Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by tsmith(f): 10:29pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Kingzizu: Good day,
I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.
So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.
Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.
I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice. Register for classes or fun sessions that will bring you in regular and close contact with the opposite sex. Salsa or a dance class comes to.mind.... you'd be learning something new and getting interactive sessions with women which can help you build up your confidence, ad get you comfortable with women. Depending on where you live there are salsa classes almost every night in places like the island, surulere and ikeja 2 Likes |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Alvin212(m): 10:29pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Swiitdoll: You need a girl. Excessive fapping gonna ruin ur dick. 2017 I met a sweet guy who was shit in bed Cos he lost touch of reality due to jacking off from 10-25 no girls ever. Cldnt even get it up and needed therapy, don’t end up like him. Move to a girl, if u are shy talk to them online. ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) Like your write up Choice of words You've been to the USA before? How did you get to this level? I care to know. 2 Likes |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Nodogragra4me(m): 10:29pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Iyiataata92: You've been masturbating at an average of 2 times a day for 8 years. Average in the sense that anyday you miss your session, you go on 4 times the next day to cover the missed count. If that's true bro, then you need to apologise to your Jon Thomas for 8 rough years misappropriation and maladministration. That dick won't be proud of you as the owner Some of una Sha... Lol. |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by KosiGee(m): 10:30pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Kingzizu:
I masturbated to mostly pornographic videos involving a man and a woman.
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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Emmanuel602(m): 10:30pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Kingzizu: Good day,
I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.
So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.
Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.
I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice. Don't worry bro just carry on with your NOFAP journey, your brain will be reset to factory setting by day 90. I used to be in your shoes. I swear to God MASTURBATION NA BASTERD 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Roozzaay(m): 10:31pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
The best thing to do right now is to start with online dating stuff, from there i believe you will gain some experience and courage that would benefits in real life situation. 2 Likes |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by madjune(m): 10:31pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
You will come into your real, affirmed intellectual self when you stop to see women or ladies from the angle of sex objects. In part, they'd always be sexual partners in the end; but you stand to have a more balanced relationship when you engage them from a humane, bilateral intercourse devoid of carnal intentions at first.
When you do, you would realize you will come off more wiser than you were and they would even seek your companionship more.
The average woman needs your time, attention and empathy more than sex or money. 4 Likes |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by watchindelta(m): 10:32pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Get a girl friend 1 Like |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Dcartel(m): 10:34pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by ViktorCash: 10:34pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Focus all your energy on making money.Anytime you think of masturbating,try to focus on money that will made with that time you want to waste. |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Nobody: 10:35pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
The best remedy for you now is prayers.
You need to talk to God on your own,he has the best solution for you . 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Texty: 10:36pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Start to gym na people go find you..... 1 Like |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by mila1121(m): 10:37pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
In other words you are a virgin 1 Like |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Nobody: 10:38pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
ViktorCash: Focus all your energy on making money.Anytime you think of masturbating,try to focus on money that will made with that time you want to waste. l reserve my comment for you |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by kecee99(m): 10:38pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Kingzizu: Good day,
I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.
So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.
Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.
I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice. Op, were so much alike except for the fact am 21. Never had a girlfriend and zero female friends. I'm seriously tired and depressed ![embarassed](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/embarassed.png) Although it might be because am fvcking cute and my stupid ego won't let me approach any babe ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 1 Like |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by jclassiq(m): 10:41pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
IamDavids: My favorite quote.
Once an addict, always an addict!
Nigga, if you don't get a girl soon you gonna have a relapse.
Your probably an introvert, but you need to be out there meeting people, going out on dates.
If you don't make things happen, you may never know if they would ever work.
Pls what tip can you give about where to meet these females that I'm taking out on dates? Obviously I can't be stopping random girls on the road to woo them. |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by 2tees03(f): 10:41pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Can I be ur friend ![](/faces/huh.png) 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by hopexter(m): 10:41pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
TheGiftedOne: Just keep up your fight against masturbation and in no time you'll fall in love. It will naturally happen, even subconsciously.
