Eulalia: I'm not surprised the pastor's wife turned into a runs girl. Sometimes, some Christian bro are the architect of their own downfall. I'll tell you why and how.
You will see a true Christian bro, who has been set apart for God's work looking in the wrong direction for a spouse or obviously going for a runs or wayward girl due to her physical appearance/attraction. And then he tries to change her by telling her to stop wearing this, stop doing that just to make her look perfect and suitable for him. The runs girl too, happy she's seen a permanent mugu, will adjust ( not genuinely born again) and then begin to play along until they.get married. But you know what they say about a leopard that doesn't change its skin, a runs girl will always be a run girl and later in life, she'll easily go back to her old ways because she was never really regenerated in the first place.
It you're truly a born again bro or sis, don't ever make the mistake of pampering sinners into marriage. Dont try to convert someone because you want to marry them. Let them get converted first of their own accord through God. Then go through sanctification by the Holy spirit ( which is a huge process on it own) before you can say for certain this one will make a good wife and help me actualize my God given purpose in life or help in my ministry.
A lot of young christian bro are deceiving themselves these days but they always reap it in the future. Imagine what that man and his ministry will be going through right now? This could destroy his ministry and even make him lose his life or even eternity. He probably forced his lifestyle on her but now she's back to what she's good at. Hmm... A word is enough for the wise. Except if you as a bro or sis was never really born again.
Shalom
The truth of this matter is that a true young christian can not marry a runs girl not to talk of a Pastor because of John 16 :13
13 However, when He, the Spirit of truth, has come, He will guide you into all truth; for He will not speak on His own authority, but whatever He hears He will speak; and He will tell you things to come.
My own is did he not hear clearly from the holispirit before moving to marriage?
Is he not aware of what Paul told the corthians 1v6 of not been equally yoke with unbealivers?
He went to marry runs girl in the mids of several warnings , went after oyinbo pupa yellow..And now reaping the consequence of his action. I only feel for d man of God and his ministry.
Lesson learnt; brother that Big breast and yellow sisi God is warning you about will lead you to problems you may lose your life. Marry someone Within your reach and be content with whom God has given you as a wife or husband.
Eulalia: I'm not surprised the pastor's wife turned into a runs girl. Sometimes, some Christian bro are the architect of their own downfall. I'll tell you why and how.
You will see a true Christian bro, who has been set apart for God's work looking in the wrong direction for a spouse or obviously going for a runs or wayward girl due to her physical appearance/attraction. And then he tries to change her by telling her to stop wearing this, stop doing that just to make her look perfect and suitable for him. The runs girl too, happy she's seen a permanent mugu, will adjust ( not genuinely born again) and then begin to play along until they.get married. But you know what they say about a leopard that doesn't change its skin, a runs girl will always be a run girl and later in life, she'll easily go back to her old ways because she was never really regenerated in the first place.
It you're truly a born again bro or sis, don't ever make the mistake of pampering sinners into marriage. Dont try to convert someone because you want to marry them. Let them get converted first of their own accord through God. Then go through sanctification by the Holy spirit ( which is a huge process on it own) before you can say for certain this one will make a good wife and help me actualize my God given purpose in life or help in my ministry.
A lot of young christian bro are deceiving themselves these days but they always reap it in the future. Imagine what that man and his ministry will be going through right now? This could destroy his ministry and even make him lose his life or even eternity. He probably forced his lifestyle on her but now she's back to what she's good at. Hmm... A word is enough for the wise. Except if you as a bro or sis was never really born again.
The truth of this matter is that a true young christian can not marry a runs girl not to talk of a Pastor because of John 16 :13
13 However, when He, the Spirit of truth, has come, He will guide you into all truth; for He will not speak on His own authority, but whatever He hears He will speak; and He will tell you things to come.
Well....it can happen sometimes out of carelessness and disobedience. Look at the case of Samson.... He was God's chosen which could pass for today's born again Christian. But he disobeyed God and followed his heart and not the will of God.
To tell you he was God's chosen, when he prayed in the end for the last strength to destroy his enemies, God still answered him. So some "true" Christian can still make a mistake.
Ayoswit: One of the demons that left d body of those the husband delivered got into her. Imagine selling her soul to d devil, what a shame
You are right.
People should check her former pic when she was married to the pastor . Her eyes were innocent , full of life to serve God and fulfil her duties beside her husband .
