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Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by kem5773: 12:50am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by SweetCunt97(f): 12:50am On Apr 19, 2020 |
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Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by HKGODSWILL(m): 12:57am On Apr 19, 2020 |
[quote author=VivleBriella post=88472091]Good day everyone I've been a guest for a couple of years now, created an account to seek advice Don't be rational. You seeking advice on nairaland means that you don't want to take a decision you will regret sooner or later, it's very good and it means that you are not rational. First, in a relashionship a partner most always reveal how he or she feel averytime again and again, so tell him your thoughts both the negative and positive feelings you get from the situation and how you think he should be handling his families needs, give him ideals to manage the situation. If he buys it good for both of you if he doesn't you can take your final decision of culting the relationship for you life, feelings, and futures sake. Good luck.... 1 Like |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by Cowbell521: 12:59am On Apr 19, 2020 |
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Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by DedeNkem: 12:59am On Apr 19, 2020 |
VivleBriella: This is the first red flag. This won't be a red flag if the guy has a lot of money to take care of everyone. VivleBriella: Another giant red flag! 3 yrs. is more than enough to know anyone. You're the only one entitled to your money! To him and his family, you're their ATM. He's not your husband, so I don't know you always feel you need to finance him and his family! Wake up from your slumber! VivleBriella: Stop the spending spree like a mugu! If he loves you he will understand. Let him spend on you for a change! If he refuses to spend on you, RUN AWAY. It is NOT your responsibility to take care him and his siblings! Make sure you collect 500K as soon as possible! The whole thing is crazy. I can't believe you have been enduring this bullsh*it this long! VivleBriella: A parasitic relationship is wrong no matter how you look at it. Two people in a relationship should VivleBriella: Run! You've so much life ahead of you! There are good men out there who deserve you! |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by Nobody: 1:05am On Apr 19, 2020 |
From experience as a woman you can map out the blueprint And not only will you have a legacy together you’ll have something everyone else will be envying Never loan what you can’t write off sometimes and if he messes up collect money It’s not everytime you play this card o but he won’t forget That he had to give you money notice I didn’t say partial or full depending on the grandness of the embarrassment the trick is you can only play this card once in the whole relationship. The loan is free because of love sometimes men don’t respect the lender if you don’t keep him accountable. that’s all don’t shout in the street o just between you two. |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by Chimasoka: 1:18am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by Karniboss(m): 1:37am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Have you tried putting yourself in his shoe, let's say the table was turned and the guy is now the person supporting supporting your family. Would you be happy if he should say something like this about you and your family. I guess it would have been a normal for a guy to support his girls family but not the girl supporting the guy's family, you should willing support him or quit the relationship than bringing his matter up here for strangers to dissect on it. 1 Like |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by Missmossy(f): 1:45am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Funny comments here ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by kem8655: 2:16am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by amosrich(m): 2:21am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Get used to it or get out of the relationship if it's not okay with you..I'm not going to pamper you with words cos at the end of the day,you will only heed to the advice that will justify your conscience.. afterall many men are in this shoes,they bear the burden of the the girls family and some are not even appreciated..yet ladies cry out when then spend on their man...you cant count how many ladies some guys have lent money to and still they (ladies) still feel entitled,claiming "he's the man".so lady,do anything that rocks your boat..its your relationship..DECIDE!!! I always say that giving is masculine sha |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by kem7639: 2:21am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by Worksunlimited: 2:27am On Apr 19, 2020 |
VivleBriella: Free the guy... Some relationships aren't worth staying in.... |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by cooooooks(m): 2:34am On Apr 19, 2020 |
He's using you. Being a bread winner isn't the problem. Depending on you for that money is. VivleBriella: |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by cooooooks(m): 2:37am On Apr 19, 2020 |
You can't create money out of thin air. If he doesn't have the money, he doesn't aether money. rockstarB: |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by LeanonGOD(m): 3:13am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Abeg, komot for road. You can introduce him to your sister. jaksmillioniar: 1 Like |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by demefaboy(m): 3:14am On Apr 19, 2020 |
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Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by padoc90(m): 3:22am On Apr 19, 2020 |
I just like your maturity in presenting the situation |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by BigDick70inch(m): 4:14am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Lol.. Even u huh?? Dat..i do always look out to your comment ehn.. Why..not tell the girl to talk it out with the guy?? Leaving him now will hurt that guy.. Lamanii22: |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by bobolaga: 4:57am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Let me tall you this,by design it is taboo and course for men to be depending on women,woman can help when she knew that her man has been trying for her before,No man suppose to put his hope on women income. |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by Antichristus: 5:11am On Apr 19, 2020 |
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Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by golddare: 5:16am On Apr 19, 2020 |
VivleBriella: You are in for a long ride if he actually borrows from you for his family. It's not a bad thing to marry a bread winner at least God always bless a giver. Yes only God can bless you because most family members usually have sense of entitlement and I tell only few repays in future. When you marry a chronic breadwinner like yours you must put on your seat belt for a long ride. I called him chronic because he borrows for them. Look at the prospect, seriousness and behaviour of his so called siblings, if its encouraging then it's a good investment. In such relationships you dont declare all your assets because of his irrational behaviour. However, if you mind is telling you "egungun becareful you don dey go express" ... you know what to do. What is your mind telling you? 1 Like |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by alexsoftwork(m): 5:17am On Apr 19, 2020 |
VivleBriella: Mehn! U borrow guy 500k? Babe can I DM, can I have your number? Me I have my own money ooo I'm not a leeh or gold digger. at least I have up to 300k in my account, we can start from there I won't disturb. Above all I'm not a bread winner. Nobody send me for my family self. I don't feel entitled, I just love a working class lady like u ![]() |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by GeneralPula: 5:55am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Fake story.. ![]() |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by Elpacino481(m): 6:01am On Apr 19, 2020 |
VivleBriella:Like he rightly pointed out to you.. Tell the man how you feel. Communication is very vital in a relationship. If you can't face your man up front and tell him what's disturbing you then that relationship is not a healthy one. The Man is really insensitive. Before i advise you to quit I'll advise you to be bold, and table it out with him. Tell him your mind, tell him everything. You're obviously young that's why he's manipulating you. It's time to stand up to him. If he yells get out of the relationship. There're many good men out there. |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by Chiomatimo: 6:20am On Apr 19, 2020 |
DominusPrime:The probability that he will marry you is very slim |
Re: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by texazzpete(m): 6:26am On Apr 19, 2020 |
VivleBriella: Run far away from that leech. Don’t make the daft mistake of marrying him. |
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