He's already In love with masturbation. Idleness and lazy mindset is the main cause of masturbation hence play games on your phone if there's nothing to do. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 2 Likes |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by kakaG: 10:43pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Kingzizu: Good day,
I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.
So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.
Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.
I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice. Chaiiii....so touching. You need to stop fully. Meanwhile, the way to go is not watching porn, stop phatoming sex and keep busy. I had a friend once who would even use people's pictures to self-service off. God help you 2 Likes |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Nobody: 10:43pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Alvin212:
Like your write up
Choice of words
You've been to the USA before?
How did you get to this level?
I care to know. No I’ve never visited the USA. I live In England and while I was at college I picked up some American lingos from a few American wannabes lol. 2 Likes |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Theoarhics: 10:43pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Keep kwayet there. |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by okoroemeka(m): 10:45pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Iyiataata92:
Someone is making his way out of the gate of masturbation and you're directing him towards the gate of olosho. Are you for real? Don't you know olosho is another addiction on its own which will cost him not only self esteem but much money? Bro this your advice get as e be oo
Gates of oloshoism ,very funny,but I think the op has to work seriously on self control,if he can self-service twice daily for 8 years then it shows that he is not in charge of his libido, even the idea of getting an olosho or girlfriend will not help,he may end up trying to fvck the babe or olosho twice daily for who knows how many years more,what he needs is absolute mind control and discipline. 1 Like |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by taven(m): 10:45pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
kalufelix: Follow the urge ..how long do you intend to be on celibacy...learn with olosho na human beings them be ..it should be easier for you .... (i am not talking about the shagging part) from there you will see yourself interacting with the opp sex ...One month is too delicate to start celebrating...If you ever relapse you'd wish you never stopped...wanking is just a pseudo sex...the only true remedy is the real sex which is an exchange of energy rather than a waste of energy... If he learn from olosho na olosho he go fall in love with oo. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Awoo88: 10:46pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
your village people are winning if continue on your path 1 Like |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by NumbEmotions(m): 10:46pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Nobody: 10:47pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by GeoOla25(m): 10:48pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
scoundrel: Your own is small. When my twin stopped he learned he possessed X ray vision and could fly at will. Isn’t abstinence great? Break it down |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by BrosJay27: 10:48pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
First things first, you have to understand that your body is the temple of God, christ dwells in you. So when you masturbate, fornicate etc you're telling him to get out of your life, i don't need you, thereby inviting satan to take hold.
Masturbation is demonic and can be surmounted by the power of God's word. Just coat this scripture (l corin 6:19) anytime you feel that urge and make it personal. Tell that demon, that your body is the temple of God and the personal dwelling place of the holy spirit and he'll flee, you must say it out. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by desvi: 10:48pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Kingzizu: Good day,
I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.
So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.
Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.
I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice. take it easy just go out on a date to have a good time if it turns out to be something more, it will but you must date first and you will have to date a few or many until you find your own |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by taven(m): 10:51pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Kingzizu: Good day,
I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.
So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.
Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.
I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice. See bro the truth is you are screwed and need's saving but the good news is you are now 1 month without fucking yourself! So i will tell you the real thing to do because i myself have been there before! I broke the addiction through online dating and also fell in love with an amazing woman so my friend gear up and put thing's straight you can do anything if you dedicate you attitude towards it! God bless 4 Likes |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by BonPatrick(m): 10:51pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
I disagree with him I masturbate too for 6 years and I still have girlfriends and I Bleep well. Plead: I wanted to dismiss your story as another tales by moonlight but then I know someone like this,nigga didn’t have a girlfriend till he graduated from school...
Work on your self esteem, okay pal. 2 Likes |
Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Nobody: 10:52pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
this your story wont stop me from my soapy because its u either squander all of your money for sex or you mastubate and i choose the latter 3 Likes |