But look at the flyer . Check her eyes in the flyer. A strange spirit has taken over in its incubating stage .
Then now look at her eyes in the first Two pics . Several demonic spirits have taken over and built Skyscrapper in her . She's lost her soul to more evil spirits
Well....it can happen sometimes out of carelessness and disobedience. Look at the case of Samson.... He was God's chosen which could pass for today's born again Christian. But he disobeyed God and followed his heart and not the will of God.
To tell you he was God's chosen, when he prayed in the end for the last strength to destroy his enemies, God still answered him. So some "true" Christian can still make a mistake.
Well I can agree with you on the basis of disobedience ...because I know a true child of God will seek and hear from God on issue so important as marriage....but he or she may choose to disobey.
Eulalia: I'm not surprised the pastor's wife turned into a runs girl. Sometimes, some Christian bro are the architect of their own downfall. I'll tell you why and how.
You will see a true Christian bro, who has been set apart for God's work looking in the wrong direction for a spouse or obviously going for a runs or wayward girl due to her physical appearance/attraction. And then he tries to change her by telling her to stop wearing this, stop doing that just to make her look perfect and suitable for him. The runs girl too, happy she's seen a permanent mugu, will adjust ( not genuinely born again) and then begin to play along until they.get married. But you know what they say about a leopard that doesn't change its skin, a runs girl will always be a run girl and later in life, she'll easily go back to her old ways because she was never really regenerated in the first place.
It you're truly a born again bro or sis, don't ever make the mistake of pampering sinners into marriage. Dont try to convert someone because you want to marry them. Let them get converted first of their own accord through God. Then go through sanctification by the Holy spirit ( which is a huge process on it own) before you can say for certain this one will make a good wife and help me actualize my God given purpose in life or help in my ministry.
A lot of young christian bro are deceiving themselves these days but they always reap it in the future. Imagine what that man and his ministry will be going through right now? This could destroy his ministry and even make him lose his life or even eternity. He probably forced his lifestyle on her but now she's back to what she's good at. Hmm... A word is enough for the wise. Except if you as a bro or sis was never really born again.
Shalom
Well said.
Unfortunately, same applies to the sisters: marrying 'happening', 'swaggalicious' brothers who suddenly wonders why the wife has to go to church every Sunday a month into the wedding.
People should check her former pic when she was married to the pastor . Her eyes were innocent , full of life to serve God and fulfil her duties beside her husband .
But look at the flyer . Check her eyes in the flyer. A strange spirit has taken over in its incubating stage .
Then now look at her eyes in the first Two pics . Several demonic spirits have taken over and built Skyscrapper in her . She's lost her soul to more evil spirits
Amen. We the church also needs to stop deceiving ourselves. I've seen this sort of thing happen in my very eyes.
I remember a long time ago, was still very small then. There was this pastor that came to our parish. So the senior pastors tried to guide him in chosing a sister. The sister they chose was a born again to the core but not the flashy type. I think they already started the courtship. Before we knew it the story changed. He has switched to one hot girl in the choir. Hm... Tongues began to wag. In no time he married this hot girl. After marriage, the only thing he enjoyed that period was flaunting her around for a short while. This thing happened in 2008 and up till now, no child. Someone close to the family told us the sister is a party party type and she's giving the man a hell of a time. The last time I saw this pastor at a wedding, he was a shadow of himself. Hes now looking pale and weak from stress. The girl was not with him.
The sister he rejected is now married with kids and still waxing stronger in the Lord. So many like that.
Its high time we stopped deceiving ourselves and begin to do according to God's will if we must live a fulfilled life.
Shalom.
I also think that over-religiousity of stiffness of some Christians can also be scary.
Like the saying goes: If marriages are made in heaven, they are maintained on earth.
They need to learn how to be interesting spouses; Christianity is not a religion, it is a way of life.
Eulalia: I'm not surprised the pastor's wife turned into a runs girl. Sometimes, some Christian bro are the architect of their own downfall. I'll tell you why and how.
You will see a true Christian bro, who has been set apart for God's work looking in the wrong direction for a spouse or obviously going for a runs or wayward girl due to her physical appearance/attraction. And then he tries to change her by telling her to stop wearing this, stop doing that just to make her look perfect and suitable for him. The runs girl too, happy she's seen a permanent mugu, will adjust ( not genuinely born again) and then begin to play along until they.get married. But you know what they say about a leopard that doesn't change its skin, a runs girl will always be a run girl and later in life, she'll easily go back to her old ways because she was never really regenerated in the first place.
