zexy2030:
let's dedicate a thread for lonely single ladies in Canada, island and generally in the diaspora, its faceless..its anonymous, except u put ur pic. no one knows u said it. Tell us how lonely u feel, a problem shared could receive plenty attention thereby tending to be solved.

So that they can insult them abi?

Even the single ones in Nigeria no fit drink water drop cup.

Even men who can't feed themselves yet will accuse the lady of messing around in her youth and refusing to marry eligible bachelors like them.

BreconHills:


Canada is quite expensive. $3500 is not a heck of a lot over there. Translating $ into NGN is not like for like because the purchasing power is quite different..

Who doesn't know that? If you keep your bills low though, you will still save a lot of money. This girl has saved up to 10kCAD in six months cos she has kept her bill low. She never could save a quarter of that here in Lagos.

People need to research oyibo life before moving so as to know if you can survive. It's an individualised kind of society. It's on your own OYO. If you are the type that cant stay on your own, that cannot survive staying indoors, minding your business then you need to start doing that before you leave. Your neighbours no even send you.
No time for gossip, no time for show off, loneliness got to be one of your friend but once you understand these people you will love them.

I get one Ghanaian lady for Canada that never mind getting married to a Nigerian man, she is ready to visit Nigeria if need be.

Note: Her waist no be here ooh. Kind lady though.

Nuel4:
can you explain to me how women were oppressed by our ancestors?
Celebration of LGBT is an aberration of societal norms and values.

1. google it. there are so many examples and incidences of oppression.
2. societal norms change all the time.
+100 years ago it was unthinkable that a black person could even walk in the same street as a white person.
+100 years ago it was unthinkable that a woman could wear pants.
+100 years ago it was unthinkable that people could stop worshipping pagan Gods.

See how society changes? It's fine, nobody is pressuring you to be an advocate for human rights. Just know that society is changing with or without you. There are more people who want the change. After all, norms are determined by the majority. Sorry guy

gargoylern:

Hit them up on their youtube or instagram. That's where they congregate now. Don't believe the bulls.hit they type or say about being single and happy. They are crying for a man. Just act gentle and don't act crazy. Dem go warm up.

How do I locate their YouTube channel or Instagram

Cocao:


And I am telling you that you cannot be sure about that. Times are fast changing. Many ladies no longer want to wait for their men to shine first before they do ( not like it is a bad thing) but to each his own. If you have the resources and it is your desire as a woman, why the hell not?
And the marriage thing is subtly overrated. What are the chances that if you stay back and get married that you would be living your best life? Marriages in Nigeria are not even the model.

So please, allow ladies to make whatever decisions they want to biko.

Hahahahahaha @ allow ladies to make their decisions. Am I holding them?

The problem is that a lot of people are not strategic in their thinking, jump head first into a project or claim one thing when something else is doing them.

If as a woman, you want to get married, do you findings about the environment you are going into. Threads like this give free insight; do I mind being single, will I be a baby mama? Do I want a family in the full sense of it? What provisions does my religion allow? What is my 5 year plan? 10 year plan? etc. etc.

And you have hastily assumed that it is all men who processed the Canadian thingy. Now you mention it, 90% of the families who went were processed by their wives. The wives because traditionally younger have the age advantage.

Marriage is not and will never be over-rated, ask your parents.

And I agree the typical Nigerian marriages are not ideal so you create your ideal and work towards it.

I am learning. Men are suffering in the hands of this supposed angels oh.

EVILFOREST:

What you said, is the REALITY, even in the US.
U travel down to your community and pick a Lady of your choice, only for her to be turned into a DRAGON few minutes after arrival in the US, all because of FREEDOM.
Most NIGERIAN LADIES who suddenly become Emergency NURSES by virtue of assistance from their diaspora based Husbands suddenly develop EGO.... and can decimate their husbands, rendering them homeless.

IF U get a GOOD WIFE abroad, just keep going for special thanksgiving.
My Brothers and Uncles have suffered in their Hands.
We no Longer recommend NIGERIAN LADIES to my people in diaspora.
MEN should go out and choose their heart throbs themselves, from any continent of their choice.

It's very disheartening that a Man will travel several hours back to AFRICA to get a wife, only for him to Land a terrible package..

