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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by quiteboy(m): 4:14pm On Apr 09, 2020
You deserve this
edoairways:

Most men say this to women but do they forgive cheating wife? Can they stand a cheating wife at all?

Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by ddooskie(m): 4:20pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tissaia:
Women prefer men who have something tender about them – especially the legal kind. ~Kay Ingram

Legal tender cool kiss

Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Perocom(m): 4:29pm On Apr 09, 2020
edoairways:

Most men say this to women but do they forgive cheating wife? Can they stand a cheating wife at all?

Never!!! Almost impossible!!!
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by ericmor: 4:36pm On Apr 09, 2020
Reichel99:
Ok ma, all I know is I won't accept a cheat back.

Cheat back? Don't understand that
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by ericmor: 4:39pm On Apr 09, 2020
peepydelano:
you this nyarinya urhobo lady,men and women are not equal.Get and accept this fact now before ever thinking of settling down,also accept the fact that your husband will cheat on you and you will have no option than to forgive him.

Is not every man that cheat so don't talk like you know that her husband will be a cheat

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Onlyonebuhari: 4:39pm On Apr 09, 2020
edoairways:

There is no law that permit men either. Mortal men should ask questions why certain things are practiced and whether they are fair enough

Kidding right
Science, Bible and The Qur'an permit them.
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by SmartyPants(m): 4:42pm On Apr 09, 2020
leaculpa:

Leaving a cheating husband & being alone is okay. Living with abuse & low self worth just causes emotional pain. We all have one life to live & deserve happiness & peace of mind, even if it's outside of marriage.

I'm sure someone like Mo Abudu wouldn't have had the joy & vision to pursue her media company (Ebonylife) while she was in an unhappy marriage with a cheating husband. You mentioned Beyonce. She only seems to be seen, these days, giving sideeyes to women talking to her husband in basketball games or shes staring into her husband's phone. You really think she's happy? I haven't seen a picture of 'happy beyonce' in a long time.

There's a reason God is against adultery. Whether u like it or not, the emotional turmoil pple go through is real. And if theyre going through it over & over they will feel worthless & grow numb. Most women hold on for their children, but children shouldn't be growing up in homes dt lack real love & connection. The cycle of the entitled dad & the angry doormat mother just gets passed on to the children.

Everyone is unique in how they handle their issues. God has forbidden divorce too lest you forget.

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by ericmor: 4:45pm On Apr 09, 2020
Afobajelarry:
Hustle o, So that when you cheat your wife will not have any reason to leave. Money is importanter

Yes o, the only language they understand is money even when you beat them they won't leave because of the money. I've seen a lot of marriages like that
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Babinski: 4:47pm On Apr 09, 2020
leaculpa:
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.

Ajimobi is said to respect his wife. In fact during his tenure as Governor, some claim his wife was the power behind the throne.

While I do not support cheating, I do understand that someone having extra marital affairs once or twice ought not by itself to be the singular reason for divorce. Divorce can sometimes be nothing more than an expression of selfishness, particularly when kids are involved and severely impacted by the divorce. While everyone has a right to happiness and the right to quit a relationship simply for the fact that you are not happy any more, when you have kids, it requires more consideration than "I just feel it will make me happier".
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by oneluv4life(m): 4:48pm On Apr 09, 2020
Ishilove:
This is deep-



It is still no excuse for the dogs among men to break their marriage vows by dipping their wayward preeks into every hole that drips moisture. And for you single ladies, stay away from people's husbands. Don't be unfortunate.

It is sad that we are living in a patriarchal society where the odds are deliberately stacked against women. What is sauce for the goose is poison for the gander. Where I come from, a cheating man can commit adultery and get away with it, but a cheating woman will endanger the lives of her husband and children if she commits same adultery and does not confess. The husband and kids may fall sick and die, or his business may suffer severe set backs if he keeps making love to her and eating her food in her unconfessed state of adultery. I don't know if it is programmed on the day of the traditional wedding or of it is an ancestral covenant with unknown deities.