It you're truly a born again bro or sis, don't ever make the mistake of pampering sinners into marriage. Dont try to convert someone because you want to marry them. Let them get converted first of their own accord through God. Then go through sanctification by the Holy spirit ( which is a huge process on it own) before you can say for certain this one will make a good wife and help me actualize my God given purpose in life or help in my ministry.
A lot of young christian bro are deceiving themselves these days but they always reap it in the future. Imagine what that man and his ministry will be going through right now? This could destroy his ministry and even make him lose his life or even eternity. He probably forced his lifestyle on her but now she's back to what she's good at. Hmm... A word is enough for the wise. Except if you as a bro or sis was never really born again.
Shalom
WoW! This in itself is an Easter message. God bless you for the wisdom
Do you know that the emotional trauma can make him lose focus? Especially as she is a social Media personality? Whenever she misbehaves online, he'll be tagged in the disgrace?
I Don't pray for anyone to experience such, cos it will not be easy to move on.
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Unfortunately, same applies to the sisters: marrying 'happening', 'swaggalicious' brothers who suddenly wonders why the wife has to go to church every Sunday a month into the wedding.
Yes, it goes both ways dear.
I have experienced it first hand and today I look back and I'm grateful to God for not letting it work.
I was still young in the faith and was still under heavy sanctification process then.
So a swaggalicious bro was on standby, and an SU ( both graduates and well read) But because the other was funky, more posh, all the choir girls choice.. I said "we die here" and with I being a bit on the flashy side, he too was feeling fly with a cute chorister. But my other bro, was always on my "papas" kind of trousers and hes just there but very devoted but I didn't give a hoot about him. In the end, my funky guy wasn't forth coming ( God had a hand) cos the more i was praying, the more he was exhibiting some ungodly behavior. Though I wanted to close my eyes to it, God didn't let it work. I cried for years but it didn't work. Even while at it, the Christian bro kept coming and I told him off ( childish) because of his dressing and not so funky lifestyle.
Now the funky guy is married but still sleeps around. In fact, he chatted me recently, inviting me over to come spend sometime with at a friends place. After the chat, a voice told me, that's how he would have been sleeping with women at a friends place if he married you then. And I began to thank God cos now I why God didn't let it work.
I thank God today, I'm wiser and more mature in Christ. Hence have learnt to work with God in all I do. Physical appearance is not always the ultimate.
I also think that over-religiousity of stiffness of some Christians can also be scary.
Like the saying goes: If marriages are made in heaven, they are maintained on earth.
They need to learn how to be interesting spouses; Christianity is not a religion, it is a way of life.
One can have fun without sinning.
Lol...you just made me laugh so hard.
See these days at youth forums, the youth are being taught how to look good and dress well. Forget o. That is why I like my denomination cos we have youth pastors that will yab some bro and sis telling them to step up and be interesting to look at. But in all, we should not get carried away. Temperance must be observed.
Even as couples, you should be interesting to each other. Even if the bro is a holy holy type, as long as hes my husband, ha.... I must make our marriage fun and interesting o. I'm not a dull Christian. Christianity doesn't mean couples cannot be playmates or have fun with each other.
Eulalia: I'm not surprised the pastor's wife turned into a runs girl. Sometimes, some Christian bro are the architect of their own downfall. I'll tell you why and how. good talk
You will see a true Christian bro, who has been set apart for God's work looking in the wrong direction for a spouse or obviously going for a runs or wayward girl due to her physical appearance/attraction. And then he tries to change her by telling her to stop wearing this, stop doing that just to make her look perfect and suitable for him. The runs girl too, happy she's seen a permanent mugu, will adjust ( not genuinely born again) and then begin to play along until they.get married. But you know what they say about a leopard that doesn't change its skin, a runs girl will always be a run girl and later in life, she'll easily go back to her old ways because she was never really regenerated in the first place.
It you're truly a born again bro or sis, don't ever make the mistake of pampering sinners into marriage. Dont try to convert someone because you want to marry them. Let them get converted first of their own accord through God. Then go through sanctification by the Holy spirit ( which is a huge process on it own) before you can say for certain this one will make a good wife and help me actualize my God given purpose in life or help in my ministry.