BEST ADVICE FOR THE CONFUSED MEN.
Please, Ensure you MARRY the LADY that Loves you more than you Love her.
This is where the ADVANTAGE lies.

Blu3ray:


Isn't that loneliness on ur profile picture?

nope, it's adventure

gargoylern:

$15 per hour is the minumum wage. That's what moooooost people earn, Nigerians inclusive. On the average, it gets to about $2k per month. But the bills are also expensive. Phone is about $45 per month, rent varies depending on where you live, it is usually about $500 anyways. I think some girls I know are paying $800. Those working better jobs are able to pay higher rent.

But trust me, most will give up all that money if only they can get a guy. Most of them are staring down a tunnel into their future and that future has no kids and no man even things continue the way it is. The chances are very high that the average Nigerian girl immigrant will end up unmarried. Not that it is important that they get married o, but the problem is that they all WANT it.

Oga mi, what does it take to get to Canada?

mamapidgin:
Any Nigeria lady in canada that is lonely only wish to be on her own or probably she doesn't understand the African culture....

If you are a Nigerian lady and loneliness is your problem in Canada that means you don't understand or value your Nigerian Culture, call your parent at home in Nigeria and tell them to connect you with their friend children that are responsible at home and start a relationship from there...

Our parent will always find the best for us when it comes to things like this and from there u can work his document for him to come and join u there, after the relationship have led to marriage. Is as simple as ABC

Why can't she come back to Nigeria and join her husband?

You don't know anything yet.

Been long I witnessed this kind of Thread. Guys here must be of different breed I must say.

Truly there is hope for Nairaland.

fairfora:
The situation doesn't only apply to black ladies mind you. White ladies too suffer same boredom...theirs is even worse and often leads to suicide...boredom among girls over there isn't race-related at all.

We are not white here. I am sure the whites are somewhere discussing their issues.

OP don't lie, how many of THEM are you dating or you're married

gargoylern:
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.

But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected. Am not kidding when I say this. If you aren't there, you have no idea how tough it can get.

EVILFOREST:

What you said, is the REALITY, even in the US.
U travel down to your community and pick a Lady of your choice, only for her to be turned into a DRAGON few minutes after arrival in the US, all because of FREEDOM.
Most NIGERIAN LADIES who suddenly become Emergency NURSES by virtue of assistance from their diaspora based Husbands suddenly develop EGO.... and can decimate their husbands, rendering them homeless.

IF U get a GOOD WIFE abroad, just keep going for special thanksgiving.
My Brothers and Uncles have suffered in their Hands.
We no Longer recommend NIGERIAN LADIES to my people in diaspora.
MEN should go out and choose their heart throbs themselves, from any continent of their choice.

It's very disheartening that a Man will travel several hours back to AFRICA to get a wife, only for him to Land a terrible package..

BEST ADVICE FOR THE CONFUSED MEN.
Please, Ensure you MARRY the LADY that Loves you more than you Love her.
This is where the ADVANTAGE lies.

I concur.

egopersonified:
ok, I am thinking, can't they become lesbians?

Toor!

Thinking out of the box

zexy2030:
let's dedicate a thread for lonely single ladies in Canada, island and generally in the diaspora, its faceless..its anonymous, except u put ur pic. no one knows u said it. Tell us how lonely u feel, a problem shared could receive plenty attention thereby tending to be solved.

Not just the ladies, even the guys. You can't just walk up to a lady like naija. They re very unpredictable like their weather. They full dating app dey find love upandan

tossedbae:
Only introvert like me will have it interesting there, I would loved to be there also

Aunty Introvert still need dick/children

That's the sad reality, body nor be firewood

BestAccessories:


My brother, not only in Canada, come and observe small in Nigeria.

If you have time, take time out to visit Lekki, Ikoyi or Victoria Island and you would see the height of loneliness (Guys & Babes). See beyond the big houses, the flashy cars and the rest. Look at the person living in the house or riding the big car.

I will however, not discourage anyone (male or female) from travelling for greener pasture or to earn more money as far as you can cope.

Making more money also comes with depression and it isn't everyone that know how to cope or manage the pressure that comes with having more money at your disposal. You have all the resources to make you comfortable but can't find true love.