Whatever it is, it just makes me mad! It is so unfair. There should be equal punishment for adulterers angry
I don't understand what you mean by the odds are deliberately stacked against women? Are u contradicting your point? U said if a woman cheat it is the innocent husband that will pay for her sin by falling sick or even dying. How does the society or deity or any ancestral spirit favours a man in this regard. He still had to bears the brunt of his wife's sin? Please check your facts well.
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Dextre(m): 4:52pm On Apr 09, 2020
Reichel99:
Ok ma, all I know is I won't accept a cheat back.





Yes ,you will. The ajimobi kind,you most definitely will
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by brainhgeek(m): 4:52pm On Apr 09, 2020
Reichel99:
Ok ma, all I know is I won't accept a cheat back.

Better response. She seems to he empowering cheating men with her comments

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Timileyin1234(m): 4:58pm On Apr 09, 2020
CHoccolaTE:
I might not leave a cheating spouse but God know say I go frustrate him life.
I will sabotage any form of happiness or success in his life and pretend to be a loving wife so that he will not suspect me and he will not be able to protect himself from my revenge.
Devil incarnate

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Timileyin1234(m): 5:04pm On Apr 09, 2020
Goalnaldo:
be serious joor
person whey rude like that na him u dey ask if she is single. Ogbeni japa
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Amalekki: 5:11pm On Apr 09, 2020
As an African man, I agree with madam.
In fact my ancestors are already angry with me for polygamy deficit. My grandpa had 14 wives. I won't listen to them but we can reach a compromise. One wife at home & just one concubine away.
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by fireback: 5:15pm On Apr 09, 2020
dre11:


https://punchng.com/why-i-forgave-my-husband-when-he-cheated-twice-ajimobis-wife/
wow!!! I wish I could have a woman with this kind of understanding for marriage. God help me.
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by danilmo: 5:15pm On Apr 09, 2020
peggywebbs:
Madam we mumu...he will keep on cheating until he gives you HIV. That two times cheating multiply it by 50.

There is no pardon for cheating..so sad she has lost her self esteem.

wait o , is it ur low esteem??
U that have high self esteem, where av u entered before,and who knows u she has entered high places of authority down to the federal level with her low esteem, biko leave her alone with ur stupid theory. She's been realistic here.

low self esteem low self esteem naso my neighbour take become single Mother for 2 different Man. now her 2 son are nuisance to the our environment despite her financial capacity.



weldone ma, awon high esteem. grin abeg.

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Legendguru: 5:16pm On Apr 09, 2020
U have no choice
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by seye4nii(f): 5:20pm On Apr 09, 2020
Hoodbilonia:
Shutorpu
Liar
When he apologise shiit
Madam u r after his money.
Poor man cheat
Na divorce stra8
Rich man cheat. Wife go stay put
Wen oil dey him head
you need to define how rich because not only rich husband are forgiven when they cheat
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by seye4nii(f): 5:25pm On Apr 09, 2020
irunoko:
Grandma e shut up ma.isokuso lenso

Yorubas have said it agba okogbon. Wisdom is not a function of age.

Anyway the crux of the matter is that LONGETIVITY DOES NOT EQUATE GOOD HEALTH.you can live for 160 years and could have been sick for 120 years.similarly the fact that your marriage is over 30 or 40 something year old doesn't mean it must have been healthy


Cheating is emotional abuse.you will not tell us the part where you used sleeping pills or pills to manage migraine when it started by virtue of the fact that you caught him cheating

You will not tell us when you were crying in the bathroom.you are now telling us to err is human to forgive is divine.mama you sef ask yourself in all sincerity if you cheated on him will he say "it's just sex and nothing more"?

Mafinumi mo moje...