A lot of young christian bro are deceiving themselves these days but they always reap it in the future. Imagine what that man and his ministry will be going through right now? This could destroy his ministry and even make him lose his life or even eternity. He probably forced his lifestyle on her but now she's back to what she's good at. Hmm... A word is enough for the wise. Except if you as a bro or sis was never really born again.
This is one true. I was once a member of the church in Uyo at Atam opp. Water Board. The pastor the husband remarried almost 3 years ago. Please pray for her believers. Thanks
I have experienced it first hand and today I look back and I'm grateful to God for not letting it work.
I was still young in the faith and was still under heavy sanctification process then.
So a swaggalicious bro was on standby, and an SU ( both graduates and well read) But because the other was funky, more posh, all the choir girls choice.. I said "we die here" and with I being a bit on the flashy side, he too was feeling fly with a cute chorister. But my other bro, was always on my "papas" kind of trousers and hes just there but very devoted but I didn't give a hoot about him. In the end, my funky guy wasn't forth coming ( God had a hand) cos the more i was praying, the more he was exhibiting some ungodly behavior. Though I wanted to close my eyes to it, God didn't let it work. I cried for years but it didn't work. Even while at it, the Christian bro kept coming and I told him off ( childish) because of his dressing and not so funky lifestyle.
Now the funky guy is married but still sleeps around. In fact, he chatted me recently, inviting me over to come spend sometime with at a friends place. After the chat, a voice told me, that's how he would have been sleeping with women at a friends place if he married you then. And I began to thank God cos now I why God didn't let it work.
I thank God today, I'm wiser and more mature in Christ. Hence have learnt to work with God in all I do. Physical appearance is not always the ultimate.
Good for you.
I have seen how wrong turn in marriages can wreck lives and destines which is why I am very very vocal about the choices of young women.
I laugh when young ladies of today tell you they want to put their jobs/careers/businesses first without a thought to whom they get married to.
Like they say, Giving your life to Christ is the most important decision; whom you marry is the second most important.
See these days at youth forums, the youth are being taught how to look good and dress well. Forget o. That is why I like my denomination cos we have youth pastors that will yab some bro and sis telling them to step up and be interesting to look at. But in all, we should not get carried away. Temperance must be observed.
Even as couples, you should be interesting to each other. Even if the bro is a holy holy type, as long as hes my husband, ha.... I must make our marriage fun and interesting o. I'm not a dull Christian. Christianity doesn't mean couples cannot be playmates or have fun with each other.
Good thing they are.
Very true. I honestly wonder where such was derived from.
MRSAWEDOFF: Ex-Pastor's wife turned runs girl calls out politician's wife for threatening her over her husband
An Ex-Pastor's wife who is now a self-confessed runs girl, went off on a rant last night after being allegedly threatened by an Uyo politician's wife.
Happiness a.k.a Arab Queen disclosed that she is formerly married but now a single mother in her Instalive videos. She also recalled how the politician's wife allegedly slept with 3 different men in a hotel she once lodged in.
Arab Queen who asked the politician's wife to leave and "hustle" for men like her if she is tired of her marriage, threatened to release photos if pushed further.
Eulalia: I'm not surprised the pastor's wife turned into a runs girl. Sometimes, some Christian bro are the architect of their own downfall. I'll tell you why and how.
You will see a true Christian bro, who has been set apart for God's work looking in the wrong direction for a spouse or obviously going for a runs or wayward girl due to her physical appearance/attraction. And then he tries to change her by telling her to stop wearing this, stop doing that just to make her look perfect and suitable for him. The runs girl too, happy she's seen a permanent mugu, will adjust ( not genuinely born again) and then begin to play along until they.get married. But you know what they say about a leopard that doesn't change its skin, a runs girl will always be a run girl and later in life, she'll easily go back to her old ways because she was never really regenerated in the first place.
It you're truly a born again bro or sis, don't ever make the mistake of pampering sinners into marriage. Dont try to convert someone because you want to marry them. Let them get converted first of their own accord through God. Then go through sanctification by the Holy spirit ( which is a huge process on it own) before you can say for certain this one will make a good wife and help me actualize my God given purpose in life or help in my ministry.
A lot of young christian bro are deceiving themselves these days but they always reap it in the future. Imagine what that man and his ministry will be going through right now? This could destroy his ministry and even make him lose his life or even eternity. He probably forced his lifestyle on her but now she's back to what she's good at. Hmm... A word is enough for the wise. Except if you as a bro or sis was never really born again.
