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Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by acetylcholine(f): 11:03pm On Apr 17, 2020 |
@op, no be only God dey give revelation. Satan too can give revelation to mislead you. You are threading the path of destruction. It may appear she is blessing you but when she is done looting every good in your destiny and destroying your marriage, your eyes go clear. As for that your nonsense pastor. You better stay off him. I am sure you are giving him envelopes from time to time that is why he is talking gibberish. I rest my case. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by Olasco789(m): 11:06pm On Apr 17, 2020 |
Shey na u see am for dream by urself ABI na pastor talk am? If at all it's u oo dats ur God sent helper. But if you feel your blessings are enough let go off her. Baba God answer my call make my helper find me ooo |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by Nobody: 11:20pm On Apr 17, 2020 |
Don't leave your wife .....am being sincere... Am not a marriage counselor ...but every marriage has its own issshhh... It's like that ...even if u have a girlfriend and you start seeing someone else...you start seeing the good side of the new chic... Pray about it...the new chic might just want to destroy your marriage... Don't take a regretful step...seek God's intervention in your home... Best of luck |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by adexpa(m): 2:22am On Apr 18, 2020 |
Oga, I know you have had many advice but my own is that you should calm down and relax about the whole thing since the other lady is not giving you dead line. Many people are giving you straight answer cus they are not in your shoes. Calm down and do more spiritual investigation about that new woman before you take your next move. The mistake you made is not obeying instruction that you should hold on a little more before getting married. Just calm down. God will help you out. I can relate n i practically understand what you are going through. Many people don't understand spiritual connection between husband and wife, when you marry your own wife the speed at which things turn around is always a mystery. I have had many testimonies on how things turn around for many people immediately after marriage n that is the favour part of marriage that Bible mentioned( he who find his ordean wife obtain favour). God will see you through brother. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by dontjuststop: 10:20am On Apr 18, 2020 |
adexpa: Thanks for your input. It took me six months to summon the courage of posting this thread. I swear they can never understand what it feels like until they are in my shoes. I have tried to end this affair twice but we always ended up together and stronger. The lady also confided in me that since she met me, her life has turned around for the better. |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by dontjuststop: 10:30am On Apr 18, 2020 |
Ningen:I was never proud of what I did since I know its a sin and I have asked God for forgiveness. Whatever my decision is, I will surely tell her. You don't need to pity her as her future is secured even if we fall out. God has used me to help her own a chain of businesses worth several millions. Anyway thanks for your input. |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Apr 19, 2020 |
You have two balls for a reason. If you don't understand why, ask lalasticlala |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by Digmygold: 3:26pm On Apr 19, 2020 |
The new woman has nothing to do with your progress. |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by liquidfaya: 5:07pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Digmygold:What do you know about women when you married an evening newspaper? Lmfao. That's a granny not a woman. Frustration kill you there after your father threw you into the dustbin. Ha ha ha. 1 Like
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Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by Nobody: 5:23pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Sure marry a second wife if you want our house to be like Bagdad. |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by ehmmy11(m): 5:44pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Almost didn't want comment but here goes Who told you to sleep with the woman?? What if you were to make her a business partner Since her presence brings you fortunes Is she pressuring you for marriage?? If not kindly change to a platonic relationship and involve her in the business make her a manager or supervisor or something Since she already knows you are married pls advice her to get married too unless you are enjoying her and that's selfish of you.. Bury your past escapades and move on... In a country like Nigeria where things are bad economically you want to throw it all away ..nawa o some have food but can not eat some can eat but have no food.. God help us |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by ehmmy11(m): 5:50pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Olasco789:Amen and Amen Me i need that destiny helper like no tomorrow.. God answer my prayer.. |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by MPESA(m): 6:44pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Mystery9: Reread what you wrote again.... Falsely accusing a Lady you don't even know , calling her spirit etc and concluded that the first man of God he disclosed this issue is not real man of God.... Oga pastor kindly recommend or introduce him to a real man of God...BTW he clearly stated that he saw this lady in his dream a year before he met her and as well of not doing financially okay and immediately every started working for him..... And when he sent her away to Europe in other to focus in his family things slow down for him ... So why can't You give advise he's seeking for instead of judging and accusing people you don't even know. P.s Please kindly stop judging man of God because he or she weren't called by you or is he/she called to please you.... P.ss Calling this lady spirit is very bad of you.... Stop it especially if you don't know the person in question.... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by geotosin: 7:42pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