You don't know if the babe or guy you are dating is dating you for your money or really love you. Making more money also comes with arrogance. You don't wanna take shit from anyone, because he earns good money and you also earn good money, so why should I take shit from you.

Until you reach certain level, you can't understand what it takes to survives there.

THAT'S WHEN YOU'LL TRULY UNDERSTAND THE ADAGE'MONEY ISN'T EVERYTHING'.

PDJT:


-Any good mother, will forever tell her son this @bolded.

-One formulae is to stay poor abroad but rich at home, all investments must be at home front including savings. Ensure, the family go home every year, unfailingly! But support the woman to hustle too, some of their wahala come from begging family and friends back home.

-In order words, treat the foreign land like a foreign land it is.

Thank You so much.
My WIFE is a TRADITIONAL person.
She likes African Villages and Masquerade dances.
And she likes investment so much.
She is not a SLAY QUEEN at all.
KIDS visit Nigeria almost every year.

LIVINGICON:
Why won't they be lonely? The relationship climate over there is quite different. And trust naija guyz na canadian babes or any other foreigner sure pass.

Hmmm..

lefulefu:
so why are they not dating the white men dere

So white men will leave their angelic white girls and .....abeg no let me talk o...ano want wahala from "them" o lolsssssss

If a lady is making so many videos on YouTube it is a sign that she does not have a man or relationship is not a priority.

Flee from such a lady.

Mstick:
He cheated on her, she has every DAMN RIGHT to leave the marriage. Because he took her to Canada doesn't give him the right to hurt her.

And because he cheated, she should now frustrate the guy? If not for the guy she would have been in one village now breaking palm kanel. Ungrateful bitch looking for every opportunity to go outside and Bleep random men. I for even ask the guy just now which city is she to know if I'll see her in one of the dating sites cuz that's were they re looking for men to prey on

madridsta007:


Someone said they they send the fine ones to the US and the wor wor ones to Canada lol

Omo, see line! Na true you talk sha. The fine ones I met in the US, the ugly ones in Canada. How come? Maybe because Canada is easier to enter.

gargoylern:

Hit them up on their youtube or instagram. That's where they congregate now. Don't believe the bulls.hit they type or say about being single and happy. They are crying for a man. Just act gentle and don't act crazy. Dem go warm up.

How do I go about searching them on YouTube ....pls educate me cos na only Facebook and whatsap I get ooo

gwininfo:
This Canada I must enter ooooo,even if I don't have an International passport yet��. let me build capacity

.
My brother No worry. You fit use canal enter Canada. Any way na way!

ednut1 please can you gimme link to the Canadian immigration thread?

bukatyne2:


Hahahahahaha @ allow ladies to make their decisions. Am I holding them?

The problem is that a lot of people are not strategic in their thinking, jump head first into a project or claim one thing when something else is doing them.And I agree the typical Nigerian marriages are not ideal so you create your ideal and work towards it.

Dear Sir,

Moving abroad is not something you rush and do. Most people are in the process for not less than two years. I am talking about legal relocation not overstaying visit visas. Within those two years, what exactly makes you think that there is no strategic plan for the abroad when you eventually get there. If you are in that process believe me, there is no scenario where you have not thought about EVERYTHING at least 10 times. So if having put in so much money and effort and immigrate without partners, don't you think they don't know the outcomes?

Let people, let ladies make their decisions. It is not your problem!

Kekereekun123:
i recently got canada pr. Even from our canada pr whatsapp groups the ladies there don dey hustle men. Some bad guys just dey chop dem for fun o. Marriage is not an ultimate goal in life. These ladies should adjust. They will also want you to take them back to Nigeria for societal wedding lol. I would rather use my. Money for MBA

you know the story

GloShare:
I'm in canada, and I will tell you for real.

The only excitement a man may get is having sex with a woman or friends with benefits.

The moment you nut in her and she gets pregnant, or the moment you put a ring on it and marry her legally, she immediately has power over you.

Power intoxicates, and because African women have not tasted such power, it gets in their head.

There are a lot of good ones though.

In canada,
Children come first,
Seniors (old people) come second
Women come third
Animals come fourth.
Men come last.

Many white men are beginning to go their own way. Worldwide most men are not so freaked about marriage again.