zexy2030:

no attachment pls, just the baby. Love is out of it.
I can't love until I'm sure of her.

you will end up loving her

Lostz:
and who finance the project?

Finance what project?

A child is not a project that can be discarded at any given time, I work too..I am also capable of handling things.

sexylassie2:



I think, you just want to argue for argument sake.

Who is talking about marriage here.

You either don’t know what you’re talking about or you don’t understand what I wrote in response.

Read my comment again until you understand it.

Lostz:
but you don't want to handover the baby?

At 5 year old , no, I cant, even at 9 month, big no.

Lostz:


But some ladies throw the child away. Some even abort it.

His request is not for very emotional people.

OK. But the class of lady he'll knock up would eventually wanna kick.


Those who throw away babies can't feed themselves

Lostz:
you will end up loving her

hmmm, I know they can act, but I'm having issues with trust about women, so give birth, pay an agreed amount monthly, then get my baby on his/her 5th birthday.

Lostz:
but you are ready for feminism

So speaking out and having personal opinions translates into feminism?

SweetCunt97:
So speaking out and having personal opinions translates into feminism?

so you are no feminist? Good to hear

SweetCunt97:
So speaking out and having personal opinions translates into feminism?

feminism is more on equality, I think?

sexylassie2:


Finance what project?

A child is not a project that can be discarded at any given time, I work too..I am also capable of handling things.

go and get married. I know that is what you want

sexylassie2:


At 5 year old , no, I cant, even at 9 month, big no.

Get married so you two can raise the baby.

No one will finance a project and leave the baby with you

Lostz:
go and get married. I know that is what you want

Ok..is it a bad thing or a thing of Shame for a lady to wanting to get married.

I actually like the idea of marriage, that is why it will be hard for me to do this stuff.

Lostz:

Get married so you two can raise the baby.

No one will finance a project and leave the baby with you

the truth.

SweetCunt97:
OK. But the class of lady he'll knock up would eventually wanna kick.


Those who throw away babies can't feed themselves

Why would you pay for a project and allow her to keep the baby.

Of what use is the baby then?

sexylassie2:


Ok..is it a bad thing or a thing if Shame for a lady to wanting to get married.

I actually like the idea of marriage, that is why it will be hard for me to do this stuff.

I appreciate your openness and interrogation

Lostz:

Get married so you two can raise the baby.

No one will finance a project and leave the baby with you

Mr, I got my money too, it's no big deal for me to give my child the best things in the world even if the father isn't there.

Lostz:
so you are no feminist? Good to hear

I have my opinions, I cannot swallow intimidation and suppression. If that makes me a feminist, fine.

Lostz:


Why would you pay for a project and allow her to keep the baby.

Of what use is the baby then?

Well, he should go for someone who will agree to that terms

zexy2030:

I appreciate your openness and interrogation

Thanks.

sexylassie2:


Finance what project?

A child is not a project that can be discarded at any given time, I work too..I am also capable of handling things.

if u work too, it may turn an issue tomorrow that ur money is part of the child's life.

sexylassie2:


Ok..is it a bad thing or a thing if Shame for a lady to wanting to get married.

I actually like the idea of marriage, that is why it will be hard for me to do this stuff.

I didn't say it is a bad thing.

I will probably try my hands on marriage someday too.
but I also fancy the ideal of a child without marriage......a child that will live 3 me not the mother

Naija women are a bunch of simpletons, a guy posts that he needs a woman to give him a child and he pays her off, stupid and senseless women go about on the thread complaining and arguing, Why not ignore if you ain't interested?

SweetCunt97:
Well, he should go for someone who will agree to that terms

What is this thread all about in the first place?

zexy2030:

if u work too, it may turn an issue tomorrow that ur money is part of the child's life.

Yes, I think so too, because there is no reason why I will see some beautiful toys or baby cloths and won't buy it with my money. You know, its my child also.

sexylassie2:


Mr, I got my money too, it's no big deal for me to give my child the best things in the world even if the father isn't there.

oya just pay a guy to get you pregnant na.
It will be easier to see a guy who is willing to give up the baby

sexylassie2:


Mr, I got my money too, it's no big deal for me to give my child the best things in the world even if the father isn't there.

Marriage is proper. But this generation, marriage is complicated.

sexylassie2:


Yes, I think so too, because there is no reason why I will see some beautiful toys or baby cloths and won't buy it with my money. You know, its my child also.

hmmm, let's see if we can meet, I appreciate ur perspective.

Lostz:

I didn't say it is a bad thing.

I will probably try my hands on marriage someday too.
but I also fancy the ideal of a child without marriage......a child that will live 3 me not the mother

It is good to fantasize, hard to make it a reality, its very hard to take a child away from the mother, also training a child isn't the job of a man, you will get tired and stressed.

zexy2030:

Marriage is proper. But this generation, marriage is complicated.

It is complex because people want it that way.

SweetCunt97:
I have my opinions, I cannot swallow intimidation and suppression. If that makes me a feminist, fine.

No one goes out with a mission to intimidate his wife or girlfriend.

There will only be problem if you start trying to get rid of the role of the man as the head and the father figure

SweetCunt97:
Well, he should go for someone who will agree to that terms

we are supposed to be progressive.

Lostz:
oya just pay a guy to get you pregnant na.
It will be easier to see a guy who is willing to give up the baby

It is not that easy to just bring any man. Most men leave when they can't face responsibilities.