Seriously though... A girl doesn't have to suffer with you to prove she loves you... You might not meet her now that you're broke ... If you're still living in your Father's house, not yet working or still struggling to be stable mbok leave Women and focus on building yourself first... You mustn't struggle with her to know her worth... Someone just said “so when I now make it, one efulefu will come to eat where she did not sow”? Like seriously? What if you're destined to meet after you've made it, wah if she's somewhere struggling too to be on her feet cos she doesn't want to suffer, cos she wants to be a help meet to her husband...

It's high time you guys stop measuring a Lady's worth with her not being materialistic... Some of us also want to make our money by ourselves so please focus on building yourself and when the time is right love will come... We all have our spec the same way you have your spec!!!
My take is... Ladies be busy with something, don't depend on anybody... Men, if you want to spend on a Lady, do it cos you want to, cos you feel she deserves it, cos you want your girl looking good... Too much expectations is the reason why we end up heartbroken, everybody is different and everybody's destiny isn't the same mbok...

Pray to be with someone that understands you that much and appreciate you for who you are...
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Another broke ass girl crying out for a rich Man

A self sufficient lady who is independent is a lot of turn on, unlike some dumb bimbo who just want a penny for hanging out with you or fvcking you

see many Oloshos and Prostitiute are dead single till 40s because no man takes a bambiala woman serious, you sell your self cheaply when you want something in return for love calling it "Appreciation".. do you know how awful a man feels having to pay for sex, affection or company? this is why paid women gets badly treated


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Ladies that wants to make their own money and not depend on a guy do not say it, THEY SHOW IT.