,but I ques I will have to start somewhere . destructive and constructive criticisms allowed Dating back to 2015 ,my life took a great twist ,fell into depression but never realise I was swimming in depression pool ,not until now .The lockdown is kinda bringing me back ,been alone in my thoughts I came to realisation that my life is not upright ,this is not how I want my life to be .The reason I came on here about my girlfriend,I am this kinda of guy ,that hardly trust ,most especially women ,I have alot of them acting that they are my girlfriend but within me am not into them,I couldnt pick out a girl out of the lots to be my girlfriend ,just maybe depression mode I was resulted to it partially or completely.2016 I kinda find solace in a girl ,gave here 70% of my trust ,one thing I have never done ,she is hardworking ,schooling presently ,and we have been dating like 3yrsplus now .But one thing i came to realise that she is hiding so many things from me ,yes I give her money ,and also we had countless number is sex .But my problem here is I do not feel her as a girlfriend ,and also she doesn't see me has boyfriend, it's dawning on me that we are in a "friends with benefits shit" that I do no like.She barely get to call me sweet names which beffit a boyfriend, sometimes I get so down when I drown in the depression mode ,I do not feel that companionship from her .she calls me "dear" when I give her money ,if I do not give her money no "dear .I feel she hiding so many things from me ,which I am trying to understand but cant.When we go out ,I try to hold her hands she doesn't allow me to , normally I am suppose to be the one avoiding holding her hands ,because of the manner and where I meant her .(she was a receptionist in a hotel I use to lodge and girls come to see me ) Na she act like a boss to me ,this get me wondering.Please I do not know if you be able to comprehend all what I said ,but your contribution and your questions will be welcomed.Ubunja and co please help out !!!.thanks

Brb

You both are not yet ready... Continue your life

dawnomike:
You both are not yet ready... Continue your life

To continue is hard for me bro ,don't even know where to start

You meet her at a hotel where she work as a receptionist where gals come to see you

And you want her to be seriously serious about you

You guys have seen yourself as friends with benefits

Commot for here joor

Who off light ? Bro most hoteliers get a lot of clients updating their pxxsxy , so don’t dull , you’re not the only one , just forget the game hun , and learn how to play the card next time ,,, you played the cards wrongly

Mairice125:
Spare my grammatical blunders,dont even how to start ,but I ques I will have to start somewhere . destructive and constructive criticisms allowed Dating back to 2015 ,my life took a great twist ,fell into depression but never realise I was swimming in depression pool ,not until now .The lockdown is kinda bringing me back ,been alone in my thoughts I came to realisation that my life is not upright ,this is not how I want my life to be .The reason I came on here about my girlfriend,I am this kinda of guy ,that hardly trust ,most especially women ,I have alot of them acting that they are my girlfriend but within me am not into them,I couldnt pick out a girl out of the lots to be my girlfriend ,just maybe depression mode I was resulted to it partially or completely.2016 I kinda find solace in a girl ,gave here 70% of my trust ,one thing I have never done ,she is hardworking ,schooling presently ,and we have been dating like 3yrsplus now .But one thing i came to realise that she is hiding so many things from me ,yes I give her money ,and also we had countless number is sex .But my problem here is I do not feel her as a girlfriend ,and also she doesn't see me has boyfriend, it's dawning on me that we are in a "friends with benefits shit" that I do no like.She barely get to call me sweet names which beffit a boyfriend, sometimes I get so down when I drown in the depression mode ,I do not feel that companionship from her .she calls me "dear" when I give her money ,if I do not give her money no "dear .I feel she hiding so many things from me ,which I am trying to understand but cant.When we go out ,I try to hold her hands she doesn't allow me to , normally I am suppose to be the one avoiding holding her hands ,because of the manner and where I meant her .(she was a receptionist in a hotel I use to lodge and girls come to see me ) Na she act like a boss to me ,this get me wondering.Please I do not know if you be able to comprehend all what I said ,but your contribution and your questions will be welcomed.Ubunja and co please help out !!!.thanks

Freelane33:
Who off light ? Bro most hoteliers get a lot of clients updating their pxxsxy , so don’t dull , you’re not the only one , just forget the game hun , and learn how to play the card next time ,,, you played the cards wrongly

Noted !!!

wtf is wrong with guys this days??

you guys are friends with benefit as you said, then enjoy the pussy and leave her the Bleep alone.

falling in love with a hotelier is setting yourself up for a heartbreak and from your write-up your just a meter away from it

StrongandMighty:
wtf is wrong with guys this days??

you guys are friends with benefit as you said, then enjoy the pussy and leave her the Bleep alone.

falling in love with a hotelier is setting yourself up for a heartbreak and from your write-up your just a meter away from it

haven't been in naija for about a year plus now ,and she acts like she ain't into anyone ,she has a tactical way of keeping things in check