Parisian:
If you can forgive your cheating wife then you have your answer.

You think I didn't consider that before I posed that question?

Parisian:
Looks like we come from the same place then. I heard sometimes when a woman cheats , her husband's head gets swollen and it will continue in that state till he dies if he keeps eating her meals.

Lol...

To hell with stupid traditions.

It's not stupid. It is the reason why adultery among women is so low in my side

she is very correct. there is a difference between marriage and dating. though am not in support of cheating but a reasonable woman will not live her home for another, knowing that one of her responsibility is to build her home. some persons here have seen worse but are still in their marriage. some women are being abused violently and so forth by their husband, yet they are in the marriage.

Omoale paraku . Thanks for talking about your parent

SharonLoveth:



You've said it all, OLODO is ur father and mother

Kindly educate me on marital vows.. What are they?

Ishilove:
This is deep-



It is still no excuse for the dogs among men to break their marriage vows by dipping their wayward preeks into every hole that drips moisture. And for you single ladies, stay away from people's husbands. Don't be unfortunate.

It is sad that we are living in a patriarchal society where the odds are deliberately stacked against women. What is sauce for the goose is poison for the gander. Where I come from, a cheating man can commit adultery and get away with it, but a cheating woman will endanger the lives of her husband and children if she commits same adultery and does not confess. The husband and kids may fall sick and die, or his business may suffer severe set backs if he keeps making love to her and eating her food in her unconfessed state of adultery. I don't know if it is programmed on the day of the traditional wedding or of it is an ancestral covenant with unknown deities.

Whatever it is, it just makes me mad! It is so unfair. There should be equal punishment for adulterers

zomoears:


Ishilove is talking about aleku, the idoma god that punishes adulterous women. Just so you know,I heard things have changed now, and aleku punishes only the woman and only punishes the man if he's aware of a cheating wife and hides it.

It has been like that na. If the man is not aware, only the woman face the wrath of the gods and if the man is aware and doesn't stop eating her food and having sexual affairs with her or sending her away, he faces the wrath of the gods too.

2face idibia once said : na only you wey know you , the same time make you wetin wey favour you

How she go vex when money isn't her problem ?
Na poor man they face issue of cheating like say them don kill person

But in a rich man's home no matter what happens the thought of loosing everything comes first in mind , who no like better thing

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27Pushing30:

A cheating man is different from a cheating woman.

Ask yourself why a socket is stuck to the wall but plugs are attached to objects that can be moved around?

A married woman who cheats can as well kill her husband

Not true a woman who cheat does so out of lust.

kingkon:


las las there are more cheating wives than men in the world. No body holypass abeg

Exactly

Reichel99:
Ok ma, all I know is I won't accept a cheat back.

Don't worry you are still looking fresh. Marry and drop 3 or 4 kids. Then we will know if you will accept him back or not.

Sotland:
Kindly educate me on marital vows.. What are they?

you pick a kola nut from your father in-law and vow ur fidelity to him (husband) and nothing more. Once you eat the kola, you have sworn an oath which is binding on you as long as his bride price is still with your parents.

Parisian:
Look at this mumu

I understand times are hard at the moment and wouldn't want to add to your level of depression. If u dont agree with my point u could have pass by. Dont qoute henceforth. Thanks

Smhaykins:


Naturally, a woman cannot satisfy an African man sexual urge. Hence, Africa men r polygamous in nature.

A man to a woman z oyinbo way, not an Instruction from God

A woman can't satisfy a man is actually correct but saying African men are polygamous is not totally correct. From the bible God institute one man to one wife.

If any woman because of cheating go out of her married,note that the woman is an harlot, when you left your marriage because of cheating,note that animal that escape from hunters trap and still in forest another trap will catch the animal,but the devil you know is better than the Angel you don,t know,i never see woman that have licence to get marriage to two men,it has been long i understand ladies,when they are very young is like devil block the ears of young ladies,but when they are getting old,is then they will be understand body language of men.

NobleAngell:
Truth is, our parents endured alot just to keep their home. But we kids of nowadays are looking for the perfect man, home and circumstances.

Excellent!

Reichel99:
Ok ma, all I know is I won't accept a cheat back.

OK...let's as assume you leave him and unto the next one ,and that one does same...u will also leave him unto the next... Who do u think will b suffering it... The more men u sleep with , the More u loose ur value.... Men are validated by money while women are validated by body count... That's a fact that most people secretly agree to

Ishilove:

Delta state

Wow, thought you were Yoruba o.

Ishilove:
This is deep-



It is still no excuse for the dogs among men to break their marriage vows by dipping their wayward preeks into every hole that drips moisture. And for you single ladies, stay away from people's husbands. Don't be unfortunate.

It is sad that we are living in a patriarchal society where the odds are deliberately stacked against women. What is sauce for the goose is poison for the gander. Where I come from, a cheating man can commit adultery and get away with it, but a cheating woman will endanger the lives of her husband and children if she commits same adultery and does not confess. The husband and kids may fall sick and die, or his business may suffer severe set backs if he keeps making love to her and eating her food in her unconfessed state of adultery. I don't know if it is programmed on the day of the traditional wedding or of it is an ancestral covenant with unknown deities.

Whatever it is, it just makes me mad! It is so unfair. There should be equal punishment for adulterers

Ishiilove, you are from Nsukka. I can bet that with my life.

Parisian:
I don't understand why someone's opinion hurts yall so much. She don't wanna indulge a cheat. It's her life. When you have daughters, encourage them to put up with community pricks that will give them diseases.

how sure are you that you wont contact disease from jumping from one dick to another. More so, after changing husband so many times, would you be proud of fvcking many dicks? Because those men you fvcked will be proud of saying that they fvcked you.
So I advise you to just remain single forever, otherwise your pussy will be eaten by so many men.

Ishilove:

Delta state

Wao..the Ishan people of Edo, the Ogbadibo people of Benue State all have thesame type of tradition, I can see why one Idoma guy mentioned aleku above. No wonder, Idoma guys easily blend with their Delta/Edo wives.

cr7lomo:


OK...let's as assume you leave him and unto the next one ,and that one does same...u will also leave him unto the next... Who do u think will b suffering it... The more men u sleep with , the More u loose ur value.... Men are validated by money while women are validated by body count... That's a fact that most people secretly agree to

cc parisan

edoairways:

A woman can't satisfy a man is actually correct but saying African men are polygamous is not totally correct. From the bible God institute one man to one wife.

Please give a verse where God said no man should never marry more Dan a woman..

N I will give u instances where ppu of God married more dan a woman...n God never condemned dem for doing day e.g David n solomon

leaculpa:
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.

"...you deserve better" See dis one.

Golden words.

LivingSage:
Omoale paraku . Thanks for talking about your parent

I fart in your general direction. Your mother was a hamster and your father smelt of elderberries.

leaculpa:
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.

What has 'enlightenment', mixed heritage and wealthy background got to do with someone's orientation as regards marriage?

Reichel99:
Ok ma, all I know is I won't accept a cheat back.

Lol make sure ure perfect too

leaculpa:
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.

how happy are those who refuse to forgive?

dre11:


https://punchng.com/why-i-forgave-my-husband-when-he-cheated-twice-ajimobis-wife/

You mean a Nigerian Governor had an affair twice?

He must be a saint!

leaculpa:
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.

That's why you are still single and why she is still married

dre11:


https://punchng.com/why-i-forgave-my-husband-when-he-cheated-twice-ajimobis-wife/

This kind advise oooo. Aaahhh aaaaahhhhh Aaaahhhh

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm......
Its not for me anyways.