I hope bringing this issue here in the first place wouldn't leave you more confused. A lot of people you see around here are either "naive" or "too young in age or experiences" to help you in anyways. Life is a journey full of so many unprecedented things. The things of the spiritual realm can only be attended to by those who have once lived in such world. I can relate with your challenges. Now, you have alternatives: you either choose to marry a second wife or you live with contentment having little. If I were you, I would think very deeply considering the pros and cons. You might have to talk to your wife, maybe with an elderly person who understand how spiritual things work. Explain to your wife first, carry her along in the decision making, it's going to be kind of cumbersome for her to comprehend, but in the end; you both can choose what is more important to you. Meaning either the "business and money" or "family and peace". If I have to choose after getting my wife to understand such situation, I would chose the latter - family and peace. Think together and choose side together. That way, you can both understand in future what you both are either missing or enjoying. May the Lord guide you aright. Goodluck! |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by ahiboilandgas: 8:27pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
dontjuststop:covert to a muslim temporary.....muslims can marry 4 wives ,they are guided to start with 2 |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by Digmygold: 10:18pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
liquidfaya: You wey don turn Metusselah, wrinkled tool, big belle, no money for account. Gigolo granny. Where your hope? Your hope done end. ![]() ![]() You want us to end like you, ancestor Ubunja, the face of bittermess,frustration plus misery Old man no wife. God forbid. Who no go know say you get questionable character when dem see you for buka? Hahahahaha. Forever bachelor. God punish you. Na bachelor you go dey till you die. You go soon go join your queue for Mama Basira Buka. Lockdown and konji don show you pepper yet you still no think say you dey do yourself with your disgraceful comdition? Shame no dey catch you.? On top that you dey fvck poo hole as pvssy scarce you die. When them dey call person wey im life done rotten patapata. Na you be numero uno. ![]() Your hoe mother should have aborted that your useless quickie foetus i swear, see as you come useless pass gutter water. She just tear her well toto for absolutely nothing and gave birth to a bunch of maggots in human form. Muhehehehe! Hoe na im born you for randy deadbeat loser after an afternoom quickie, him come pick race. . Your outcome is not surprising. A hoe will bear a hoe and loser. Thats what you are GAYbunja.. ![]() Now keep barking. Thats the only thing you'll ever achoeve in life. Dog poobunja. |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by liquidfaya: 11:53pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Digmygold:your father rejected you. That's why you are so pissed. He must have flushed you away.
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Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by Digmygold: 11:58pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
liquidfaya: Lol. Without him i ended a rich simp. Frustrated broke wailing redpiller. You will die poor. See otondo. Bitter mofo. Self induced Sorrow and dejection turned you a wailer. Hump.and dump. At the end of the day na your destiny you dump. Madness come set in. You come sit behind computer with your wrinkles dey dream say we go join you in the hell you will forever reside in. Die alone loser. Konji and hunger na your companions. |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by liquidfaya: 8:13am On May 01, 2020 |
Digmygold:
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Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by Digmygold: 10:44pm On May 02, 2020 |
liquidfaya: You rejected every single baby. Quit wailing on NL because you are ruined. We arent joining you in your hell. Loooollll. Sit home all day fvckimg deadbeat gigolo. Broke redpiller. You fvcked the wrong pussy. That of a saint who cursed you or a witch who.cast a spell on your life or both. Hump.and dump wrinkled ruined fool. ![]() Your mental.disorder drugs have failed you. Yaba left is your abode. Muhehehehehe. |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by mechanics(m): 11:08pm On May 02, 2020 |
As a Christian, you can't marry another wife, it's better to send the lady packing before she destroys your home, that dream is just fallacy, God can't tell you in a dream that you will meet another lady that will make you rich, that's fallacy. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry A Second Wife? by ThatPetiteChic: 1:23pm On Feb 17, 2021 |
Oga dontjuststop Now that dna came out Positive, I hope you will leave the second woman alone |
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