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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 10:11am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Ishitinyourlife: please stop eating her food ,it is very dangerous if i may say, a lot of ladies have hidden agenda. Secondly, please don't mix business with pleasure, it is very dangerous to practice. Thirdly follow whatever your mind is telling you to do, There is no better advise than the one you give to yourself. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Ishitinyourlife: 10:11am On Apr 09, 2020 |
SIRKAY98:I've seen her without make up and in native attires on her way from Church, though I'm not religious so I don't really go to Church but I see her when she comes back to the shop,cos we open on Sundays too and she shows up even though her normal workdays is mon-friday |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by trendyprettygir: 10:11am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Hello Op... 1. Stop eating meals she prepares... get your own meals and eat. 2. Don't date her, continue to treat her with respect and as your worker. 3. Do a thorough background check on her, study her extremely well to see if this is someone who you would like to spend your life with... I presume you run background checks on your workers? Start from there, what did the records pick on her? Know her family, her attitude, her character, Her Lifestyle? Get enough information about her. 4. Decide if after all you have gotten, she is one you would like to spend your life with. If she is what you want, marry her, if not, let her continue to be a worker. 5. Ensure you don't sleep with her in all of this please... Stay Safe and Use your brain... 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by SoNature(m): 10:12am On Apr 09, 2020 |
GabinoMarket: Just read what you just typed again. He should fire a lady who brings jobs to the business more than the owner of the business? I just pity those who take e-advisers seriously 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Johnchyz(m): 10:12am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Ishitinyourlife:. THAT GIRL DON CATCH YOU WITH HER OTUMOKPO. AND I THINK SHE IS WISE LIKE EVE PASSING THE BITTEN APPLE TO ADAM, AND ADAM TASTED IT AND IT WAS NICE. JUST LIKE YOU HAVE TASTED IT NOW. MY BROTHER YOU ARE NOT GETTING ANY MUCH YOUNGER. START TO GO COMING AROUND TO HER PEOPLE MEET WITH THEM, GIVE AM BELLE IMMEDIATELY ,O BOY YOU DON MARRY AM, U HAVE AN ADVANTAGE FOR HER TO BE RESPECTING U FOR YOU ARE HIS OGA. AND SHE WILL BE LOYAL TO U. AND USE PRAYER. ADD AM. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by sammytee042(m): 10:13am On Apr 09, 2020 |
baiaon:I wonder oo. They keep using old tricks and some men are still falling for it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Goziesolar: 10:14am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Ishitinyourlife:from all you just said she is a decent girl which is rare to come by...decency and good manners are two different things,dating her might ruin your employer & employee relationship but if its really marriage you seek there is nothing wrong in that.if it were me I would ask her out but would take her out of my employ so it won't ruin both your relationship with other employees and hers also which would affect your biz 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Ishitinyourlife: 10:14am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Kritique: Thanks, I've had all this feelings even before she started cooking for me though. And even when she brings my food I normally share it with some of my workers and I haven't noticed any thing different. The only issue here for me is that I don't know how she's going to react to marriage, she's still got like a year in school.and with what people are saying here dating is not a good option |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by McTested(m): 10:15am On Apr 09, 2020 |
See oga catching feelings with his employee... Better focus before you lose both your business and the girl fa
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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Ishitinyourlife: 10:15am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Johnchyz:Lol thanks bro,I get what you're saying |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Ishitinyourlife: 10:16am On Apr 09, 2020 |
trendyprettygir:Thanks |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by K4daniel: 10:16am On Apr 09, 2020 |
You better catch her young before she becomes a graduate too much grammar and you may not be able to marry her. He that finder a wife finds good things and obtaineth favour from the lord. People meet their life partners anywhere, so you may be her boss today but her future potentials your money may not buy. Above all, Ask God for divine directions. Cheers!!. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Bryan88(m): 10:16am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Sisijetue:lol....badt guy.... ![]() |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Olude193: 10:18am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Ishitinyourlife: She's different because she smiles, make more money in sales.. Most important she cooks and doesn't collect a dime... This last part is all planned... Where she get the money to be cooking for you.. her salary abi.. you just a hungry pedophile.. She won't even pick up a toasters call in your front... She will even tell you she's never seen a third leg.. until you put her in the house then you know that she's as wild as a lioness... You just an Ode at almost 40 At your age you are suppose to have done your findings before coming to give us half baked information.. Have you even prayed about it Come here and be giving us physical information.. Nonsense Later you will come back here and open a new thread with a new moniker writing New wife ruins business, was she too young ![]() |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Ishitinyourlife: 10:18am On Apr 09, 2020 |