To even think that you're a grandmother giving this disturbing advice is sickening.this is how you and your generation have passed down toxic and marital abuse from one generation to the other and now raised narcissistic and entitled men and then shallow minded women with low self esteem who think they deserve to be cheated on...tufiaaakwa


Agba okogbon loto Hnn make you dey deceive yourself shes telling you the real fact

Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by CHoccolaTE: 5:26pm On Apr 09, 2020
Timileyin1234:

Devil incarnate

Oh but the man exposing me to different STDs isn't a devil incarnate abi

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by seye4nii(f): 5:27pm On Apr 09, 2020
irunoko:
Grandma e shut up ma.isokuso lenso

Yorubas have said it agba okogbon. Wisdom is not a function of age.

Anyway the crux of the matter is that LONGETIVITY DOES NOT EQUATE GOOD HEALTH.you can live for 160 years and could have been sick for 120 years.similarly the fact that your marriage is over 30 or 40 something year old doesn't mean it must have been healthy


Cheating is emotional abuse.you will not tell us the part where you used sleeping pills or pills to manage migraine when it started by virtue of the fact that you caught him cheating

You will not tell us when you were crying in the bathroom.you are now telling us to err is human to forgive is divine.mama you sef ask yourself in all sincerity if you cheated on him will he say "it's just sex and nothing more"?

Mafinumi mo moje...

To even think that you're a grandmother giving this disturbing advice is sickening.this is how you and your generation have passed down toxic and marital abuse from one generation to the other and now raised narcissistic and entitled men and then shallow minded women with low self esteem who think they deserve to be cheated on...tufiaaakwa


Agba okogbon loto

Hnn make you dey deceive yourself shes telling you the real fact

Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Timileyin1234(m): 5:28pm On Apr 09, 2020
CHoccolaTE:


Oh but the man exposing me to different STDs isn't a devil incarnate abi
He is using condom na

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by namedo: 5:31pm On Apr 09, 2020
Uptown babies don't cry!
They don't know what hungry is like..
They have daddies and mummies and some toys to play with......MAX ROMEO( Old School Reggae musician)

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by SharonLoveth(f): 5:35pm On Apr 09, 2020
Decryptor:


Now she's beginning to throw cliches! I can understand your frustration.

You are definitely frustrated out of probably living a "loveless" life devoid of a man you can't keep and secondly your obesity!
I understand your plight!! embarassed embarassed
Engaging you verbally could make you go suicidal so let me kindly save your life grin grin

You have demonstrated every loathsome characteristic of the male personality and even
discovered a few new ones. You are physically repulsive, intellectually retarded..

On this note, I rest my case..

Ignore button Activated

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by irunoko(m): 5:38pm On Apr 09, 2020
[quote author=seye4nii post=88265609][/quote] see a woman who knows what she wants has long gone from being self deceptive.

Na you make you carry your stup11d self out of my mention
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by CHoccolaTE: 5:39pm On Apr 09, 2020
Timileyin1234:

He is using condom na
Did you go round to confirm from all cheating men that they always use condoms? Condoms burst and condoms don't protect against every STD.
Herpes, crabs, genital warts, syphilis etc.

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Timileyin1234(m): 5:44pm On Apr 09, 2020
CHoccolaTE:

Did you go round to confirm from all cheating men that they always use condoms? Condoms burst and condoms don't protect against every STD.
Herpes, crabs, genital warts, syphilis etc.
Syphilis, genital warts and so on, liquid dettol will take care of them all except hiv and aids

Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by CHoccolaTE: 5:49pm On Apr 09, 2020
Timileyin1234:

Syphilis, genital warts and so on, liquid dettol will take care of them all except hiv and aids

Lol, grin
That's why I must destroy his life for cheating on me cool
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by edoairways: 5:49pm On Apr 09, 2020
Onlyonebuhari:


Kidding right
Science, Bible and The Qur'an permit them.
Bible doesn't permit it. Jesus and apostle Paul spoke against it
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Timileyin1234(m): 5:54pm On Apr 09, 2020
CHoccolaTE:


Lol, grin
That's why I must destroy his life for cheating on me cool
But do u know this hiv we are talking about self, we can contact it through other means aside sex

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