A305:Thanks but what if I make her a partner and things go south. I really want to thread carefully in this situation because I see how delicate it is |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Annie001: 10:18am On Apr 09, 2020 |
dukeprince50:Your own stupidity is jogging So he should just jump into the story without any form of introduction and what is even your fucking business with whatever he has chosen to write Mtcheew 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by AmeLonRo(m): 10:19am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 10:19am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Ishitinyourlife: The lady just charmed you with her delicious food. What if she is doing all these to get your attention? An undergraduate? I Dream of you becoming an employee to the lady you employeed Bro be wise, they have already told you that the first thing that brings man to his downfall is WOMEN AND LOVE. don't mind feelings with business A word is enough for the wise. |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 10:19am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Ishitinyourlife: The lady just charmed you with her delicious food. What if she is doing all these to get your attention? An undergraduate? I Dream of you becoming an employee to the lady you employeed Bro be wise, they have already told you that the first thing that brings man to his downfall is WOMEN AND LOVE. don't mind feelings with business Just treat her like a sister just the way you treat other employees. A word is enough for the wise. |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by yommen: 10:20am On Apr 09, 2020 |
ProfDview1: I sent you 500 Naira. Hopefully, some else adds for you. For OP, anything is possible. Just be sure you no wan chop the girl and run. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by chronique(m): 10:21am On Apr 09, 2020 |
bigthink: We've seen some of these kind of stories before and we know how it ended. It's no big deal dating or marrying someone who works for you but the question is knowing how they perceive you. Would they still have same feeling and respect for you if you are not the owner of what they think you own? That should enable you know how to plan your life. Take for example, would the lady in question start warming up to the new boss thinking he owns the business? If yes, then she never loved the guy in the first place but loved what he has. He can decide to go on with her knowing that, or call it quits. |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 10:21am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Na konji dey worry you. Before she started working with you girls no full ground abi? |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by maestroferddi: 10:21am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Ishitinyourlife:Trump is 24 years Melanie's senior. Dont allow age issues to make you lose a gem... BTW, women normally tend to age faster than men. That lady might be looking like your mum ten years into marriage... 2 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by psalmistkakah(m): 10:22am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Seems to be a good girl, if you have intention to marry her, go ahead 100percent support from me. I run almost the same business with you, I just included nairabet to it too... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 10:22am On Apr 09, 2020 |
yommen: Yes sir.... I actually wanted to let u no I av received it but I Dey fear make airtel no go deduct the money again Thank u very much sir..... I am so much grateful sir... Thank u very very much sir Thank u very much sir |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by dukeprince50: 10:22am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Annie001:he should use 9lines to say things about him? ur stupidity still overwhelms me, try harder |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Ishitinyourlife: 10:22am On Apr 09, 2020 |
stevmatt15:Thanks, all this started even before she started cooking for me,and most of the times I don't eat that food alone,I let my workers have the meat and most of the food sometimes so that is not a problem, I've been around for a while and dated all sort of people over the years so I assure you I know better. |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Rondigee: 10:23am On Apr 09, 2020 |
The girl likes you and you like her. If you want to friend the girl for just an advantage over her, i will ask you to stop because it may have a negative impact on your business but if you intend to marry her, she will not destroy the business but rather will want to make it grow. Already she has the spirit to grow the business. Talk to her if you intend to marry her and if she agrees look at your genotype and go ahead but without that stay clear and let her continue as a sales girl. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Ishitinyourlife: 10:24am On Apr 09, 2020 |
psalmistkakah:Thanks bro 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by fowlyansh181(m): 10:24am On Apr 09, 2020 |
She is still in school, you are 13 years older than her.. this will end in tears , she still needs to grow more, finish school and nysc before knowing what she wants.. for now you may want to date and marry her but that may not be her priorities yet |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by SIRKAY98(m): 10:24am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Ishitinyourlife: Okay but you appear to hv gone far than her.....tell her your mind if she want hook up with her...am afraid if she enters upper institution she doesnt follow another man in 2020 LATEST TOYOTA and makes you waste all your investment on her. Check that as well 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by kingjoe(m): 10:24am On Apr 09, 2020 |
ProfDview1:this one u are beginning did your employee ruin ur business and make u broke |
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